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The old man frankly said: "After going to the daughter's house, I know the gap between my children", the reason is too realistic
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2022-05-0309:14
Guangdong
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The daughter is Mommy's little cotton jacket
This sentence believes that everyone will not object, before there are many people with the concept of son preference, thinking that the son is the heir of the family, raising children can prevent aging, Aunt Tong thinks so, therefore, during the son's love affair, Aunt Tong is very considerate of her son and girlfriend, as she herself said,
As long as I am good to them, they will be able to feel it and will redouble their efforts to be good to me.
This idea changed after the son got married. The daughter-in-law became pregnant and gave birth to a baby shortly after marriage, and Aunt Tong lived with her son and daughter-in-law like other mothers-in-law, of course, the most important thing was to take care of the baby and daughter-in-law.
Aunt Tong has a son and a daughter, she is a retired people's teacher, a few years ago her wife and children unfortunately died of illness, only she lived alone, the child is not by her side. Although a person is relatively lonely, but because the body is more tough,
The days are quite comfortable
。 Every day, I have nothing to do with my friends to dance square dance, travel and travel, and have a taste.
The old man frankly said: "After going to the daughter's house, I know the gap between my children", the reason is too realistic
During the children's schooling, Aunt Tong was very fair to the education of her children, and both children had master's degrees, but when the son got married,
Bought a marriage house for his son, while his daughter only gave a dowry of 100,000 yuan for marriage.
There is a certain difference in this, in Aunt Tong's view, it is already very good that she can provide for her daughter to complete her studies.
After Aunt Tong lived with her son and daughter-in-law, life changed dramatically, because the children were relatively young and the sons and daughters-in-law had to go to work, so there was little time to come back to be with the old sisters
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It's been hers
His face was haggard a lot
It can be seen that taking children is a very hard process, and at the same time, the mood has quietly changed.
In the few years of seeing the child, Aunt Tong had some physical conditions, although she also went to the hospital for examination and treatment, but she has not been cured. Worried about her mother's health, her daughter offered to take Aunt Tong to her house to recuperate for a while.
In the more than half a year of living in her daughter's home, she has undergone earth-shaking changes and the smile on her face has increased.
After this change, Aunt Tong realized from the heart,
There is a big difference between living in a daughter's house and a son's home.
In the son's family, when the grandson was born, everyone was very happy, just began to take care of the child's body has not yet found abnormal, the daughter-in-law can take care of the two people during maternity leave, but when the daughter-in-law goes to work, take the baby, buy vegetables, cook, dry
The housework fell on her alone
People who have had the experience of taking a baby must know the hardships involved. Her only hobby, square dancing, has also become a luxury, because there is no time and energy to relax, the daughter-in-law's work intensity is relatively large, and the children have to be taken care of by themselves day or night.
From the child's diet, living and hygiene, Aunt Tong is very careful, which makes her
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When he was young, he was in a state of high mental tension, especially when the child had just learned to walk, he was afraid of the child bumping and bumping, so Aunt Tong did not dare to leave him for a moment.
In addition to these, the hardest thing is that the child wants to drink milk powder at night, the child often appears in the night situation, which makes her resistance greatly reduced, she paid herself, all the energy to take care of the child, even if the child is not carefully cold, the daughter-in-law will complain that she did not look after the child, the key problem is that the son sees the daughter-in-law complaining about herself but standing on the side without saying a word, which makes Aunt Tong feel very uncomfortable, from these things,
Aunt Tong felt like a free babysitter.
When the daughter took herself home, these days are gone, and she finally does not have to look at the daughter-in-law's face again, and the intimate daughter not only does not let herself do housework, but also takes care of herself emotionally.
Almost all of his retirement salary was subsidized to his son's family, but he still did not satisfy his son and daughter-in-law, and he did so much housework without getting a word of understanding from them, but returned to his daughter's home.
There is anything that the daughter rushes to do, never letting the mother do it
。
Even if he has a small friction with his daughter-in-law, his son has always considered the problem from the perspective of his daughter-in-law, and he does not even have a person to speak, and it is difficult to integrate into them, but like an outsider. whereas
The delicate daughter will not be like this, often with her mother Lala home shopping, square dance this leisure project has finally returned to normal, life is good and comfortable.
After living for more than half a year, Aunt Tong has completely awakened, who said that she has to rely on her son to prevent aging, and her daughter is her own intimate person. We want to
Get rid of the old ones
The concept of "raising children and preventing old age",
As time continues to change, the son will eventually form his own small family, and there will be less and less communication with the mother.
Summary: When the daughter is also a mother, she can better appreciate the difficulty of her mother, so she will take care of her mother more, so these gaps will appear again.
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