#How to improve your bad temper #Today, a person walking down the street happened to hear a conversation between a couple, and the woman yelled at the man: "I am such a temper, born,

#How to Improve Your Bad Temper #

Today, a person walking down the street happened to hear a couple talking, and the woman yelled at the man: "I am such a temper, born, you either put up with me or change my wife." It is very domineering and exposed, and it is a straight-forward appearance. Men look very helpless, it seems that usually not less angry, but because of the bad temper to change wives, it seems to be quite troublesome, then you have to endure it.

People often use "the country is easy to change, the disposition is difficult to move" to explain that bad temper is difficult to correct, and to find reasons and excuses for their bad temper. In fact, this is not right, now that science and technology are so developed, even genes can be changed, not to mention temper? It is so difficult to quit drugs, just like some people quit drug addiction, how can bad temper not be changed? Many people's bad tempers are not unable to change, but unwilling to change.

The incident of Wang Moufei, an executive of a company in Shaanxi Province, beating his wife has made a lot of noise on the Internet. Afterwards, colleagues reflected that he was a non-committal and cautious person in the company. In front of the wife is a bad temper, in front of the colleagues automatically switch to a good temper. This shows that many people's bad temper can be controlled.

The reason why you have a bad temper in front of you is the embodiment of disrespect for you. Men who love you will never lose their temper in front of you. You are far away from your parents and form a family with him, working hard for this family, he hurts you too late, how can you bear to lose your temper? Women love you, will understand that it is not easy for you to fight outside, it is impossible to be pampered and proud, and it is impossible to "roar the lion in Hedong, roar in the rouge tiger" at every turn. Those who have a bad temper in front of you at every turn must not love you enough.

I believe that many people are reluctant to admit this view, and more people will say that they are knife mouths and tofu hearts. But if you lose your temper, try to be happy with yourself, and say words like a knife, how can it be a tofu heart? When you stab people sentence by sentence, you will soak the blood of others. Others have been upset with you, but you downplayed it afterwards: Haha, I have a bad temper, you have to forgive. How many people can not mind at all?

The most effective way to get rid of bad temper is to suffer a big loss because of bad temper in real life. When we meet more ruthless characters, others are not accustomed to our bad temper, and we are taught to break the head and bleed, and even be injured to the skin. It is estimated that at this time, the bad temper will be corrected at once. Many people let go of their bad temper because they don't recognize the harm of bad temper, or because the people around them have always adopted a conniving and tolerant attitude towards his bad temper. Although Zhang Fei was a hero, he whipped his subordinates as soon as he drank, and in the end he did not die on the battlefield, but died in the secret calculations of his subordinates, and he could not but say that the lesson was painful. In history, because of the bad temper, friends have turned against each other, and there are many things that have moved the country to the lord. Therefore, if parents want to correct their child's bad temper, let him suffer more losses and slowly learn to be humble. The person around him has a bad temper, don't indulge him, otherwise, he won't realize that this is a flaw that can be corrected.

If you are a person with a relatively bad temper, then when doing everything, you must think about this sentence, empathize, and help us correct our bad temper.