After eight years of taking children at her son's house, my daughter-in-law has been picking and choosing with me for nearly two years, and I know that she is deliberately looking for stubble to get me out, and my daughter came to let me go to her house, but how can I be so kind to go to my daughter's house

Eight years with children in my son's house, my daughter-in-law's nearly two years of picking and choosing with me, I know that she is deliberately looking for stubble to get me out, my daughter came to let me go to her house, but how can I be so kind to go to my daughter's house? I finally made a deliberate decision, my daughter-in-law listened, and went crazy to let me go home with her, but can I go back?

I am 72 years old this year, and my pension is more than three thousand points. I have a son and a daughter, I just like boys a little more, after giving birth to a son, I deliberately put the family tree supplement in my house, just waiting for my son to get married and give me a big fat grandson.

The reason why I said I was embarrassed to go to my daughter's house was because I was a child, I was toward my son, at that time the family was poor, but everything I had a little bit of delicious food I would leave for my son, such as a piece of cake I would eat directly to my son, once because my daughter tasted my brother's cake, I chased her with a shovel.

If I had a watermelon in my house, I would hide it and cut it for my son to eat at night when my daughter was asleep.

I can't afford so many children, so I can only let my son go to college and let my daughter graduate from junior high school and go out to work. My daughter still regrets not being able to enter the university campus.

Let's talk about my son, I am good to him because he has to raise me old, in our case, the boy is responsible for providing for his parents in the future, so the money and things are the son's, and the daughter does not want to touch it.

I bought a house for my son, married my daughter-in-law, and my daughter-in-law was also angry, and within two years she gave birth to a big fat grandson for me, when my wife had been dead for three years, and finally I could only let me see the children for them.

I went from being an old man who couldn't cook rice to a home expert, how to say it? These eight years of my life have been painful and happy. I went from being 64 years old to now being 72 years old, and my body is not as good as a day.

Since last year, my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me has changed, picking and choosing all day, the food is not appetizing, she said that I have a heavy mouth, and I can't eat a piece of it. When my grandson fell, she said I was old and useless. He often said to me: "Dad, you can enjoy your leisure in the future, my class is just suitable for picking up and dropping off children."

I finally understood that she didn't need me, but I pretended not to understand, and my daughter-in-law was enlightened when she saw that the hint was useless. Knowing that I have a nervous breakdown and a bad heart, I deliberately got up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet and made a lot of noise, I couldn't sleep with a little movement, and I was not good for a few days, and I almost went to the hospital.

When my daughter came to see me, she found that my mental state was particularly bad, and she asked me what was wrong? I was spitting bitterly with my daughter, and my daughter wanted to take me to her house, so how could I be so kind to go to my daughter's house?

Because of this incident, my daughter and daughter-in-law had a very unpleasant quarrel, and eventually I went to my daughter's house. It is said that my daughter is my father's little cotton jacket, I didn't believe it before, but when I got to my daughter's house, I really lived a blessed life, I didn't have to do anything, and the only bedroom in the family let me live. She took the child to sleep in the living room, the daughter will specifically tell the two granddaughters to get up at night to make a little noise not to affect the grandfather's sleep, the two children are really well educated by the daughter, well-behaved and obedient, often make me happy.

I felt even more guilty because I had not only treated my son and daughter differently, but I had also treated my grandson and granddaughter differently.

Now in this rented house, my daughter will soak my feet and squeeze toothpaste every day, and my son-in-law will also be respectful to me on the few days of every month, and I don't know how to get better.

I gave my daughter a salary card, hoping that her life would be more comfortable, and that my daughter would not live or die, so that I could keep myself on my back, on the contrary, my daughter-in-law had already come to me once, and the purpose was to take half of her salary, and she said: "Half of my salary is divided, we are our own grandchildren, and we don't want your full salary to take care of you."

I directly rejected her, she said I don't expect them to give me a pension in the future, I am really remorseful, I am sorry for my daughter.

At this time, the family's old house was demolished, I directly asked for a house and 1.3 million yuan in savings, and I wrote the name of the house as my daughter.

My son and daughter-in-law knew that I had written the house as my daughter's name, and they went straight to me, and my son said to me, "Dad, are you stupid?" This house must belong to my son? He is the heir to your family tree. ”

The daughter-in-law then said, "If you do this, I will change my son to his mother's surname and see who is cruel?"

The temptation of money is so great that I didn't expect them to say so, and for a moment, my daughter said, "Dad, don't be embarrassed!" This house I can't want. ”

I said to my son fiercely, "Well, because your sister doesn't have a house, I live with your sister again." The house your sister has a permanent residence, until she a hundred years later this house will not belong to your son, as for the 1.3 million, I keep 300,000, you and your sister alone 500,000, I will divide it now. ”

The daughter-in-law directly shouted: "Are we going to wait until the house makes her live down?" Why give her 500,000, she is a daughter who marries out and should not share the money. Would you come back? We raise you, the money and the house without her share. ”

Money can make a person suddenly become "filial piety." I knew that she only said this because she was interested in my money, so I said, "I am old-age in my daughter's house, and in the future you should take alimony and alimony, and if you don't want to take alimony, you will be given 100,000 less, and that's it."

Daughter-in-law slipped away, I don't know if my decision is unfair, although the son and daughter-in-law are not filial piety, but I really can't do it without dividing them, the 300,000 in my hand If there is no accident, I will spend it on my daughter, do you think my division is still fair? I didn't agree to go to my son's house for the elderly, right?

@Wei Wei Wei Wei said: The son's family only wants to ask for things, but does not want to fulfill their obligations, which is the result of the old man's long-term eccentricity, they feel that everything in the family should be theirs, once they make a fair division, they feel that they have suffered losses.

I think your division is fair, some people may think that such a son and daughter-in-law should have no points, but as a long-term eccentric old man, it is not easy for him to do so.

If you go back to your son's home, the money can't be saved, and if you don't get it right, you have to find your daughter after the pension, and then you really have no face to come to your daughter's home, everyone says?