Don't talk about money, talk about money hurts feelings.
I used to think that a person's heart had fallen into the eyes of money, which was a shameful thing.
When people reach middle age, they know that everyone has a corner in their hearts and saves money.
If you don't talk about money, you don't know how to interact with people.
Therefore, talking about money anytime and anywhere is also the self-discipline that a person should have.
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In love, being able to talk about money is true love.
Shakespeare said, "All love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan." ”
As a man, cheating on a young girl, with a rose on it. If you're going to marry a grown woman home, you're going to have to spend money. Roses, people have received a lot, a little tired.
If it is a middle-aged woman who is still in the middle of the word, then her requirements for marriage will be very realistic. What are the family conditions are the most concerned; if it is a married woman with children, most of them will not consider those very poor men, after all, the difficulties of life, are there.
There is such a point of view: "Don't fall in love with the poor boy, the poor boy with ambition will struggle." ”
A man, not working hard to make money, how to do it? When you are poor, you have no confidence in pursuing anyone. When you are looked down upon, you will be particularly uncomfortable.
If love is to become marriage, it must be tied to money, and even if two poor people plan to get married, they will make a good plan of "getting married first, and then starting a career".
Rhetorical love is all deceitful, just a stupid thing to paint bread to fill hunger.
02
In the family, if you can talk about money, you will be harmonious.
When a family is very short of money, there should be two situations: first, there is really no money in the family, often because of food and drink; second, the family is very selfish, put money in their own pockets, unwilling to take it out.
My classmate Zhang Mei was married to Shaoguan, Guangdong. Originally, there was gold everywhere in Guangdong, but I did not expect that in the circle of the rich, there were also poor mountain nests.
Zhang Mei's husband, with an annual income of less than 20,000 yuan, in addition to managing the children, also has to manage an elderly mother. The bitterness of life is self-evident.
In order to save travel expenses, Zhang Mei did not return to her mother's house for three years. When I miss my parents, I can only look at my parents through videos, chat a few words, and my mood is particularly uncomfortable, so I cry a lot.
Poverty limits a person's expectations of the family and his imagination of life.
Filial piety to parents, family travel, children studying, birth and death, food and housing, which one does not cost money?
Even harmonious families, if they do not work hard to make money, will slowly become discordant, and quarrels are inevitable. It is the so-called "poor couple Pepsi lament".
03
In friendship, you can talk about money for a long time.
Someone said: "The boat of friendship is turned over, and it is enough to talk about money once." ”
In life, you should have had the experience of suddenly remembering a very good friend when you needed money and calling him. The other party was stuck for half a day and refused to borrow money. Later, the phone could not be called.
Aesop's Fables writes: "When we forge friendships, we should choose those who can be beside us in times of danger as allies." ”
Truly reliable friends, in your most difficult times, still do not give up. Maybe he doesn't have much money, but will definitely do everything he can to empty his wallet and help you.
Usually, friends interact and communicate, and they also talk about money. Let's say a friend wants to invest in entrepreneurship and wants everyone to help. After some consultation, friends have money to pay, no money to contribute, everyone to collect firewood flame high.
Friends who like to eat and drink, look very happy, very generous to say, in fact, "with a ghost fetus", as long as it involves the issue of interests, it will not be silent.
In the real world, friends who "use each other" are also valuable, and everyone's heart will be very frank.
Let's say you communicate with a customer and generously put money on the table. What to do if you make money? At a loss, how to continue? As soon as they came and went, they became friends.
04
In the workplace, you can talk about money to have motivation.
Many years ago, I went to work in a small factory in Dongguan.
At the beginning, the boss said: "Look at the efficiency, and then decide on the salary issue." ”
After a month on the job, I was very nervous every day. What is the salary level? In case the boss plays tricks, it is not "reasonable and unclear".
In an interview, actress Liu Yuling said her own view of money: "My father told me that everything is business, I work hard to make a lot of money, and named them 'Fxxk you money'. ”
When a person knows that work will not bring income, he will lose the joy of work and feel that he is oppressed to do things at any time.
As the saying goes: "People go high, water flows low." ”
Fiercely make money, the income is quite rich, for middle-aged people, it is the real "high place".
With money, there is enthusiasm for work; there is a lot of savings, and for unpleasant work, you can let go at any time and seek another high.
People reach middle age, put away your "generosity". When working, putting money in an important position, sacrificing your time and energy in exchange for a word of "praise", the meaning is not very great.
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When people reach middle age, money is the cure for everything.
When you have low self-esteem, if you think that you have money, you have the confidence to look up and look at people at eye.
When cornered, money is the basis for investment and business, and it is the "talking capital" for cooperation with people.
When feelings are not harmonious, there is still money to share, and the mood will not be too bad.
Spend money on your parents, spend money on gifts, give a little more alimony, and your parents will be happier.
Tell your children that they have money, they just need to study hard, they can, the child will be more confident.
Zhang Ailing said: "I like money, because I have suffered from no money, I don't know the disadvantages of money, I only know the benefits of money." ”
Money is not a panacea, you can't buy everything in the world, but money can make you more valuable, and when it is critical, it can also save your life.
Whose middle age is not a bloody storm? After a while of embarrassment, you know what helplessness is.
Go to bed early and get up early every day, raise your body, make money fiercely, the more self-disciplined, the better your life.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.