My daughter's mother-in-law asked me: "You gave all the demolition money of more than 2 million yuan to your son, and you actually have the face to continue to live in your son-in-law's house?" To be an old man, you want a bowl of water to be flat, and you have to come back for 1 million

My daughter's mother-in-law asked me: "You gave all the demolition money of more than 2 million yuan to your son, and you actually have the face to continue to live in your son-in-law's house?" To be an old man, you want a bowl of water to be flat, and you have to come back for 1 million. I said, "What are you mixing with my family's things?" The daughter's mother-in-law said: "I bought this house, you can go now, I don't welcome you!" ”

After my wife died, I lived in my son-in-law's house for 15 years, and recently my hometown was demolished, and I got more than 2 million yuan in demolition money, and I gave it all to my son. After the daughter learned of this, she was also a little unhappy, but everyone knew that giving property to her son was a conventional rule, and for thousands of years, everyone had done this. Am I wrong?

My daughter complained to me a few words and passed, but I did not expect that my daughter's mother-in-law actually wanted to fight for my daughter, she said to me: "Daughters and sons are the same, they have the right to inherit your property, more than 2 million demolition funds, even if it is not equally divided, you should also give your daughter 1 million ah!" ”

As if she were educating me, she said: "As an old man, you must know how to level a bowl of water, only in this way, your children will not complain." You're so eccentric now. ”

I said a little angrily, "Dear family, are you too wide-handed, what do you do with my family's affairs?" "I'm very angry with my daughter's mother-in-law. I have lived in the home of my daughter and son-in-law for 15 years, and I have nothing to say. Mainly the daughter's mother-in-law, she is a mother-in-law.

Someone may ask, you live in someone's house, you still have so much to do.

First of all, there is no doubt that the house where my son-in-law and daughter are currently living was bought by my daughter's mother-in-law. But 15 years ago, when I moved in, I gave my 80-square-meter small house to my daughter, who sold it a few years ago and bought a car of more than half a million yuan.

In addition, I have a monthly pension of 6500 and I give my son-in-law 3000 living expenses. Then I gave my son 3,000, and I gave my son-in-law money because I lived in his house. I give my son money, as long as it is for my eldest grandson.

Someone may ask you why you have a son and why you live in your son-in-law's house.

It is also a bitter tear to say, the family door is unfortunate, my daughter-in-law there is too fierce, too strong, she does not accept to live with the old man. If she didn't do what she wanted, she would divorce my son.

I had a house myself, I was only 58 years old at the time, my wife was gone, I planned to find a babysitter, but my son did not agree, saying that I did not have enough money to take the nanny. I didn't want to find a babysitter, and I didn't want to live alone. When you are old and live alone, if you suddenly disappear one day, no one else will know?

I have a colleague in my unit, 59 years old, who lives alone. One night after getting up at night, he accidentally fell, and if there was someone around him, he would not lie alone on the cold floor, and finally the person was gone. It was only after 2 days that it was discovered by our unit.

So I don't like living alone.

Later, my daughter said to me: "Dad, you go to my house to live, I will give you a pension!" "Raising children to prevent old age, but I did not expect to have a son, and my daughter is still quite filial."

At that time, I was planning to give the small house to my daughter, but my son strongly objected, and the daughter-in-law began to make trouble again, saying that if I gave the house to my daughter, she would divorce my son.

At that time, I was also very angry. Completely angry, he gave the house to his daughter, as for the daughter-in-law who wants to divorce, divorce it, don't talk about divorce without moving.

My son came and begged me. I said, "It's going to rain, the mother is going to get married, love is what she loves, and no one can take care of these things." "I was really angry, I even hated my daughter-in-law a little, her character was so bad that I didn't even know how my son looked up to her." At that time, I also thought, if I really want to leave, I will find a good one again. As a result, no one left.

I gave my son-in-law living expenses, my son knew, and he also objected, I said: "I can not give, I will go to live with you, give you 5,000 a month, are you willing?" Even the daughter-in-law disagreed. Anything else was fine, but she didn't make any concessions except for not living with the old man.

That being the case, I am no longer reluctant. For 15 years, I live in my daughter's house reasonably well, and frankly, they are very good to me, and I have not treated them badly. The reason why I gave all the demolition money to my son was the demolition of the house this time. Mainly considering that the house has been given to the daughter before.

In addition, although I have lived in my daughter's house for 15 years, I have not lived in vain, and I have given the money that should be given. I don't feel like I owe my son-in-law. My daughter's mother-in-law came to me and asked me for demolition money, which I thought was inexplicable.

I had a few arguments with her and she said she had bought the house and wasn't welcome.

The son-in-law also means this, too cold to see me again. My daughter was very cold the whole time, and seemed to be a little angry, I could see clearly, they just thought I didn't give them demolition money.

I gambled and packed up my things and went to my son's house, and my daughter didn't stop me. My daughter-in-law still refused to live with the old man, and I suddenly broke down, and people in their 70s cried out, what a sin I had done. There are children and daughters, how to come to the old age is no one to care.

I suddenly regretted it, knowing that the house had been kept. But what do I do now? I want to get back the house I gave to my daughter and the demolition money I gave to my son. How about I live in a room and take money to find a young nanny to enjoy life? The key question is, how do you get your gift back?

 People say, is my previous plan a bowl of water flat? What I'm wrong about, I still don't understand, please point it out!

@Star Stripe Emotion said

Hello Uncle! The money is touching, and everything is because of a few pieces of silver. Your problem is also a problem encountered by many elderly people, and you must treat your children with a bowl of water, only in this way, there will be no resentment in your children's hearts. Otherwise, the contradictions will continue. Your biggest mistake is that you don't have a bowl of water, and you shouldn't give the money entirely to your son, at least you take some of it yourself. And that house, you shouldn't give it either. When people are old, they have houses and tickets, and only then can they have confidence in their hearts and the capital to settle down. It is recommended that you get that money and house back and live your own life.