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The plot of "Dear Child" is more and more touching, Hehe's condition has become less stable, from time to time there are some small accidents, watching the children in the next room suddenly leave, everyone is holding a heart, afraid that Hehe has some accidents, so he left.
Delayed in cooperating with the right bone marrow, the doctor told them that there was a way, that is, to regenerate a child, use the child's umbilical cord blood to treat Hehe, although the probability of success is not 100%, but they all decided to try.
Two people who have divorced and have formed a new family each, behind this decision is full of all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, first of all, the partners of both of them, are difficult to accept.
Dong Fan learned not to compromise, adhere to her own principles and bottom line, have a child and she can only choose one, and is very determined, there is no room for maneuver, and Xie Tianhua is willing to accept her to do so because he loves Yinuo, and accepts her and Xiao Lu's children, as long as they do not divorce.
Although Xie Tianhua did not want to divorce, Yinuo felt that he was very indebted to him in his heart, unwilling to let him suffer this loss, and several times he proposed to him for divorce, and Xiao Lu was dong fan who wanted to divorce, and Xiao Lu was unwilling to divorce.
Their marriage is in jeopardy, as their partner, are the most deeply hurt people, netizens are very distressed Dong Fan and Xie Tianhua, hope that they divorce, let Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu be together, there are also many people who hope that they can be reunited.
But in my opinion, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu are reunited, which is unlikely.
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From the current point of view, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's relationship has become inexplicably harmonious, compared with before their divorce, it is simply a world of difference.
Xiao Lu became a very responsible father, paying money and contributing, spending more time and energy on Hehe, hoping to make up for the debt he once owed to Hehe.
And Fang Yinuo for Hehe, but also gradually let go of the hatred that once had for him, the two people are all for the good of Hehe, whether it is in the matter of loving and taking care of Hehe, or in order to save Hehe, they have only one goal, that is, to save Hehe.
Under such circumstances, the two of them can't argue, not only can't argue, but may also make the people around them think that they are too much like a couple.
I think that's one of the reasons why so many people want them back together, feeling that these two people can be better together because they have a common child, about to have a second child, and it would be better for two people to be together.
Theoretically, it would be better to do so, after all, if they have two children, they are with the current, in fact, it is unfair to their current. But ethically, doing so is hurting your partner.
For Dong Fan, his husband did not have children with himself, but he gave birth to another one with his ex-wife, how could she endure, when there was only Hehe, he shared so much love to Hehe, and then there was nothing wrong with her.
For Xie Tianhua, raising two children who do not belong to him, although the child will call himself a father, but he is not biological or biological, what if the child recognizes his biological father in the future, what if he has paid for many years, is not the bamboo basket empty?
Therefore, if Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo regenerate, they both divorce their partners, which is more reasonable.
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So, in fact, I am quite supportive of both of them divorced, but from the current point of view, it may not necessarily go in this direction, Dong Fan and Xiao Lu may divorce, as long as Dong Fan is persistent enough. And Xie Tianhua is not necessarily here, because he really loves Fang Yinuo.
Assuming that both of them are divorced from their partners, is it possible for Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu to get back together?
I think the answer is no, they can't get back together, even if they have another child, Fang Yinuo will not remarry Xiao Lu, will not remarry him for the sake of the child.
When she divorced Xiao Lu at the beginning, she hated Xiao Lu completely, and now she let go of her hatred only because of Hehe and did not bother to calculate the past mistakes with him.
Obviously, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo will not be able to be together anymore, because Xiao Lu has no feelings for each other, and to him, she is just the mother of his own child, that's all.
From Xiao Lu's begging Dong Fan not to divorce him, it can be seen that he actually does not want to divorce Dong Fan, he still likes Dong Fan, and he is afraid of missing this girl.
After the comparison between Dong Fan and Fang Yinuo, Xiao Lu may also understand that someone like Dong Fan is more suitable for him, and there will be endless quarrels with Fang Yinuo.
So even if they are all divorced, they will not divorce for the sake of the children, the situation of the two of them is likely to be Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu two people taking care of the children together, but they will not live together, just like many divorced people, two people take care of the children together, you take care of one three five, I take care of two four six.
Fang Yinuo will no longer hate Xiao Lu as much as she did in the past, and she will be willing to let Xiao Lu participate in the growth of her children. This may also be the best choice for both of them.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Dear Little Child"