When I was young, I especially didn't like to be managed by my parents and teachers, I always looked forward to growing up, I always thought that I could be free when I grew up, but in fact, when I grew up, life was the most unfree, there were many places to be constrained, many people said to be brave to be themselves, but how many people can be themselves at will?
For adults, life is never an easy task, work is very tiring, there are many people who need to deal with the world, every day is very hard, so everyone is eager for freedom, every man wants to have a warm home, where you can easily be yourself, and an empathetic life partner.
In reality, there are always some women, in the name of love, to interfere in various things of men, in fact, this is not love, but selfishness. To love someone is to know how to respect him.
When women do this, they bring only a sense of oppression to men, without any sense of warmth, and true love, is that two people rely on each other and progress together, rather than one person interfering with the other all the time. In marriage, a woman with a really high emotional intelligence never interferes with these 4 things of a man!
1, men's work
A man who has been in this position for so long must know exactly how his job should be done and what to do to do better. After all, women are not in this position, not in their positions and do not seek their own government, so men's work matters should still be handled by men themselves.
Smart women will take care of everything at home and not distract men, which is the greatest support for men's work. Only those stupid women will always interfere in men's work.
2) The man's ex
We all want our own man or woman to be our only one. But there is not so much perfection in the world, and before we meet the people we love the most, we will inevitably encounter some flowers, flowers, plants, idle people, etc.
Those people are just passers-by in our lives, teaching us to grow, making us strong, and then disappearing into our world. Of course, there will be some people, perhaps because they are unwilling, or perhaps because of nostalgia, so they will stay on the edge of our world, in and out, probing the brain.
Women with high emotional intelligence understand that trust is the foundation of feelings. She believes that her man will handle all this properly, and she also believes that her charm is the reason why men choose her. So, women with high emotional intelligence never interfere with the affairs of men's exs. Her open-minded atmosphere, her mature confidence, will only make men more obsessed, so as to make the right choice.
3, men's family affairs
Although the two of you are together, it is the man's family after all, facing his family, who has lived there for so many years, and knows best about the situation of his family and how to deal with these family affairs.
Since you love him, you should respect him, if he takes the initiative to consult with you and ask for your opinion, you can say your own suggestions. But if he doesn't consult with you, but makes a decision alone, then you don't have to interfere with him anymore. Don't think that if you are his wife you can interfere in all his affairs, and the husband and wife should also leave some leeway for each other.
4, men's dating
Everyone has their own friends, since they can become friends, it means that two people have many like-minded places, the man is already an adult, he has the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, he does not need you to tell him who he can associate with, can not interact with whom, even if it is intimate as a lover, can not interfere with each other's dating.
No one can guarantee that everyone can get along with themselves, that his friends can play with him, but not necessarily with you, and that you may not know much about their interactions. Therefore, a smart woman will neither interfere with men's dating, nor will she deliberately cater to men's friends, deliberately have a good relationship with those friends, and she will only concentrate on guarding her love.
When the water is clear, there is no fish, and if the love is deep, there is no love.
There is no absolute perfection in this world, there is no absolute pure white and flawless love, a woman with high emotional intelligence, knows how to turn a blind eye, and does not put too much pressure on men.
Sometimes, love is like flying a kite, you have to know how to let go, let men fly, men can reach the height of life you and he wants. But at the same time, the man's heart, like the line of a kite, is firmly in your hands!
Therefore, in love and communication, please be a woman with high emotional intelligence, these things of men, just turn a blind eye, do not do too much interference, so that your love, will be happy and happy!
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