On January 1, 2022, the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education came into effect, which is the first special legislation on family education in China. Family education has also risen from "family affairs" to "state affairs", and parents will also open a new era of "bringing babies according to law".
On January 3, "Chinese parents entered the era of bringing babies according to law" rushed to the first place in the hot search.
Why has the Family Education Promotion Act received so much attention?
This starts with the importance of the family of origin:
The master of family therapy Satya believes that a person is inextricably linked to his original family, and this connection has the potential to affect his life. A person has an inextricable connection to his or her experiences, and the root cause of our unhappiness may be due to unmet expectations as children.
Psychological research has found that many problems and troubles encountered by adults in their personal lives are not caused by the living environment in adulthood, but from the influences and limitations in the family during childhood.
That is to say, what really bothers us is not the environment and events we encounter as adults, but more when we encounter people, things, and things in adulthood, most people still use the inherent and habitual coping methods and patterns learned in childhood. These methods and patterns are hidden in the depths of the subconscious, like familiar old songs, constantly ringing, quietly controlling our inner psychology and external behavior.
The quality of a person's original family affects this person's life. The Austrian psychologist Alfred Adler once said: "Lucky people are cured of childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured of childhood all their lives." ”
It can be seen that a good family education is of great significance to the growth of children.
So how to "bring a good baby according to the law" and how to give children a good family education?
The Family Education Promotion Act gives us nine pieces of advice:
1. Personally raise and strengthen parent-child companionship;
2. Participate together and give play to the role of both parents;
3. Teach with the camera, educate in daily life;
4. Imperceptible, combining words and teaching by example;
5. Strict kindness, care and love and strict requirements;
6. Respect differences and conduct scientific guidance according to age and personality characteristics;
7. Communicate on an equal footing, with respect, understanding and encouragement;
8. Promote each other, parents and children grow together;
9. Other ways and methods that are beneficial to the all-round development and healthy growth of minors.
Heart-to-heart message
The ancients said that "raising no education, the fault of the father", a few years ago, the Internet buzzword said that "it is recommended that parents "hold a certificate to work", and now the introduction of the "Family Education Promotion Law" marks the end of the era of "willful baby" of Parents in China, and the way of family education will have a law to follow.
Xiaobian suggested that everyone seriously study the "Family Education Promotion Law", because in the future, "wayward with a baby" will be punished.