There are many older men and women who have not been married for various reasons, mainly because of financial instability and the current high divorce rate.
It is understood that the current domestic divorce rate has reached more than 5 million pairs throughout the year, that is to say, there will be 14,000 couples in the country every day in the divorce procedures. This figure is still quite frightening.
Some young people can only solve it through blind dates in order to find a marriage partner, but some people are still very demanding. For example, some people are not good about anything themselves, but they require the other half to have, which leads to imbalance, even if they look at each other, and the other party does not see their own results.
Ms. Li, a person who lives in Hangzhou, is a single woman who is 29 years old this year, because she has been busy with work all these years and has no time to find a boyfriend. During this time, my parents at home have been urging that I can only go on a blind date, but my own requirements have been disliked by many people.
According to Miss Li, the requirements for finding the other half are very simple, as long as the other party looks medium or above, the age is within 35 years old, there is a house and a car, and the annual salary is more than one million. At that time, I listened to the words of the marriage agency center, took the initiative to apply for membership, and paid a membership fee of 30,000 yuan.
Miss Li said: After paying the membership fee, she also told her requirements to the marriage intermediary company. At the beginning, the matchmaking company introduced itself to a man and told himself that the man was excellent and good in all aspects. I met with the other party, but when I met, there was a problem, the man was not what he asked for, and the conditions were not good in all aspects. The man even had to look at his own private photos, which made him angry, and he turned around and left.
Miss Li continued: When she and the second man were dating, the man was also similar to the first man, and he was not the person he was looking for. I contacted the matchmaking company myself, hoping that they could introduce themselves to themselves with a little care, otherwise they would refund the money. However, at this time, the marriage agency actually said that its requirements were too high, and let itself lower the requirements.
Miss Li also said: She and the marriage agency said that I myself earned 200,000 yuan a month, and I had a house and a car. Is it demanding to find someone who earns millions a year? It's just that you don't have the resources, and now you actually say that you are demanding, and you are really speechless. Why should you find a boyfriend who is so good at yourself?
In fact, for Ms. Li's mate selection requirements, according to normal, it is not high, and now young people with good conditions will have such requirements.
In the author's opinion, the most important thing in marriage is to love each other, and understanding each other is the most important, and perhaps some people care more about material requirements. Some people will say that this society can buy love as long as it has money, and I will not argue about this statement.
The author can only say, is the love bought with money reliable? Loyal? There is a saying that "husband and wife are originally flying with forest birds and big difficulties," and everyone should be able to see a lot of problems from this sentence.
What do you want to say about Ms. Li's mate selection criteria? Let's comment on it together.