Author | Ru Fengjun · A jane of parsley
Source | Rufeng Everyone (ID: rufengdajia)
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Yan Jiao
The ancient Roman philosopher Cicero said, "Without friendship, the world is like losing the sun." ”
Most of the people in life have become passers-by, and there are only a few good friends who are around all the time.
The sea of people is vast, and the best thing in the world is to make friends with three or five people.
Those friends who can accompany us throughout our lives often begin with interest, loyalty to character, and longevity.
To be able to meet such a friend is our luck and blessing.
Li Bai, 26 years old, admired his "idol" Meng Haoran for a long time.
Knowing that Meng Haoran was living in seclusion in Xiangyang, he went to visit. At this time, Meng Haoran was 38 years old and had become famous in the poetry world.
They saw it as they were. The same is a teenager living in seclusion, both literary and martial, the two have similar interests, can be described as seeing each other and hating late.
They often sang about the wine, and it was not pleasant.
At this time, Li Bai, a poet with great hair, wrote "Gift to Meng Haoran" to show his true feelings:
"I love MengFuzi, and I smell it all over the world." The red face abandons the crown, and the white head lies in the pine cloud. ”
In his eyes, Meng Haoran is a talented and brilliant person.
The same official frustration, ambition is not rewarded, in each other's eyes, they see another self.
The following year, in March, the two met again at the Yellow Crane Tower. Meng Haoran was going to Guangling, and Li Bai personally sent it to the river.
When parting, Li Bai silently watched his friend leave, and wrote down "The lonely sail is far away and the blue sky is exhausted, only to see the skyline of the Yangtze River", and sighed with thousands of ways to leave.
Life is geometric, how fortunate to meet like-minded people!
Fu Lei and Huang Binhong, one is a translator, and the other is a master of the art world.
The difference between the two is 43 years, but they are a real pair of forgetful friends.
Huang Binhong has been diligent in painting before, but his works have not been understood and accepted.
Fu Lei was very interested in the study of Chinese painting, generally criticizing and criticizing, but only for Huang Binhong's paintings.
The two have profound artistic attainments and similar pursuits. They often exchange letters, one creation, one commentary, complementing each other perfectly.
Huang Binhong donated a large number of his paintings to Fu Lei, more than 60 paintings, which is extremely rare in the history of painting.
Fu Lei wrote 121 letters to Huang Binhong, which was the most he wrote to others besides to his son Fu Cong.
The most touching thing is that when Huang Binhong was 80 years old, Fu Lei actively ran and held his first solo exhibition for him.
Fu Lei also wrote a 4,700-word introduction to the exhibition, explaining in detail Huang Binhong's painting characteristics and artistic style.
His analysis of the work is accurate and in place, which is deeply approved by Huang Binhong. The exhibition was ultimately a great success.
In the red dust world, if you can meet people who are similar to your own soul and have similar interests, and move forward together, this life is enough.
He appreciates your talent, you understand his difficulties; he helps you realize your dreams with his heart, and you are willing to work hard for him. You have enriched each other's lives with sincerity.
Heard a quote:
"The happiest thing in life is to meet a person who understands you, without a thousand words, and already has a sharp mind."
Those true friends in life, at the moment of encounter, seem to be doomed for a lifetime.
Each other's hearts have long understood each other, and they have long been united.
After reading a sentence, I deeply agree: character is a person's hardest bottom card.
When you interact with people with good character, you can always feel full of kindness.
They make people feel reliable and make people unconsciously want to get closer.
Yan Zi, a diplomat of the State of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period, treated his friends respectfully and courteously, and once he identified a friend, he would not change for the rest of his life.
Beiguo Sao was a famous scholar of the State of Qi at the same time as Yan Zi. Due to the poverty of his family, Beiguo Sao was unable to serve his elderly mother.
So he went to visit Yanzi, hoping to get some food and be able to support his mother.
Yan Zi had long heard of the great name of Northern Guo Sao and wanted to make friends with him.
