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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Women have different needs for affection at different ages.
Young girls, like to pursue romantic love, eager to enjoy the freshness of love with men.
However, when women reach middle age, they gradually look down on the romance in love, and pay more attention to the texture of love that men bring to them.
Women at this stage will not pursue stimulation as before, but will integrate feelings into a dull life.
From love to marriage, they are more mature in their minds and are accustomed to pursuing emotional harmony in trivial life.
When men can give them more love feelings and textures, they can make them safe in the center of life, after all, a stable life is the best foundation of feelings.
Therefore, men must learn to read women's needs, can not ignore their inner feelings, as long as they give them more feelings, in order to stabilize their tired hearts.
Generally speaking, the married life that middle-aged women want is mostly to get three feelings, and many men may not understand it, hoping that you will pay attention to it.
First, the feeling of peace of mind, having a stable life
Women after middle age are most eager to have a sense of peace of mind, and they hope to live a stable life and live a plain and happy life.
At this time, men must know how to care for women, do not snub them, and cannot ignore them.
A woman's peace of mind in marriage is the basis of emotional harmony, they get your love, feel your sincerity, and will naturally be better for you.
If men ignore women, always let them suffer from gains and losses, and even make life a mess, it will only make women feel tired and cannot see future happiness.
In this way, women will become less confident, so that they do not have any expectations of you, and their feelings for each other will be indifferent.
A stable life is indispensable to marital happiness, and when you can give a woman a stable life, she will be full of confidence and more determined about the future.
Therefore, after the age of 40, men must give women a sense of peace of mind.
In life, men should have a strong sense of responsibility, be able to make the family run normally, and try to make the days textured.
In fact, women really don't need men to give them much money, they value men's responsibilities more, and planning for the future.
When you have a clear plan and work towards the future step by step, women will definitely be more determined and more persistent in their love.
Although some men have not made achievements, they have a strong sense of responsibility, are particularly down-to-earth, and can bring women a sense of peace of mind, and women will naturally follow them wholeheartedly.
But some men are different, they lack a sense of responsibility, obviously live a chicken feather, there is no intention of effort, but also always lose their temper with women, women will naturally be particularly disappointed.
Therefore, men must take into account women's feelings, give them a stable life, and when she feels at ease, she will definitely leave you.
Second, the feeling of being favored, full of confidence in marriage
After marriage, the most intolerable thing a woman can tolerate is the infidelity of a man, and once you can't give her a favor, she will be particularly disappointed in you.
Many times, a woman does not love, not that she does not want to live with you, but that she is let down by you and does not get favoritism from you.
In life, many men will change in marriage, they are very good to other people of the opposite sex, but not good for the women around them, which is not right.
The best love for a woman is to be loyal and single-minded, no matter what the future holds, as long as you give the woman more preferences she wants, she will naturally be willing to be with you.
If you always ignore women after marriage and can't resist the ambiguity outside, how can women stay with you for a lifetime?
No matter what kind of woman, she hopes that the man will always love her alone and always put her in his heart.
Men don't think that women after middle age don't need to be favored, in fact, they need you to cherish her and take care of her.
When she needs you, you are always there, no matter what happens, you may be with her and dispel all the hardships and hardships for her.
In this way, women will definitely be more determined about marriage, full of confidence, and accompany you to the whitehead.
Feelings are intolerable to be half-hearted, men must pay attention in this regard, if you behave restlessly in marriage, you will eventually pay a price for it.
When a woman loves you, she will tolerate everything about you, and once you have failed her, she will no longer have any expectations of you and will be ruthless to you to the end.
When you truly love only one woman in your life, give her the favor she wants, and always put her in your heart, she will definitely stand firmly with you and go to the future together.
Third, the feeling of life is worry-free, not worried about money
Women after the age of 40 are most eager for the feeling of life without worry and are not bothered by money.
After all, women at this stage have experienced all kinds of hardships in life, they have children, do family chores, get up early for their children, and make money, and they are already tired.
At this time, what women desire most is to live a worry-free life, no longer run for life, and be able to be happy together as a family.
Therefore, men must give women a stable life and make them happier, so as to meet their inner needs.
If after reaching middle age, women are still running around and their lives are unstable, they will gradually lose confidence in the future.
Once you are disappointed in you, it is likely to affect the feelings of both parties and cause a disharmonious relationship.
Therefore, for women after middle age, men should try to give them a carefree life.
Of course, the pressure is high now, and it is impossible to be truly carefree, but the most basic living conditions must be achieved.
In the eyes of women, when they do not need to worry about three meals a day, do not worry about their children's tuition and living expenses, and do not worry about money in vain, they can actually feel stable.
In this world, it is impossible for every man to succeed, nor can all men be rich and wealthy, but at least they must be able to live a stable life and live a normal life.
Only in this way will women feel that it is worth it to follow you, and no matter how tired they are, they will not complain.
In the end, marriage still needs to have a certain material basis, after all, life is realistic, and love without bread cannot withstand the test of life.
I hope that after marriage, couples can strive to create a basic material foundation and make life more textured.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Mitchell said, "You are a person to the world; but to someone, you are his whole world." ”
After a woman really marries you, you are her whole world, and she will accompany you for the rest of her life.
And the premise that makes her willing to give up everything and stay with you is that you can give her the life she wants and let her have the feeling of love.
True love is not a verbal commitment, but a show of love, accommodation, and understanding in actual action.
Therefore, after the age of 40, the married life that women want is nothing more than these three feelings: the feeling of peace of mind, the feeling of being favored, and the feeling of living a carefree life.
I hope that men can pay attention to women's feelings, when she perceives your love, she has more texture in life, and believes that the relationship between husband and wife will be more harmonious and beautiful.
Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.