I have always thought that good feelings should have a beginning and an end. Love, boldly confess, do not love, but also be brave to say.
But some men in the relationship, obviously do not love, but are not willing to say it, but while rebelling, while dragging women. Women mistakenly think that they are not doing well enough, so that men are not happy to treat themselves like that, so they desperately reflect on themselves, humbly please men, and want to recall the enthusiasm and love that men once had.
But no matter how women pay and how they lower their posture, men are not moved, nor will they remember their past feelings and tell women that they do not love. It was not until the woman suffered a lot, broke her heart, and took the initiative to break up, and the man showed his lack of love.
But this is cruel to the woman who once loved you. How many nights she needs to survive, how many tears she needs to shed, how much suffering she needs to endure before she can persuade herself to let go. All the changes in men's hearts start from these 5 "rejections", women don't be stupid and don't understand!
1. Refuse to chat with you and accompany you
Couples don't say that every moment is sticky and greasy, but the companionship that should be there is still indispensable. Men who truly love you, no matter how busy, will take time to chat with you and share the day's insights with you.
If a man refuses to talk to you, no matter what topic you post or how much you say, he treats you with a perfunctory attitude, then don't doubt, he is not in love. May you be sober and self-controlled, even if you want to talk to him again, you must hold back and do not embarrass yourself.
2. Refuse to be intimate with you
In a romantic relationship, it is inevitable that there will be intimate contact between men and women, and intimate contact will also make the relationship between two people better, and it is also a kind of love that two people have for each other.
Then when men change their hearts, they will naturally refuse to have intimate contact with women. Men no longer love a woman, and the more intimate the behavior, the more disgusting the man is.
3) Refuse to care about your life
The man who loves you will care about you in his heart, he will care about your mood, listen to you when you are sad, and will find ways to solve problems for you.
But if a man ignores everything about you and has an indifferent attitude towards you, it means that you have no place in his heart. So, he no longer cares about your joys and sorrows, no longer pays attention to everything about you. After recognizing this, may you love and not be humble.
4, refuse to coax you, let you be sad and sad
The man who cares about you, don't say that he can't see you shed tears, is that you have a little unhappiness, he will be nervous, will be helpless. In order to coax you well, he will do everything he can, you laugh, he is satisfied.
But if a man knows that he has done something wrong, but he is indifferent, will not admit his mistake, will not coax you, and it does not matter if you cry, it means that he has no affection for you. May you understand that you will be able to turn around in a big stride and not look back.
5. Refuse to make eye contact with you
When a man begins to love a woman, his eyes are full of love, and the eyes do not want to leave the woman's body for a moment. But when a man changes his mind, it's a completely different story, and he refuses to make eye contact with a woman.
Because their eyes are no longer full of love, they don't want their eyes to betray their hearts. I am also afraid that I will reveal my weakness in eye contact with women. A man has changed his heart, he will not have your presence in his heart, and he does not even want to tolerate you in his eyes.
No one can predict the affection, and two people love vigorously does not mean that they can go on forever.
But in the relationship, everyone should be a frank person, love is brave to confess, do not love but also boldly say, rather than dragging each other all the time, watching each other repeatedly lower their posture, humble and flattering.
If you don't love, say it, this is respect for each other, but also respect for your former feelings. May you be a moral person in your feelings.
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