If you can marry a man who knows how to hurt his wife, then even if the marriage is not so rich and expensive, women will not feel pain, because the love given to them by men is enough to heal the whole life.
For women, marrying the right person is really important, marrying someone who loves themselves, we will be spoiled like a child, and marrying a person who does not know how to hurt us, we will be tortured like a madman, so the rest of our lives can marry the right person, more important than anything.
However, knowing people knows the face and does not know the heart, or we simply do not know what a person embodies, which is the standard of heartache, so it requires us to pay attention to observation, and then choose and judge for ourselves.
In the relationship between the sexes, the 4 details of the man's "distressed wife", but if he occupies one, even if he does not marry the wrong person.
It is not easy to know how to be sympathetic to a wife
Jin Zhiying in the movie "Jin Zhiying born in 82" is a full-time wife, the mother-in-law always looks at her unpleasantly, thinks that she does not work for a day, she knows how to spend her son's money, so she is not sneering at her on weekdays, or looking for stubble, her daughter comes, let her relax and relax, do not have to do anything, but let Jin Zhiying busy in the kitchen.
At this time, Jin Zhiying said that it was all false not to be lost, but fortunately, her husband knew how to feel sorry for her and knew that his wife was too busy in the kitchen, so even if his mother did not let himself into the kitchen, he still chose to help his wife, because he was not willing to see his wife busy alone.
The role swap effect in psychology refers to the fact that when we can replace the role of the other party with ourselves, we will better understand each other and understand that it is not easy for each other, so as to avoid unnecessary contradictions.
When a man can sympathize with his wife's difficulty, it shows that in his heart, his wife is the one who makes himself worry about his stomach, so with such a man, the wife can naturally experience happiness and sweetness.
Willing to wash her hands for her wife to make soup
The kind of happiness that married people get from each other is actually just the beginning of marriage, not the whole meaning, and the whole meaning of marriage has always been hidden in family life.
Throughout her pregnancy, Zhang Yunyi has been in charge of her daily life by her husband Yuan Hong.
When Yuan Hong was busy in the kitchen, it could be seen that this man was not cooking for the first time.
Perhaps the kitchen has already become the "main battlefield" for him.
Some people say that to see a woman live happily or unhappily in her marriage, look at the kitchen to know the answer.
Admittedly, the kitchen determines the temperature of a marriage, and a man's willingness to wash a woman's hands and make soup shows that he is more willing to melt love into practical action.
Yi Shu wrote in "The Only Woman": "Marriage is basically such a thing, and then love is sensational, and after three or five years, it will disappear." ”
But those invisible loves can always be preserved, and no woman in this world can refuse a man to make a steaming bowl of food for herself.
Blatant favoritism to the wife
Ji Shengli in the TV series "Little Joy" is the mayor of the district, who enforces the law impartially, fulfills his duties, and never abuses his power.
However, when he learned that his wife was ill, he only wanted to find a good hospital for his wife, and this was the first time he used his power, and the wife became his exception.
TV series "Know it or not. Gu Tingye in "Know It or Not", no matter what happens, he will stand behind his wife and be her strongest backing.
In fact, for women, what they want in a relationship is very simple, but love and security, and men's blatant preference can give women everything they want.
And those blatant preferences show that there is a woman's position in the man's heart, and it is also the most important and central position, which also reflects his love for the other half.
Be able to tolerate the imperfections of the wife
Men will complain about why women change their appearance after marriage, become rough, become sloppy, become less delicate.
In fact, the reason why they think so is because in their world, they feel that the advantages are all a person has.
So when there are shortcomings, they naturally can't accept it, but they ignore that the advantages and disadvantages are all a person has.
And to love a person is to love all that a person is, including perfect places and imperfect places.
"Many husbands will only treat their wives like refrigerators, thinking that as long as they open the door, they will have food to eat at any time." Obviously it is very inconvenient to break it, but it will never be maintained. ”
A good marriage, a man who will run a marriage, will understand that in a relationship, appreciation is the advantage of increasing income, and accepting the disadvantage is saving expenses.
In short, their marriage has always been happy and consistent, and women will naturally be filled with happiness and more and more beautiful in such marriages.