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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Dumas said: "Women sometimes allow others to cheat on their love, but they never allow it to hurt their self-esteem." ”
Indeed, a woman who lives a noble life will not be herself when she interacts with men, let alone lost in love.
Whether in love or in marriage, this kind of woman will keep a clear head and be particularly sincere about feelings.
They will not be humble, let alone climb high, but they will become strong and can be equal to men.
A woman, if she does this, will naturally be favored by men and become a noble woman in their eyes.
On the contrary, some women always take a humble posture to please men, can not withstand the temptation of material, not only will not make men look up, but will make themselves cheap.
If a woman tries to impress a man by clinging to and asking for it, she will basically not succeed and may eventually be hurt by the man.
Only truly noble women will not lose themselves because of a little profit from men, and they can become the final winners in their feelings.
Generally speaking, in front of men, noble women, will not be on three things. Whether a woman is noble or cheap can also be seen from these three aspects.
First, the feelings will not be settled
Guo Ao said: "A woman's loneliness is like a locust tree in a deep alley, and when the wind blows, it crumbles. ”
When a woman does not encounter love, she is usually lonely, whether she needs a man or not, it is difficult to endure loneliness.
Therefore, some women can't stand the provocation of men and easily talk to each other about love, but they don't have a clear understanding, so that they are eventually let down by men.
If you fall in love with a man because of loneliness, this kind of woman often can't be cherished by men, because their love is too cheap for men to take it seriously.
On the contrary, no matter how lonely a woman is, she can keep a clear head, and for unworthy love, she will never be herself, but can get the favor of men.
Men are like that, the easier it is to get women, the less they will cherish and basically will not give true affection.
However, noble women are different, men are not easy to get, must be careful to have the opportunity to pursue them, they will especially cherish.
So, in front of a man, whether a woman is noble or cheap, the final treatment is completely different.
Noble women, who are quite serious about their feelings, will not easily give themselves, and if they feel that men do not match themselves, they will not give each other a chance at all.
Such a woman, strong at heart, financially independent, capable of living better, does not need to live casually on a man.
They often have thoughts, pursuits, and a very delicate life, and when men do not meet their standards and cannot be ideologically synchronized, they simply do not look at it.
Only those cheap women, blindly thinking about climbing men, want to change their lives. They are incompetent, want to be taken care of by men, and the psychology of taking is very serious.
However, men will not be impressed with this kind of woman, and may be very disgusted, even if they temporarily associate with them, they will eventually leave.
Therefore, women in front of men, or to be a noble woman, do not be cheap, so that men will love and cherish.
Second, marriage is not settled
Tian Ge said: "Women can grow old in the years, and must not wither in marriage." ”
Truly noble women, basically will not be married, their attitude towards marriage is particularly firm, as long as men do not meet their requirements, they will refuse.
Such women, who generally have enough capital to live, will not think of relying on marriage to meet their own needs.
What they want, they will fight for themselves, both a strong pattern and the ability to act, often in the eyes of men attractive women.
On the contrary, some women always want to marry a good man, and pin all their happiness on men, but they can't get the attention of men.
In the eyes of men, a woman who only takes and does not know how to give is often very cheap and will not be serious at all.
Today's men, very smart, will not easily give everything to a woman, if you find that women are not worth marrying home, they will only play with you.
In the eyes of men, those noble women are different, they not only do not ask for men, but also have the ability to help men create happiness in life together.
This is also the reason why they are cherished by men, men meet this kind of woman, will love to the bone, this life is reluctant to leave.
Marriages that will be settled are often the beginning of misfortune, and noble women can avoid this misfortune, while cheap women are deeply involved in it, and finally live a particularly wronged life.
Therefore, women should not be complacent about marriage, rather than pinning their happiness on men, it is better to strengthen themselves and be an independent woman.
In this way, you will have the capital to be loved by men, and you will also have status and dignity in future marriages.
Third, life is not settled
Ding Ling said: "I am a woman myself, I will understand women's shortcomings better than others, but I understand women's pain better." ”
If a woman will live and live, her life will certainly be miserable and it will be difficult to feel happiness.
Truly noble women will never live, they have their own plans, they also have their own pursuits, and they will not set limits on their lives.
Such a woman is often able to live out of herself, has a strong sense of security, and does not have to worry about gain and loss.
If women always set limits for themselves, and cater to and please men everywhere, they will live a life for men, and eventually they will live a life of chicken feathers.
When you come according to the man's wishes, never have your own opinion, it is likely to be wronged, the man will not care about your feelings, and you will not get the happiness you want.
Because, in the eyes of men, you have no dignity, and naturally feel that you are cheap.
Just like her colleague Miss Chen, she and her husband have been married for seven years, and have been living a very wronged life, basically not getting happiness.
When she first got married, she wanted to buy a house, but her husband advised her that she didn't have much money now and would wait two years to buy it. Under the persuasion of her husband, she did not insist on her own opinion and compromised.
Two years later, she mentioned buying a house again, but her husband said to buy a car first, and it was not that there was no place to live. She could not withstand the persuasion of her husband and once again chose to compromise.
In the seventh year after marriage, on the way to send her son to school, she saw a hardcover house, only more than 80 square meters, so she went home and told her husband that she wanted to buy it.
Unexpectedly, her husband vetoed her opinion for the third time and asked her, why do you always want to buy a house?
At this time, Miss Chen saw the true face of her husband, he did not want to buy a house at all, always let her live. For this reason, she and her husband had a conflict, and his husband even counted her materials, and she was really angry.
Therefore, she asked her husband: "I married you, I did not have a good day, do I have to accompany you to eat soil for the rest of my life?" ”
The husband had no words to refute, so he had to slam the door and go out, which made Miss Chen feel aggrieved and cry.
Therefore, women should not live on the man's life, when you have an opinion and a clear goal for the future life, it is best to stick to it, do not set limits for yourself, so that the chance of happiness is greater.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Weng Hong said: "I have always felt that if women do not treat themselves well and care for themselves, they will really live in vain. Moreover, a woman who does not know how to care for herself must not know how to care for others. ”
Indeed, women must know how to treat themselves well, and a real sense of security can only be given by themselves.
So, in front of men, you have to be a noble woman, never let yourself become cheap.
Only in this way can you get the love and cherishing of a man, and only then will he be inseparable from you and willing to care for you for a lifetime.
Get along with men, women don't want to be feelings, don't get married, don't live on the set, this is your nobility.
Looking at whether a woman is noble or cheap, from these three aspects, it is also clear at a glance.
The rest of her life is long, and I only hope that every woman can live noblely, be responsible for her own life, and harvest stable happiness.
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