Life, old age, illness and death, the common feelings of people, whose family will also be involved in this kind of thing. My eldest sister-in-law's husband died of illness for more than two years, she still can't get out, my husband took her to the house we bought for her in-laws to live, afraid that she was alone, she lived by herself in the summer, and when the heating came to the heating in the winter, her in-laws came up to live with her.
The sister-in-law is also in the same neighborhood and often sees her sister, but in addition to going to work, she often comes back and lies alone in the house to look at her mobile phone. New Year's also do not help us cook, eat happy to come out to eat, unhappy mother-in-law to eat in the house, depressed all day, without a little smile on her face, we all suspect that she is a little depressed.
In the past New Year, we went back, and her husband's clothes were bought by her from the inside out, since her husband was sick for more than ten years, she earned money alone, and raised a student, the conditions were not good, and she didn't buy anything. Replaced by her husband to help her, when her husband died, the child just went to the first year, these years the husband will give her daughter a monthly living expenses of 1500 yuan, as much as my daughter, there are things to give in addition, the New Year is also to give my daughter money, just give her daughter money, not biased.
The eldest sister also did not officially work in the mall to help people sell clothes, and had to pay pension insurance every month, so the family did not let her buy anything. After the in-laws returned to their hometown, she was left alone, and her husband prepared the electricity, water, gas, and Internet fees to be paid, including rice and flour grain and oil. My eldest daughter just went to work, and when she came back next week, she helped her aunt buy some daily necessities. Try not to let her spend it if you can.
The eldest sister's husband also took a lot of money before she died, and after his death, he still owed some credit cards, as well as online loans, many big sisters did not know at all. Her daughter is in college, and if not still afraid of affecting her daughter to find a job in the future. For more than two years, my husband has been paying off credit cards and online loans for his brother-in-law, thousands of months, several cards are installments, my husband does not know how much his brother-in-law owes, all help on WeChat and Alipay, for more than two years my husband has been keeping his brother-in-law's mobile phone, WeChat and Alipay have TEXT messages to remind the repayment amount and date.
After two and a half years of repayment, I heard my husband call a bank today to ask how much money was left, and he was asked to provide a death certificate to check it. I never asked when this kind of thing was done. Although my husband has a bad temper and is lazy, he has nothing to say about his parents and sisters.
Guan Jian let us not understand is the big sister, the husband died for more than two years, we also hope that she can meet the right one to find another one, after all, she is still young, but she and normal people are a little different, the husband is dead do not let people know, hidden from relatives and friends, which makes us want to be a little confused, dead people and not ashamed, who is not dead, but also afraid that others know, really have not seen such a person.
New Year's Eve we went back to a big family together, no one went to her house, she was in a bad mood, afraid of upsetting her, the family was accommodating her. Even the in-laws wanted to go back to their hometown and the countryside early when the weather was warm, and they didn't want to serve her.
We worked in the field, originally arranged for her not to work formally, after the in-laws are old, we are usually not there, we paid her to help her take care of the elderly. Now it seems that it is not OKAY, she lives here, the mother-in-law has waist pain and leg pain, and cooks for her every morning and evening, and if she is willing, she will help wash the dishes, and if she does not want to, she will not care.
We have a long holiday this year, and we don't want to see her face every day when we come back early, and we have to be careful when we talk, for fear of accidentally provoking her to be angry. I really don't know when this kind of day will come to an end, and when our family will be able to live a normal life.
