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"The Perfect Partner" has a plot that makes people feel particularly sad to watch.
Chen Shan and Sun Lei, a couple, two people lying on a bed, but with their backs to each other, each holding his own mobile phone to chat with others, Sun Lei and Wu Min chatted, because Wu Min ran away from home, he comforted her, worried about her, but also cared about her.
And Chen Shan chatted with Wu Min's husband Lin Qingkun, Lin Qingkun called Wu Min, she did not answer the phone, so she suspected that Wu Min was with Sun Lei, so she sent a message to Chen Shan, asking her if Sun Lei was at home, and when she learned that he was at home, Lin Qingkun was relieved, and then the two also exchanged a few words.
They were lying on the same bed, but they were worrying about others, Chen Shan asked Lin Qingkun, are you and your wife okay? Sun Lei asked Wu Min, are you and your husband okay? After the two people got a good answer, they said goodnight to each other before putting down their phones.
The two of them look like a very different couple in real life, two people lying on a bed, but each playing with their own mobile phones, each chatting with others, and then the husband and wife do not talk to each other because of gambling.
In the past, we always felt that the feelings of a couple should be getting better and better, getting along for a long time, being together for a long time, two people will become more intimate, there will be endless words, there are many new things to share with each other every day, and the two people will become more and more intimate.
But in fact, no, many couples, in the end, may be like Chen Shan and Sun Lei, looking at each other, it seems that the feelings of the two people are very good, that is just outsiders look good, in fact, they have become very distant from each other.
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There is no such thing as a perfect couple in this world.
In real life, we often see some couples who look very perfect, called templates, men are very distressed about their wives, sympathetic to their wives, women also love their husbands, the two Qinser and Ming, people are very envious.
We will also look forward to having such a marriage, hoping that we can find an object with ourselves, which is a beautiful expectation in the hearts of many people.
So when people enter marriage with this kind of beautiful expectation, they may really live a good life at the beginning, and life is quite beautiful, but after a few years, they will find that there is such a big gap between the original reality and their own fantasies, and the original beauty has become no longer beautiful.
In fact, there is no perfect couple in this world, those who look perfect on the outside, in fact, the inside of their marriage is also full of all kinds of unbearable, but we outsiders do not know.
I remember a popular saying on the Internet that even the best couples will have a hundred urges to divorce and fifty times to strangle each other.
This is the truest form of marriage, there is no absolutely perfect couple, only a couple who can get by, because those who can't get by end are divorced.
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The relationship between husband and wife is very good at the beginning, but over time, each other's feelings will become worse and worse, worse and worse, and may even get worse and worse.
Because two people live together, life is full of all kinds of trivial things, may be today for the sake of housework who does the contradiction, tomorrow may be for the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions, the day after tomorrow may be for how to spend money and contradictions, anyway, the contradictions in life are endless.
You must not be delusional, it is good to solve the current contradictions, it is impossible, because as long as you live together, there will be contradictions, and if you solve the old contradictions, new contradictions will arise.
And these contradictions, on the relationship between husband and wife, will definitely have an impact, will make the feelings between husband and wife a gap, so that the hearts of the two people are more and more distant.
Those couples who are very good on the surface, they may only be superficial, in fact, when they return home, there are only two people, they may also take off their masks and be the most authentic of them
Maybe they don't have so many words between them, maybe they don't want to talk to each other, maybe they also lose the desire to communicate with each other, maybe they are like Chen Shan and Sun Lei, each holding their own mobile phone, chatting with others, saying goodnight to others.
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Article illustration | Stills from "The Perfect Companion"