When I was 39 years old, I made the most important decision of my life – I was going to get married. It was an exciting and challenging time for me, as I had to deal with not only the changes in my newlywed life, but also the trials of family, affection and responsibility.
My name is Wang Mei and I come from an ordinary family. My parents were ordinary working-class people, and although their families were not wealthy, they always tried their best to provide the best life for me and my brother. I am the eldest daughter in my family, and I have been taking care of my younger brother and helping my parents since I was a child. In my eyes, family is always the most important thing.
And my younger brother, named Wang Ming, is a typical little man. Although he was a little stubborn at times, he was always filial and kind to his family. My sister-in-law is a gentle and virtuous girl, and our family likes her very much. However, just as I was about to enter the palace of marriage, an unexpected contradiction appeared.
It all started with a younger brother and sister-in-law's plan to buy a house. They want to buy a house in the city, for the future of their children, for the stability of the family. However, they didn't have enough money on hand, so they asked me for a loan. As an older sister, I am naturally willing to help them, after all, family members should support each other. They borrowed 400,000 from me, and I also take this opportunity to bless them for their future life.
However, unexpectedly, my sister-in-law was suspicious of this. She thought that the money I lent them was a violation of her rights and that I had touched her "cheese", which made her feel uneasy. She started avoiding me and wouldn't even let me see the kids. I felt very confused and sad and didn't understand what I was doing wrong.
I tried to communicate with my sister-in-law and explain my original intention of borrowing money, but she still refused to listen to me. I felt helpless and misunderstood. At this time, my newlywed life also began to suffer, and I felt a lot of stress.
Just when I was in trouble, I met a kind old man who gave me a lot of help and support. She told me that conflicts between family members will inevitably occur, but the most important thing is to learn to be tolerant and understanding. Her words made me feel enlightened, and I decided to be honest with my sister-in-law again.
I found my sister-in-law and explained to her again my original intentions and said that I didn't touch her "cheese" and just wanted to help my family. She finally listened to me and said sorry with tears streaming down her face. The two sisters finally shook hands and regained their former intimacy.
Eventually, my groom and I entered the palace of marriage and started a new life. Although there have been ups and downs, I believe that the love between family members will always be the most solid support. In the new stage of life, I will continue to cherish my family, be tolerant and understanding, and face the challenges and difficulties of the future together.
This is my story, a story of family, love and understanding. In life, we often encounter various difficulties and challenges, but as long as we have good intentions, love and understanding, everything will eventually be solved.