He not only warmly received BeiguoSao, but also gave him a lot of food and money before leaving.
Beiguo Sao refused the money and accepted the grain, and the two became very good friends from then on.
Soon after, Yan Zi was rumored to be jealous by Qi Jinggong and fled to other countries.
Before leaving, Yan Zi passed by Beiguo Sao's house and came in to say goodbye.
Yan Zi told Beiguo Sao about the incident, but BeiGuo Sao looked indifferent, just said: "Please take care of yourself", and then stopped talking.
Yan Zi was a little lost and left silently.
Who knows, after Yan Zi left, Beiguo Sao found his friend and said to him:
"I admired Yanzi's morality and fellowship with him. Now that he is being unjustly suspected, I will use my life to clear his name. ”
After that, Beiguo Sao changed his clothes, asked his friends to carry swords and bamboo boxes, and followed them to the palace to meet Qi Jinggong.
He said passionately to Qi Jinggong:
"Yan Bao is a well-known sage, because he is in other countries, afraid and dare not invade."
If he perished, the state of Qi would be violated. I don't want to see the lives of the country ruined, and I am willing to use my life to clear the grievances of Yanzi."
Qi Jinggong saw this scene and regretted it very much. So he personally drove and recovered Yanzi at the border.
When YanZi learned that BeiguoSao had actually sacrificed his life to prove his innocence, he felt sad and remorseful that he had misunderstood Beiguosao.
Throughout the ages, the so-called true friends, the most important thing is to look at the character.
Good character, consistent treatment of people, and social interaction with such people, a lifetime of steadfastness.
I like a sentence: I can't keep my feelings, but my sincerity will always be there.
In life, people interact with each other and can go to the end with a sincere heart.
True friends are nothing more than a piece of sincerity.
In times of crisis, he desperately plunges a knife into your ribs; when he is sad, he accompanies you to share your worries and solve your problems.
During the Northern Song Dynasty, Fan Zhongyan and Wang Qian were close friends.
Wang Qian admired Fan Zhongyan's talent and often asked him for poetry, and Fan Zhongyan was also happy to communicate with him.
Later, Fan Zhongyan was demoted from Beijing for advocating reform. The imperial court began to liquidate Fan Zhongyan's party in a big way, so many officials were afraid to avoid it.
At that time, only the hostage stepped forward. He was seriously ill, but he still dragged his sick body and risked the great sin of the Nine Tribes to send Fan Zhong out of the city.
Fan Zhongyan held a piece of sincerity, and when he fell, the wang hostage was willing to send him thousands of miles; and the wang hostage was also a piece of sincerity, no matter when, he was not ashamed of his friends.
A true friend, the words may not be too much, but when it comes to things, he is never absent.
Writer Liu Baiyu and his son, who is seriously ill, went to Shanghai to see a doctor.
In the end, his son's condition did not improve, and he had to ask his wife to return to Beijing with his critically ill son.
On the afternoon of the day when the mother and son returned, Liu Baiyu was uncertain and restless.
After Ba Jin learned of this, he was afraid that bad news would come, and he was worried that Liu Baiyu could not stand it, so he went to visit him.
When he came to Liu Baiyu's hospital room, he didn't say anything, just silently accompanied him, waiting for the news.
When the phone rang, the mother and son arrived home safely, and they breathed a long sigh of relief.
Before leaving, Liu Baiyu tightly held Ba Jin's hand and kept thanking him.
Ba Jin waved his hand and said lightly, nothing, just free, just want to sit with you.
In this life, how many people accompany you around and are willing to sit with you when you are uncomfortable?
People live a lifetime, saying that it is long and long, and saying that it is short and short.
People in life come and go, dazzling, but this life until the end of life, there are only a few close friends, still by your side.
True friends are the most precious wealth in life, and only by cherishing and being grateful can friendship last in the heart.
Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot tolerate false feelings.
Click "Watching" and may we all cherish those who will still be called friends long after.
Author | Ru Fengjun · A jane of parsley
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