In the marriage relationship, women's complaints are always more than men's, especially in the relationship between the male and female protagonists, women always feel that they are widowed parenting, men do not know what to do outside all day, are not considerate and concerned about themselves, and do not care about the parenting of children.
Wu Min in "Perfect Partner" is a typical person who can't get warm companionship in marriage, wants warmth but doesn't know how to want it, only to express it with complaints and hatred, and finally files for divorce in a very unwilling situation.
In the relationship between Wu Min and Lin Qingkun, Wu Min played a good deck of cards poorly, only because she wanted to warm up and hug the wrong way.
Wu Min's husband Lin Qingkun earns tens of millions of dollars a year, Wu Min, as a full-time wife, does not need to do anything herself, physical work is handed over to housekeeping, she only needs to accompany her son with high quality, and let him feel the warmth from his wife when Lin Qingkun returns home.
However, what Wu Min does is completely what a nanny does, doing everything herself, making herself a yellow-faced woman who works in tedious family affairs without being cared for by her husband.
Wu Min's husband, Lin Qingkun, is busy with hundreds of millions of cases outside, and when he returns home, he wants a warm harbor and a home that makes him feel at ease.
The sense of solidity that Lin Qingkun wants is not only someone ironing clothes and cooking three meals a day, but also physical and mental relaxation.
But Wu Min did not let Lin Qingkun feel the sense of peace of mind he wanted, except to tidy up his home in an orderly manner.
Lin Qingkun has been working outside for many years, and as a housewife who only knows how to circle around the family, Wu Min, is very eager for a warm hug from her husband. This is understandable, but she has used the wrong method.
Women should know that complaining will never get more love from men, on the contrary, it will make men feel that their wives are unreasonable, which will lead to disgust.
For example, their son suffered from food poisoning, and Wu Min kept complaining that Lin Qingkun did not answer the phone, did not return messages, and did not go to the hospital to see his son.
Is complaining useful? If complaining is useful, what else is needed to communicate?
Lin Qingkun himself could not get out of his body, sent an assistant over, Wu Min said that there is no need for an assistant, which will also make Lin Qingkun feel unreasonable, since you can solve the problem, and angry and complaining about it?
If Wu Min told Lin Qingkun positively that our mother and son were very helpless at this time and needed the hugs from their husbands and fathers, only in this way would we not feel afraid, and maybe their relationship would be different.
Wu Min accidentally gave birth, the doctor suggested staying in the hospital for observation for a day, Lin Qingkun said that he needed to be hospitalized, but Wu Min gambled not to stay in the hospital for observation, and punished men with his body, which is simply stupid, the more he uses this way, the more he can't get the love of men.
Men will think, aren't you able to do it? Well, let you get away with it.
Therefore, when Wu Min said "you can't use cold water", Lin Qingkun asked "Can't the door be opened?" ”
When the neighbor Jin Jie brought food to Wu Min's house to prepare two drinks, Wu Min dragged the body that had just given birth to a small meal for them, it seemed that Lin Qingkun did not know how to be considerate of her, in fact, such a consequence was completely Wu Min's own doing.
Because Wu Min did not let Lin Qingkun white from the front, women need the love from their husbands at this time.
And Wu Min, as a full-time wife, did not even know that she was 80 days pregnant, and that she should have taken two menstrual leave on 80 days, but she did not know that according to the division of labor, she did lose her responsibility.
It is said that a good woman is a school, and she will teach men how to love themselves and their families.
Obviously, in the school of marriage, Wu Min did not teach Lin Qingkun how to love herself, love her son, and love their family.
Lin Qingkun believes that the two of them have performed their respective duties and have done a good job of earning money to support their families, why is there so much dissatisfaction in Wu Min's internal affairs?
In the relationship between Wu Min and Lin Qingkun, Wu Min played a good deck of cards, only because she wanted to warm hug the wrong way, she did not teach Lin Qingkun if she loved herself and loved her son.
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