Men with these three situations cannot marry, do not have a fluke mentality

Marriage is where a woman needs to make the most choices.

What kind of man you choose, the rest of your life is what kind of life.

People always say that when choosing a man, you must choose someone with three positive views, because no matter how bad a person with three views is, he will not be worse.

You are married, and the other person will be by your side all day.

Society is a big dye vat, so why isn't the husband a dye?

If the woman is not strong, the husband will also subtly change the wife's thinking.

How life after marriage can be imagined, even if the husband fails to change his wife's mind, the wife must be exhausted.

Therefore, women must polish their eyes before marrying, and often men with these three situations cannot marry.

First: unclear about heterosexual relationships

Some men will always be surrounded by a lot of the opposite sex.

They also enjoyed it, and those who came did not refuse.

This kind of man can't control the relationship with the opposite sex, and ambiguity becomes sex.

They will have good reasons to refute it, such as I am not married and have anything to do with the opposite sex.

They deviate from most women in their thinking, and even feel that they are very reasonable.

Even if some women feel that they can teach each other well, but their nature is like this, it is difficult to change as if they want to ascend to heaven.

Netizen Kobayashi's husband is an ambiguous person, he is not willing to divorce Kobayashi, but also hooked up with many women, which makes Kobayashi miserable.

Let's talk about the deeds of a young man, his parents asked him to go on a blind date, and he went.

But there was another woman in mind, but the woman was cold to him.

In his heart, he did not want to cut off contact with the blind date, nor did he want to give up the indifferent beloved girl.

So when the blind date deleted his friend, he chose to pray for a return and said that he did not have anything to do with the girl.

In the course of his subsequent chat with his blind date, he said a sentence that was unbelievable.

He said, "If that girl loves me, then you delete me, but that girl won't love me." ”

In his mind, the blind date is a spare tire, just a substitute for the beloved woman.

Such men should never marry, because they simply do not understand what love is.

Second: too rational

Love is mostly emotional, so rationality in love is particularly precious.

It's just that if you want to get along with someone who is too rational, life will be particularly boring.

Netizen Xiao Zhang has a girl who he particularly likes, but unfortunately they are in a long-distance relationship even together.

The girl lives in a first-tier city, with high consumption and housing difficulties, so Xiao Zhang is very hesitant.

He feels that if he goes to a first-tier city for the sake of the other party, he will break away from his circle and the pressure to buy a house in the future will be great.

If the other person doesn't love himself, then he has nothing, and he can't take this risk.

From the perspective of a bystander, he is just too focused on his own interests, and his love for girls is very small.

He doesn't want to give and wants to be rewarded, and is a rational boy who no girl would be willing to entrust herself to this kind of "big pie".

Third: too calculating

Recently I heard a very thought-provoking story.

Women delete men's friends on the grounds that the man has a crush and doesn't want to continue contacting him.

The man asked the other person the reason for deleting himself, and the woman told him truthfully.

But the man felt that this was not possible, and he said: "The reason for blackmail is not right." ”

To this end, he even made a ppt to argue his point

Although his rebuttal reasons are full of loopholes, it is clear from his behavior alone that he is stubborn.

Take a simple friend, what if you don't want to contact and delete it?

Not to mention that a man has a beloved person first, what is the problem of the opposite sex wanting to keep a distance from him?

With such a man, the rest of his life will be very tiring, because he has to worry about everything.

Marry someone who must marry a man who hurts you and loves you, but such a statement is too general.

In fact, marrying someone should be marrying a man who can make you feel at ease.

They must know how to measure inches, keep a distance from the ambiguous or even cut off contact;

They can't be too rational and always put their own interests first, because feelings always need to be paid;

They cannot be too calculating, because in the end they will achieve nothing, and contradictions will increase.

Looking for a man does not have to look for how excellent, but must find a rule-abiding, know how to pay, know how to be considerate.