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A few days ago, I participated in a sharing session, and several women who have experienced many twists and turns, but finally became successful, shared some of their thoughts and feelings with everyone.
They made me really feel that the way of thinking can really change a person's destiny, and it can also be a big hand to lead women out of the trough.
Don't think it's too mysterious, each of these ideas sounds so simple, but it's not so easy to actually operate.
Moreover, if you really learn and do it, you will definitely be able to get out of the current predicament, which is actually to change your underlying thinking.
So, if you are dissatisfied with your current life, you might as well start by changing your way of thinking, and trust me, you will definitely gain something.
Stay away from people and things that consume you
Women, it's easy to be consumed by bad people and bad things, especially the kind of kind, weak, and emotional women, who are more likely to become the target of these PUAs.
The sisters in this sharing session basically talked about their experience of being consumed, and they are all sighing now that they were so stupid at that time.
But fortunately, later they all woke up and found the people and things that consumed them, and if they could, they would break it, and if they couldn't break it, they would try to stay away, let themselves temporarily get out of that environment, and give themselves a little breathing space.
When you are really detached, you will find that your energy has returned, your mental state has improved again, and you seem to have the confidence to do more things again.
In fact, everyone's living environment and the people they come into contact with are really important, don't consume yourself, and don't waste time on rotten people.
You have to remember that we live for ourselves, and that is the most important thing to make ourselves comfortable and happy.
Take care of your own life
When a woman begins to learn to take care of her life, it means that her life is about to go uphill.
Because too many women will have a state of masochism when they fall into a trough, they may be sleepless at night, they may hurt their health for the sake of scumbags, and they may fall into depression......
But my dear, when you practice yourself like this, have you ever thought about who can really feel sorry for you?
No matter how wonderful life is, you need to have the energy to enjoy it, so remember, take care of yourself, this is the foundation of everything you have.
Women who think about this problem are less likely to fall into internal friction, because they understand that they are the most important thing, and then they will take care of themselves and make themselves truly happy and happy.
Take control of your emotions
The reason why many women are always struggling in pain is that they are kidnapped by emotions. You have to know that emotions are actually the most useless, and learning to control them is the beginning of your becoming stronger.
In the sharing that day, a sister said that in the past, she was also easily kidnapped by emotions, and she always began to feel sad for no reason, and then she couldn't do anything.
But then she found out that such emotions had no effect at all, and would not help her in any way except that they would interfere with her normal life.
So, she began to learn not to let her emotions affect her, and then slowly took control of her emotions, and she found that this change allowed her to think outside the world about what problems she was encountering and how to solve them.
In fact, many things in life are like this, if you calm down, it will naturally be solved, but if you let your emotions control you, you will fall into endless internal friction.
If we want to be strong, we must be sober, calm, and rational enough, and I hope that every woman can understand this truth.
Learn to solve problems independently
After listening to the sharing session, my biggest feeling is that if a woman wants to live a good life, she must be independent enough. Solve problems independently, face difficulties independently, and manage your own life independently.
Such women, no matter what problems they encounter, will not be easily defeated, because they have always relied on themselves, and they can naturally live more calmly.
Of course, independence is not innate, and we all go through the process of wanting to rely on others to becoming independent, and in the process, we can get hurt, fall, and even despair.
But it's okay, honey, grit your teeth and persevere, because that's a sign that you're getting better. Every independent and powerful woman has been bruised at one time or another, and their strength comes from their own experience and persistence, so you can too.
Remember, you don't have to envy those women who can be taken care of well, you can be the real heroine of your life, this is the most proud.
Stick to being yourself
The last thing I want to share with you, and the best thing I learned from these sisters, is to keep being yourself.
We live in a complex environment where it's impossible to be completely alone, so the best thing we can do is to be ourselves all the time.
In other words, no matter what happens, put your feelings first, and truly love yourself no matter what kind of person you meet.
You have to know that you are not just a wife, a mother, a daughter, you are yourself, and you should be yourself first and then experience these different roles in life.
These sisters are all great selves now, each of them is different, but everyone lives so wonderfully. The best thing we can learn from them is to love ourselves and be ourselves, and I hope you will remember it.
It's not easy for women to become good and strong, but I believe that as long as we change our way of thinking and find the right direction to work towards, we can definitely do it.
If you are not satisfied with your life right now, then try to change yourself, start with the way of thinking, and slowly accumulate little by little.
Believe me, your power is limitless, believe in yourself, you can do it, come on.