China's Spring Festival is a festival for the whole family, but many young people talk about the change of color of the Spring Festival, because after returning home, they often face the "forced marriage" of their parents, and even some parents have already arranged blind dates and long dragons, waiting for their children to go home. In the past, the Spring Festival string relatives, now the Spring Festival blind date "picks the object".
There are many helplessness in life, so that many men and women have to enter the threshold of blind dates. Blind dates, there are advantages and disadvantages, depending on the view of men and women on mate selection.
What kind of person a woman chooses to be her husband is basically what kind of life she chooses.
Because marriage is more of a way of life, love is only a part of life, the quality of marriage is difficult to say right or wrong, and what they feel is suitable is a good marriage.
Modern diversified life and love provide more choices for both men and women, for their own happy life, women need to open their eyes before marriage to choose a husband.
A good marriage is a natural path to self-improvement, pursuing the perfection of life, or correcting the mistakes of early life, or compensating for the absence of childhood, which are the internal motivations that drive a person into marriage.
What kind of person you want to marry, you must first understand which men need to be cautious about marrying, and which kind of men should not be married.
1. Those who are mentally unhealthy and unsound in personality should not marry;
2. Those whose vices are difficult to change, do not marry;
3. Don't marry a mom boy who hangs his mother on his lips all day long;
4. After having an intimate relationship, after many attempts and communication between the two parties, reject men who kiss deeply and have a disharmonious sex life, and do not marry;
5. Men who grow up in the pile of women, marry carefully;
6. If the two parties are not in the right household, the household is wrong, the living habits and family background are very different, if the man is still too picky and too self-conscious, marry cautiously;
7. Although the difference in values between each other can attract each other, it is also easy to cause conflict, if the man is still intolerant, marry carefully;
8. Men who have no love experience before the age of twenty-five, marry carefully;
9. Men who are immersed in past emotions, unforgettable feelings for ex-girlfriends or ex-wives, or full of resentment, marry carefully;
10. A man who does not love himself, no matter how good he is, or how good he is to you, marry carefully;
11. The person who is wrong with him is always you, the absolutely right great good man, marry carefully;
12. Men who have difficulty getting along with their parents or siblings, marry cautiously;
13. Without any reason or reason, men who are uncomfortable and feel unsuitable should marry carefully.
If you feel inappropriate before marriage, don't take chances and think that it will be natural to enter marriage, and don't expect him to change for you.
First of all, such a probability is too low, you may not have such good luck just to meet; Secondly, even if he occasionally improves, you will eventually find that he will return to his original form. You can choose the next MR Right again, and of course, if you want, you can change yourself to accept the parts you don't like, but you have to gauge which costs less and which you feel better.
If you really don't want to embarrass yourself, don't get tangled by the unwillingness to stay and give up, giving up completely is the wisest choice, even if you have 10,000 reluctances. Don't expect everyone to be friends if they can't be lovers, it's better for both parties to be strangers.
It is clear who needs to be careful not to marry, so what kind of people can marry?
In fact, as long as you are a psychologically mature, stable and healthy person, love yourself, and have the ability to love others, respect your inner feelings, don't care about what others say, bravely insist on your choice, and marry any kind of person you can enjoy the sweetness of marriage.
There is only one world, the world in everyone's eyes is different, it is difficult to define a person with good and bad right and wrong, feel with your heart, believe in yourself, believe in love, believe that happiness is not far from you!
* This article is the original article of teacher Li Jianxue, and the company reserves the right to pursue it according to law.