To capture high-quality men, we must understand the decentralized marriage and love architecture model

1. To capture high-quality men, we must understand the decentralized marriage and love architecture model, and our marriage relationship will be recorded on the blockchain in the future.

Today's marriage and love structure model is centralized, and marriage needs to be registered with the Civil Affairs Bureau, and divorce must also be registered.

This centralized marriage and love structure model actually monopolizes everyone's marital relationship and hinders everyone's diversified choices, and only a very small number of people are not restricted.

The centralized marriage and love architecture model will inevitably lead to all kinds of problems, divorce, infidelity, some people can't find the right partner in their lifetime, and some people are painfully with people they don't like.

Marriage is to prepare for divorce, if only marriage, no divorce, the civil affairs bureau people have nothing to do, divorce lawyers have nothing to do.

If you don't get married, then there is no divorce, two people really love each other, combined, why go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register? Many people do not think about this problem and take it for granted.

After the two people are combined, they only need to be recorded on the blockchain, and the responsibilities and obligations of both parties are fulfilled through smart contracts, which is the decentralized marriage and love architecture model.

Only by understanding the decentralized marriage architecture model can you really get the blockchain boss.

People's wealth is the product of their ideas, whether it is a blockchain bigwig, or a virtual currency upstart, the concept of decentralization has gone deep into their blood.

There used to be a girl who found a billionaire big man, but their chat and communication needed me to translate.

It's all about Chinese, so why do I need to translate it? Because the two of them didn't seem to be people of the same world, she couldn't understand the meaning behind the big guy's words.

So sometimes, girls can't get the top quality men, it's really not that you are not beautiful enough, not good enough, but that your thinking mode and cognitive system can't keep up.

2. To capture high-quality men, we must abandon the thinking of the bottom di si women, what is the thinking of the bottom di si women?

They never know who they are, do not know what kind of object to find, have vague self-positioning, have great problems with the concept of mate selection, and are too much in pursuit of appearance and feelings.

They are too self-righteous, they think they are very smart, in fact, they are all small smart, there is no small wisdom, small wisdom is actually stupid to the extreme, but they do not want to admit it.

Few people are willing to admit that they are stupid, even if she is extremely stupid, and only people with great wisdom will admit that they are stupid, so that they can continue to evolve.

They have too low emotional intelligence, emotional instability, do not like to learn, like to daydream, like "white prostitutes", and pursue free services, like fast things, and have no sense of giving and long-term thinking.

They complain every day that negative energy is too heavy, IQ is too low, always hovering at the bottom of society, very easy to be instigated, like locusts on the Internet, very fond of attacking others.

There was a bai fumei practitioner who was attacked by the low-level female dick silk to withdraw from the net, and the attack was a little depressed, and they were too jealous of women who were better off than them.

They put the words "feminism" and "male rights" on their lips every day, but the real meaning of "women's rights" is not understood at all, and they do not want to delve into it, and they will only follow the trend without a brain.

It is really sad that they attribute their incompetence and failure to the oppression of "male power".

They will never become Deng Wendi, Gambi, Zhang Zetian, let alone Dong Mingzhu and Tu Youyou.

Can they still be saved? I don't know. Why do we have to "save"? Wouldn't that be nice?

Anyway, in this world, most people have spent their lives in mediocrity, and the outstanding are a few, so let's make it up.

3. To capture high-quality men, we must have the thinking of strong women, what is the thinking of strong women?

They are strong women, but not strong women, they should be strong and strong, they should be gentle and gentle, they are adaptable, so they are the most attractive and most popular with men.

They never attribute their failures to external factors, they always look for reasons from themselves, constantly reflect, keep hungry, keep stupid.

So they never complain, they have very little negative energy in them, and men really enjoy being with them.

They never want all kinds of privileges because they are women, they understand that privileges need to be fought for by their own efforts, and they are the real "women's rights" spokespersons.

They never feel inferior to men just because they are women, and what men can do, they can do, or even better.

It's just that they are too wise, understand that life is a trade-off, and some things don't want to do.

They are very good at balancing career and family, they will rely on men, but never rely on men, they work well, their feelings are brilliant, their families are harmonious, they are really independent women.

They are always learning, always growing, always evolving, such a woman, looking for a man can be worse? It's definitely not a giant or a big guy.

Sometimes it's not that they're looking for men, it's that men are struggling to find them, real men, and they like strong women the most.

Some women advertise themselves as strong women, but can't find the right object, such women are not real strong women, which is different from the meaning of "strong women" as I understand it.

4. Teacher Cheng is good, I am a 37-year-old leftover girl, now I am forced to marry by my parents every day, I quarrel with my parents at home, I want to be with men I don't like, I am anxious every night insomnia can not sleep, what should I do now?

I think your biggest problem is not "older" or "leftover women", but no independence at all.

A 37-year-old adult, talking about love and marriage these things, you can't do the Lord yourself, but also your parents to decide, you say how sad, lamentable, angry you are?

Are you still a person? Are you still a woman? You are not alone, you are the private property of your parents, and they decide where you will go.

You may say: They are parents, and children listen to their parents, is it not natural?

You have a brain disease, who told you that it is only natural to listen to your parents? What parents say must be true?

You are yourself first and foremost your parents' children, you are not anyone's private property, and no one can force you to do things you don't want to do.

A thing, if you don't want to do it, even if millions of people force you, you don't do it, a thing, if you want to do it, even if thousands of people stop you, you have to do it.

This is the real strong, this is the real strong woman, this is the real independent woman.

Can you do it? You can't do it because your brain is washed out, by the confucian hierarchy of rags.

The Confucian hierarchy is to tell you that even if your parents, leaders, and husbands are a waste, a garbage person, you must listen to them.

The Confucian hierarchy tells you that you are born the private property of your parents, and after marriage, you are the private property of your husband.

What should you do now? Completely throw the rags of the Confucian hierarchy into the trash and arm yourself with a whole new idea: natural human rights, all men are created equal.

If your parents push you again, you will arrest your parents and beat them up, just as they beat you when they were children.

Your parents persecute you like this, indicating that they are mediocre and incompetent, and may also be a garbage and waste, such parents, you should educate them well.

5. True love must be evenly matched, do not need you to blindly give in, patience, accommodation, if you always do this, will not be exchanged for his sincere treatment, will only shake his determination to continue to walk with you.

Here to explain, the meaning of parity is not to say how much money he makes in a year, you also want to make how much money in a year, in the emotional battlefield, your competitors are not men, but other women.

Some things can be accommodated, because in the process of getting along, everyone's personality, living habits, and eating habits are different, and one party must be accommodated to the other.

But accommodating to the other party also needs a bottom line, everyone's bottom line is different, where is your bottom line?

Some people say that men cheating and prostituting once or twice is okay, can be forgiven, some people say that men are determined not to do this kind of thing, you have to think clearly in advance, where your bottom line is, and tell each other your bottom line.

If the other party touches your bottom line, then the game is finished and over, so hurry up and change the next one.

If you don't have a bottom line, or if your bottom line is low, and men often do incredible things, you forgive him again, you're afraid of falling out with him, you're afraid of losing him.

Fear of things will always happen, and in the end he really leaves you, because you have no bottom line, men think the game is not fun, not interesting, not challenging, it is better to change someone.