Do we lack life dramas to watch? What we lack is a grounded life drama, a drama that can pay attention to the pain points of the people, a drama that can resonate with us, and the drama "Dear Child" just belongs to this category.
This drama summarizes many pain points in society, which many people have experienced or may experience.
Some people who say that he is "selling anxiety" are not convinced, but the truth is that whether you sell or not, anxiety has always existed.
01 child
Children are always the focus of a family, most families are child-centered, and the show "Dear Child" begins with the awkwardness of the child before birth.
After pregnancy, morning sickness, becoming a big belly, full of face spots, belly full of stretch marks, swollen legs and feet in the third trimester, fidgeting and unable to sleep, this is a pregnant woman experience.
Of course, there are some good luck, the reaction is not so big, that really have to clap your hands and congratulate.
These things many fathers will also feel, experienced the surprise of the early pregnancy, and then opened a hard companionship, because the stomach is too big, in the middle of the night to help their wives turn over.
The appetite in the third trimester of pregnancy is too good, helping his wife go out to buy food in the middle of the night, and even running a long way, just to buy the bite you want to eat.
Adding a child to a family is bound to cause a storm, whether it is happy or anxious, always accompanied by some conflict.
Before birth, everything can be solved and controlled, but after the birth of the child, some things cannot be controlled at all.
First of all, there must be someone to take care of the child, a family must sacrifice a person's time to do this, most of the family is borne by the mother, no matter how good your previous job, no matter how high the education, the final role is replaced by the title of "the mother of a child".
Family conditions are better, both do not want to give up the career, you can ask the nanny to take the child at home, now how many examples of child abuse have broken out on the Internet, so that many families have dispelled this idea.
There are old people to help bring there are also troubles, with children to tell the truth than to work is more tired, those who have taken their children at home know that going to work is simply equivalent to a vacation.
The old man is in good health, in case the old man is tired, it is another burden.
Coupled with the education of the elderly to the child, and the concept of young people is still different, most of the elderly will dot on the child, will give the child a lot of bad habits, after work to see the child while looking at the tablet while being chased to feed, really angry whether there is a blow.
Of course, there are also elderly people with advanced thinking, reading parenting books every day, according to online knowledge, using scientific methods to help bring babies, after all, it is a minority, there are such parents, it is really a treasure.
"Dear Child" in the child after the birth of a lot of conflicts, the sister-in-law is not reliable, the mother-in-law to help with the child, afraid of spending money not to let the sister-in-law please, do not let the diaper not wet, wash a lot of their own son's childhood clothes as diapers, push the child to play mahjong, smoke in front of the child, such and that thing can not be anxious?
The final solution is that Fang Yinuo's mother still has two years to retire, in order to help bring her grandson can only do early retirement, after all, Fang Yinuo can not give up his work, only let his mother to back up.
02 Infidelity within marriage
As long as the current TV series is a realistic theme, there will be marital infidelity, which is not an isolated case, but a matter faced by many problematic families.
After all, the social pressure is great, after the passionate period after the two get married, it will expose a lot of problems, the pressure of work, coupled with the family with children and children, making chickens and dogs jump, the wife does not have the energy to take care of your feelings, these have formed a gap.
There are many men who would rather stay in the car than go home, and when they find comfort outside, even if it is just a little care, they will feel so warm, and their hearts will move naturally, and cheating is sooner or later.
At first, men did not think of divorce, but if the third party is not willing, it is not something you can control when you come to the door, and it is harmful to your wife and family.
There are only two endings:
First, be forgiven, because of the pressure to continue to cheat, or be pestered by a third party and eat back grass, more and more intense.
Second, direct divorce, even if you still love your wife in your heart, it is irretrievable.
There are too many such examples, and this is the reality. Even the best promises will be defeated by a life of chicken feathers.
This kind of anxiety is indeed worth pondering, and even if you try to avoid it, it is difficult to say that you can't meet it.
Whether it is Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only", Gu Xin in "Heart Residence", or Xiao Lu in "Dear Child", they have not got a good ending.
So cheating needs to be cautious, there is no good ending!
03 Second marriage
Now many families are composed of two marriages, with children to remarry is not a minority, if you can marry a good family, it is a kind of healing for the child, if the family is not good for the child, it is a secondary injury for the child.
So why many families after divorce, are to choose a person to bring up the child, although know that the lack of one party's love is incomplete, but afraid that the child will be hurt, or choose a person to bring up.
Many children from single-parent families understand things early, but some also go astray because of their parents' divorce.
In the play, Fang Yinuo watched Hehe call other children's fathers in the playground, her heart also hurt, for the sake of the child, she married Xie Tianhua, even if there is a big sister who is stubborn, she has to endure the sneering and sarcastic to her all day, all so that Hehe can enjoy the father's love.
Fang Yinuo is lucky, many second-married and remarried, not satisfactory, can only suffer in silence, after all, no one is willing to announce their disgraceful things to the outside world.
Second marriage is also a common phenomenon in this society, but also to attract people's attention, second marriage needs to be cautious, must be considered clearly!
04 Illness
Why everyone puts health first, because everything in life revolves around health.
Not to mention the physical pain after illness, the anxiety of family members is also very realistic.
Previously reported that there was an office worker, because the father was seriously ill to take leave to go back, the result of the father in the hospital for more than ten days is not okay, the son is in pain, on the one hand, the company urged him to go back to work, otherwise he will be fired, on the other hand, his biological father is seriously ill.
The son collapsed and asked the father why he had not died, and finally the father chose to liberate himself in order to complete his son's return to work.
This incident caused a shock to many people at that time, all of whom were condemning the son's cruelty, and could only say that this was the reality.
There are also expenses after illness, saving a lifetime of money, only to find that it is not enough to treat the disease when you are sick, in order to cure the disease, even the people who sell cars and sell houses are also very large, if the illness is cured, there is a comfort, if the last person has no money, it will really become a tragedy.
Not to mention that like the leukemia in the play, it is difficult to find a suitable match, and it is also difficult for patients with uremia to wait for the right kidney source.
Lucky as Xiaoying waited, bad luck left in the waiting, leaving only the family in pain.
Although it is normal to live, grow old, sick and die, life is what everyone yearns for, and we cannot deprive them of their rights.
05 Human nature
The most controversial thing about "Dear Child" is that Hehe has not waited for the right match, the doctor said that he did not keep the umbilical cord blood before, you can try to have another child, umbilical cord blood has a 20 to 50% chance of saving Hehe.
Hearing this hope, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu actually moved this idea, they thought that doing test tubes would not violate morality and ethics, and as a result, because Fang Yinuo's body did not allow it, it took a while to recover, Fang Yinuo actually wanted to come with Xiao Lu to be real, and the two really went to the hotel.
Fortunately, the last sanity kept them from crossing the line, but it also left everyone with a thought:
In such a situation, to save or not to save? If you save, how to save, is it waiting?
If you can't wait for the right donor, can you just watch your child go?
These questions are actually difficult to answer, but they are encountered by some families, and Hehe is lucky in the TV series, and finally found the right match.
But life is not a TV series, life can not be repeated, encounter things to solve, but how to solve also depends on reality.
"Dear Child" this drama left us with a lot of things worth pondering, although the TV series is a bit exaggerated, but some things are from life, we must cherish life, cherish the people around us, cherish their healthy body, hope that everyone can live well.