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Many people say: A woman has a child once to know whether the person she marries is reliable.
In real life, we often hear such complaints: the child let me see the true face of my husband and in-laws, I regret giving birth to him, after having a child, he is far worse than before...
Although giving birth to a child is a matter for the mother, after the child lands, the trivial life is also testing the feelings between the husbands little by little, and in the eyes of women, they need to be cared for and cared for by their husbands after giving birth.
Not long ago, a mother posted a photo of the baby's first birthday on the Internet, and what is unusual is that this first birthday party does not seem to have anything to do with the child, but a husband's thank you ceremony for his wife, and the mother is also rated as the happiest mother by netizens.
"Congratulations to the wife on the first anniversary of childbirth" Bao Dad pulled a banner to thank his wife, netizens soured: other people's husbands!
In the eyes of many people, the child's first birthday is a very important thing, and on the day of the first year, the protagonist should naturally be the baby.
But in the following family, a father's approach has subverted the cognition of many people, only to see him pull a banner on the wall, which reads: Congratulations to his wife on the first anniversary of childbirth.
In addition, Dad also carefully decorated the house and prepared a new mobile phone and some small gifts for his wife as a celebration gift for the first anniversary of childbirth.
In Bao Dad's view, the child's birthday is the wife's Good Friday, compared to the whole family happily celebrating the first anniversary of the birth of the child, it is more important to remember the wife's hard work, and in a family, as long as the wife is happy and smooth, the family atmosphere must be happy and happy.
In fact, in the eyes of the wife, her husband is not a superficial party, since the birth of the child, the husband has almost taken care of everything about the baby.
In the eyes of the wife, the husband who holds the child for the longest time is the husband, the husband who gets up in the middle of the night to make milk powder for the child, and the husband who patiently coaxes the child... Even when the child was weaned, the husband took care of the whole time, never a word of complaint and impatience.
Full of patience with the children and pampering the wife, the husband's approach not only made the wife very moved, but also won the praise of countless netizens.
Some people bluntly say that this is someone else's father, if every husband can be grateful to his wife, I believe that all marital contradictions and family conflicts will be big and small.
Netizen Comments:
"Bao Mama is so happy, such a husband is afraid that it is difficult to find it with a lantern!"
"I was touched by someone else's husband, my pig teammates don't say anything about me, even if the child is over the age of one, they all act to care about themselves, and it's all my worries before and after."
"A good man who loves his wife, in fact, this father has a high emotional intelligence, he knows that the wife's emotions in a family are the most important, the wife feels love and care, and the whole family's life is better."
It's so warm, it's really important to marry the right person! When you meet such a husband, who is still afraid of having a second child and having a third child? ”
Many people agree with this sentence: the relationship between husband and wife is the feng shui of a family, and in a good family, the relationship between husband and wife must be superior to the parent-child relationship.
For many women, having children is a watershed in married life.
The landing of children not only means a change in personal identity, but also allows the romantic life that was originally envisaged to be planted in the mud of reality, and when we try to adapt to this change, there will naturally be emotional collapse.
At this time, if the other half can take the initiative to assume the responsibility of a husband and father, in the relationship between husband and wife, they can also understand the wife's difficulty, and use practical actions to give each other love and care, then the wife can quickly adjust under the encouragement and immersion of love, and the small family will become happier and happier.
On the contrary, if the husband regards the child as the terminator of love, is forced by various pressures to habitually ignore the wife's feelings, and even the two are gradually separated due to lack of communication, such a marriage relationship will only cause more and more life contradictions.
Finally, as parents, I hope that all husbands and wives in the world can respect and love each other.
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