On the second day of her son's wedding, her mother-in-law came to the house to tell her daughter-in-law: "The men of our old Liang family should not do three things at home, not cooking, not sweeping the floor, and not washing." Daughter-in-law's back

On the second day of her son's wedding, her mother-in-law came to the house to tell her daughter-in-law: "The men of our old Liang family should not do three things at home, not cooking, not sweeping the floor, and not washing." The daughter-in-law's answer was absolutely desperate: "And the only thing we have to do when we are old is not to be your daughter-in-law."

Cousin Yu Chengyuan married, and her husband Liang Huan was busy on the day of their wedding, getting up very early in the morning, from making up in the morning to hosting guests after the wedding, and there was no rest for a day. She said she had planned to go back to the door the next morning, but she was too sleepy, and called my aunt early the next morning and said they would come back later and come over for dinner.

Originally, the cousin and the two of them planned to sleep for a while, but they were too sleepy. As a result, early in the morning, I was woken up by my mother-in-law's knock on the door. I didn't want to pay attention to it, but the knock on the door just didn't stop, however, eventually my cousin got up a little impatiently, opened the door and found that it was her mother-in-law knocking at the door.

The cousin quickly invited her mother-in-law into the house, rubbed her eyes, and then she went back to her room and told her husband to get up. She thought to herself that they had just gotten married. The mother-in-law came this early in the morning and did not know what she was going to do. Then her mother-in-law said, "It's all right, you're busy with yours." Leave me alone. But after saying that, he did not go, but sat down in a chair.

Then she went to the bathroom to wash up, and by the way asked her husband to fry 3 eggs, hot milk, and simply make breakfast. Her husband, immediately went into the kitchen to prepare breakfast, but did not expect the mother-in-law to hear the movement of the kitchen, hurried to stop the son, signaled the son to go out, the cousin obediently came out of the kitchen, the cousin washed up, saw, how can she let the mother-in-law make breakfast, she rushed into the kitchen, called the mother-in-law to the living room to drink tea, and then came to make breakfast herself.

She made breakfast and brought it to the living room for her mother-in-law and husband to come over for breakfast, and her mother-in-law said she had eaten. Then her mother-in-law sat down on the couch and began to speak. She said: "Remember, we old Liang men don't do these 3 things at home: don't wash, don't cook, don't sweep the floor, you hear? Men do great things. It's okay to be lazy at home, women should be a good helper for men. Once a woman is married, she can't be as lazy as she used to be. Everything in the house should be done. ”

The cousin said that her mother-in-law was looking at the words she said, which was obviously said to my cousin, and she immediately got angry and gave her husband a hint of a look, but her husband did not speak, and she suddenly understood something. Before marriage, her mother-in-law did not make any requests, and posed as a good mother-in-law in front of outsiders, originally waiting for them to get married. She thought she would be able to control her cousin's married life after marriage. Who expected my cousin to smile and say without showing weakness: "And the only thing we have to do when we are old in the family is not to be your daughter-in-law."

Yu Cheng then proposed a divorce to her husband, and neither her husband nor her mother-in-law agreed, especially her mother-in-law called my aunt and uncle on the spot, complaining that my cousin was too willful, just a few words, she was going to divorce. At first, when my aunt and aunt heard the news, they were also very angry, after all, these two people had just married, this was not nonsense. Then he scolded Yu Cheng on the phone, and when his cousin said the reason for the divorce, his aunt and aunt changed their attitude and expressed their support for Yu Cheng's divorce. After all, such a daughter, far away from marrying to another province, parents who hear that their daughter has been wronged is naturally not a taste.

Hearing her parents support her, she turned into the room, packed her bags and returned to her mother's house, and when she returned home, she quickly sorted out a divorce agreement, and the courier was given to her husband, she was not willful, nor was she threatening her husband's family with divorce, she was determined to divorce.

What do you think about that? Think she should get a divorce?

@Early Morning Dawn

First of all, the reason why Yu Cheng wanted to divorce was that her mother-in-law deliberately came to her son's house and said something that made Yu Cheng disgusted. Her mother-in-law spoke like a commander-in-chief, which was very uncomfortable, and it seemed that her husband also agreed with her mother-in-law's statement.

Your cousin's mother-in-law concept is too old-fashioned, always think that women should do housework, men are born not to do housework, in fact, machismo is a manifestation of not being willing to take on family responsibilities. The main thing is that your cousin does not have an attitude, your cousin is far away from marriage, originally there are no relatives and friends around the man's family, if the husband is on her side, he really feels like an outsider in this family. No wonder your cousin wants a divorce.

But it is understandable that their generation had different ideas from today's young people. Maybe her mother-in-law was just lip service, although her husband did not refute her mother-in-law at that time, but before her mother-in-law intervened, the husband and wife got along quite harmoniously. In fact, you can give men a chance. It doesn't have to be divorced. The article mentions that the mother-in-law came to her house early in the morning, indicating that it is not living with the mother-in-law, and that the future life is spent with the two families, and it is not with the elderly. It is recommended that your cousin communicate well with your cousin-in-law and do not divorce easily. As the saying goes: it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage.

 Men, if they are not even willing to take on the responsibilities in a small family, how to feel responsible, and how to achieve great things. It is said that men are used to do big things, but often many men do not do housework at home, do not do small things, and do not do big things.

A family needs to be run by husband and wife, from discussing major matters to doing housework together, in fact, doing housework together can enhance the feelings of husband and wife, and can also make men more responsible for the family. #Emotion##Affective Firm# #我要上头条 #