The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Since her mother-in-law is old, Ms. Du has not been once, and her husband has repeatedly persuaded Ms. Du to give up her previous prejudices and do a part of her daughter-in-law's filial piety, but for Ms. Du, she does not think so, after all, when she was young, her mother-in-law could say that she did not care about herself, but she did her best for her daughter, so Ms. Du was angry, so she said to her husband: No one takes care of me, I should go to her daughter for the elderly.
Ms. Du's husband is the eldest in the family, behind him, there is a sister who is five years younger than him, because of his younger age, so the husband's sister has lived in the family's pampering since childhood. Even after Ms. Du and her husband got married, Ms. Du took great care of this little sister-in-law.
When the sister-in-law got married, as an older brother and sister-in-law, she naturally had to do her part, not only that, but the mother-in-law also let the sister-in-law bring a lot of dowries to the in-laws' family, and those dowries, even now Ms. Du recalled, were also very hot.
After all, at the beginning, when she and her husband got married, the bride price had not yet risen, and after Ms. Du married into her in-laws' family, her family was surrounded by walls, and there was not even a decent house, and finally through her own and her husband's diligent hands, she lived a rich life bit by bit.
For so many years, the mother-in-law has never asked herself how she is living, even if Ms. Du is pregnant, the mother-in-law is only symbolically to take care of Ms. Du for a few days.
But when the sister-in-law was pregnant, the mother-in-law immediately went to her home, from pregnancy to the birth of the child, including the sister-in-law's confinement, the whole time was taken care of by the mother-in-law, and she never left for a moment.
Although Ms. Du has an opinion on this, she did not directly raise it.
What really makes the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law erupt is another act of the mother-in-law.
Husband because of some setbacks in her career, in desperation, Ms. Du can only go out to work in exchange for some meager family income, because the children still need to go to school at that time, no one picks up, Ms. Du plans to take the mother-in-law to the home, take care of the child's living problems.
Ms. Du had thought that even if her mother-in-law had prejudices against herself, she could not sit idly by for her grandson.
However, what Ms. Du did not expect was that her mother-in-law actually refused her request on the grounds that she had something to do, but later, Ms. Du heard from the mouth of others that her mother-in-law was at her sister-in-law's house during that time and helped her take care of the child.
Since then, the contradiction between Ms. Du and her mother-in-law has been completely intensified.
Although in the end the husband also heard about this matter, but after all, it was his mother and sister, he was not convenient to say anything more, and the husband could only try to enlighten Ms. Du, hoping that she would not have an insight with his mother.
But Ms. Du did not think so: Although the sister-in-law is your own daughter, but I am also your daughter-in-law, even if you are biased, it is reasonable to treat differently, but you are so eccentric, so if so, then we are considered two families, in the future I don't ask about my affairs, I don't care about your affairs.
Therefore, in the future life, even if Ms. Du encounters great difficulties, she has never opened her mouth to her mother-in-law, and she has silently borne it herself.
The mother-in-law also treated this coldly, and never took the initiative to ask ms. Du about the situation of the family.
For so many years, Ms. Du's relationship with her mother-in-law once dropped to a freezing point, and her husband was watching from the sidelines, and he was powerless.
Time flies, the mother-in-law is getting older, and gradually, she begins to have mobility problems and needs someone to take care of her, and at this moment, the mother-in-law remembers her daughter-in-law.
However, the mother-in-law did not tell Ms. Du directly what she meant, but through Ms. Du's husband, she let Ms. Du know about it.
And after Ms. Du listened to her mother-in-law's meaning, she couldn't help but snort coldly: Now that the pension remembers me, how did you treat me in the first place, why do you want me to raise you old, since you are so precious to your daughter, go find your daughter.
The husband seemed to have expected that Madam Du would have such an attitude, shook his head helplessly, and stopped speaking. After all, everything that has happened over the years, as a husband, is naturally very clear in his heart, how his mother treats his wife, and the husband also sees it in his eyes.
It is precisely because when she was young, the mother-in-law did not care about the daughter-in-law, and put all her energy on the daughter who had been married, as a daughter-in-law, how could there be no opinion in her heart, for so many years, the mother-in-law never had half a point of care for herself, and when she was old, as a daughter-in-law, how could she raise her mother-in-law's old age regardless of previous suspicions.
As the saying goes, everything has a result and a cause, in many cases, do not blindly persuade a person to beat it, because you will never know what she has experienced in the past.
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