"The family has family rules, and the daughter-in-law must wait for the mother-in-law to finish eating before going to the table" "This is my family, I also have house rules"

I don't know if you have found a problem, that is, most mothers-in-law may not be very pleasing to the eyes of their daughters-in-law, and feel that there are many shortcomings in the daughter-in-law.

For example, the daughter-in-law likes to order takeaway and does not know how to save, there are many commonplace problems in life, in fact, this is also a feature of many young people, originally the older generation of people and young people have many differences in thinking, so it is very normal to have contradictions.

The most important thing in this situation is to understand each other, to be considerate of each other, and not to measure others by your own standards. Only in this way will the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law get along more harmoniously.

Yang Yang met a mother-in-law with many rules, and everything had to be carried out according to the standards customized by the mother-in-law. If you have a place of disobedience, you will attract a lot of dissatisfaction from your mother-in-law.

Since Yang Yang got married and lived with her in-laws, what she felt was that the rules of life had been filled with these two words.

For example, when eating at home, the position of the main seat must be done by the elders. How to arrange the tableware at home, where the direction is, these are exquisite. And the most important thing is that women must obey the so-called three from four virtues, take care of all the household chores in the family after marriage, listen to their husbands, and have the appearance of a good wife and mother.

As for men, they just need to earn money to support their families.

Seeing a mother-in-law with so many things, Yangyang even wanted to give up this relationship, but he and his boyfriend had been talking for a long time, and indeed he was a little reluctant in his heart, plus the boyfriend would never let his mother interfere too much in the life between the husband and wife after three promises to get married, Yangyang agreed to the marriage.

However, after getting married, the husband did what he promised, and did not let Yang Yang live with his mother-in-law, and only occasionally returned during the New Year's Festival. But even so, every New Year's Festival will become the most headache for Yangyang, because the troublesome mother-in-law will always make people feel very irritable.

Fortunately, every New Year's Festival, I only met once or twice, and if I endured it, I would pass, and Yang Yang didn't say much.

Who knew that not long after the marriage, the mother-in-law actually came to the new house of two people without prior notice to Yangyang, and Yangyang opened the door and saw that the mother-in-law was carrying a large bag of things. But the lamb did not dare to mention to the mother-in-law that he was not satisfied with, afraid that the mother-in-law would be more targeted at himself, so he could only talk to his husband, which the husband said that the mother-in-law only came to live at home for a month to see how the new person lived After a month, the mother-in-law went back?

Speaking of this, Yangyang has already guessed the intention of the mother-in-law to come here, probably to see if she is a good daughter-in-law who is virtuous and virtuous, whether she has bullied her baby son at home, whether she has done laundry and cooking, and not talked back to her husband.

In order to cope with the month's time, but also in order to leave a good impression on the mother-in-law, this month Yangyang has been careful no matter what he does.

But I didn't expect that the mother-in-law was still picky everywhere, sometimes saying that Yangyang's bowl was not washed clean, sometimes saying that Yangyang dragged the ground and the hair was not careful, and even said that Yangyang did not stand up, there was no appearance of everyone's boudoir, and it was not filial piety at all to marry for so long without giving birth to children.

The number of times this is more, even if Yang Yang is a fool, he can see that these rules of the mother-in-law are actually aimed at himself.

Yang Yang himself is also a person with a temper, but considering that the mother-in-law is an elder, so he gives courtesy to the mother-in-law everywhere, but his own courtesy is only exchanged for the other party's inch, then there is no need for respect.

Last night, her husband told Yangyang in advance that he was going to work overtime and let Yangyang eat with his mother-in-law.

Yang Yang knew that his opportunity to fight back had finally come, because as long as Yang Yang and his mother-in-law were alone, her mother-in-law had to find something to prove her position in the family.

That night, YangYang carefully prepared three dishes and a soup, but when the third dish was ready to be served, the mother-in-law had already finished eating the first course of shrimp. So Yang Yang deliberately said, good luck I also worked hard to cook for half a day, can't I wait for me to finish the meal and eat together?

Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law immediately dropped the chopsticks and said with a straight face: I tell you, there are family rules in the family, and the rules in our family have always been for the mother-in-law to eat and the daughter-in-law to the table.

Yang Yang is not willing to show weakness, since the mother-in-law dropped the chopsticks, no one should eat the meal that night. Therefore, Yang Yang directly threw the dishes on the table to the ground, and the plate crackled and shattered. Then he said: Then go back to your house, this is my home, my family also has my family's rules, and I am not welcome to be an anti-guest like you. I am the mistress of this family, if you want to be the mistress of this family, then I will divorce your son, and you will live with your son. If you don't want me to divorce my son, then go back to your own house and become a hostess.

Later, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled bitterly, neither of them ate a complete dinner, and the husband was tired after working overtime, but he also had to deal with the contradictions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that he could send his old mother back to his hometown.

The days of Yangyang can also be regarded as a return to the purity of the past. As for the mother-in-law's daughter-in-law's daughter-in-law's transformation plan, it was really a failure.

In fact, many daughters-in-law and mother-in-law do not understand one thing when they get along, and if the mother-in-law wants to live in peace with the daughter-in-law, it should not be flattering, but should be in the case that both sides are equal.

Many mothers-in-law always want to interfere excessively in their sons' lives, even if the sons already have their own marriage and their own lives, but they still feel that they not only want to control their sons but also want to control their daughters-in-law.

But marriage is originally to break away from the original family to form a new family, if everything has to be managed by the mother, then what is the meaning of marriage, and what is the meaning of growing up?

Therefore, a smart mother-in-law must learn to live in peace with her daughter-in-law, and at the same time, she must understand that after the son has his own life, the parents should not be around.

If you are too mean to your daughter-in-law when you are young, you may end up with an old and helpless end when you are old.