Today I went to my son's house to get my ID card and medical insurance card, and I was once again hit by reality, and it was my wife who really accompanied me to my old age. My son really can't. The truth should be understood early and prepared for yourself.
The son graduated from college at the end of last year and lived alone. The last time I went to his house, I stayed at home for more than half a month, and I didn't even have a place to get my feet. When he returned to his mother-in-law's grandfather's house for the New Year, I spent half a day cleaning up his little home. Wash what should be washed, dried what should be dried, thrown away.
Such a good little set, in his hands, can really live in the shape of a construction site. In my hands, half a day was back to what a single aristocratic apartment should have. My son's living habits are really not good, I am a mother, humble and dare not nag him in person, alas, what is the matter.
It was raining lightly outside today, and the weather in Chengdu was really not blowing when it was cold. When I got to his house, before I could enter the door, he gave me his ID card. I asked him, son, can Mom come in? Mom wants to see what the newly purchased casserole looks like?
Let him prepare a pair of slippers for me. I spent 400 yuan to buy a new casserole, the packaging was not unopened by him on the ground, but it hurt me. I just wanted him to be able to drink a steaming bowl of casserole porridge every day in the winter, just like me, and bought him a casserole pot made of original Japanese manga. As a result, he didn't even take the package off.
Forget it, never buy him anything again. Buy what you need. Before he did not stand on his own, he was given 3,000 yuan for living expenses, planned well in Chengdu, and was able to save some money, and he could not be hungry. Why do you stick it on the pole yourself?
I washed the casserole out and taught him how to cook casserole porridge. Before I could say a word, his takeaway arrived, which made me angry. I asked him, son, everything in the kitchen, everything is set up, why do you have to order takeout? A bowl of flour more than 10 yuan, what nutrition? Don't you stew some ribs yourself and stir-fry a small dish? Nutritious and thrifty, what is not good?
As a result, the son came to say a word, did not want to get it. I can't say a word. Seeing the brand new pots and pans in the kitchen, I really just want to say that it's a pity that such a good home. In charge of him, I did my duty as a mother. He himself wanted to order takeout, shouted and did not listen, hurt the stomach and stomach to suffer it himself. It wasn't me who hurt anyway. I want to open something, I want to open a point.
Walking to the living room and seeing his school bag on the floor, I picked up the bag and placed it on the cupboard on the balcony. Tell him, whether it is eaten or used, do not throw it on the ground, feng shui is not good. As a result, my son actually took the bag from the balcony cabinet and put it on the ground, saying, Mom, I live in this house, the house is mine, I love to put it as much as I want. I ignored him and went to the kitchen to cook my casserole porridge and went.
I was cooking casserole porridge when my son walked in and asked how long it would be before I finished it. I asked him what was wrong, and Mom had almost 40 minutes left to take care of the new casserole. As a result, my son said that he could not do things with peace of mind here. Wow, is it the rhythm that drives me away? Hearing him say this, I poured out the casserole porridge and told him to remember to clean the casserole and use the new ones with care. Then he hurriedly packed up and left his small house.
Along the way, I understand that it is not easy for many parents to go to their children's homes to bring their children, how do they stay? My son still lives alone, there is no other woman, I feel that I can't stay, and I want to leave every minute. I'm still making money, I'm still exporting for him, and I can't stay in his house. In the future, I will not earn money, I will rely on him to retire in the future, and I will rely on him to send him to the hospital when I get sick in the future.
A child's home cannot be the home of a parent. The home of the parents will always be the home of the child. Today I have learned that this son is unreliable. 3,000 yuan living expenses, starvation will not kill him. When he got his diploma, 3,000 yuan was not given. What the is so much for, it's really boring. For my son, my colleague is right, the "three noes" doctrine is the way to get along. No initiative, no contact, no rejection.
Or better for the uncle at home who was disgusted and disgusted by me. At least when I went to the hospital, it was uncle who cut the door to accompany me, not this son who spent my money, lived in my room, and gave me a look. Forget it, the environment he loves to live in is his business. Earn money he uses more, can't earn money I pocket bottom, no matter, love it.
It was raining outside and the wind was blowing, and it was extremely cold. After thinking through it, my pace of returning to my home was fast and steady. Go back to your own home, this is not my home.
