Three realms of life: youth is good, middle age is round, and old age is round

Heaven and earth in January, the moon prints all rivers.

The beauty of the "circle", like the clear light of the ground, is everywhere.

When it comes to circles, there are always different expectations.

Confucius talked about "yuan" and "active action, striving to forge ahead, this is the circle of goodness."

Lao Tzu talked about "circle", "Xuanzhi and Xuan, the door of all wonders, this is the circle".

Shakyamuni talked about "circle", learned to look at the void, and was willing to be charitable, which is harmony;

Just as the three stages of life, young people are round and good, middle-aged people are round, and old people are round, and only then can they cultivate positive results.

As Mr. Oniguko said, "Spring is born, summer is long, autumn harvest, and winter hides the heavens of Masanobu"!

Youth is good

Act positively

"It's not what you choose to decide your life, it's what you choose to give up."

The founder of Confucianism was Confucius in the late Spring and Autumn Period, with "benevolence" as the highest belief, which is a traditional religion unique to the Chinese nation.

And Yuanshan is the perfection of life that Confucians pursue.

People always feel tired, and do not know why, one day, when we look back, we will find that it is only two things that have trapped us.

Unsatisfied, we are exhausted. We are always comparing, looking at others who have bought a bigger house, others you have changed into a better car, constantly making yourself tired in the comparison, just forgetting that we have the best Chinese years at the moment.

Not knowing the way, we are confused and moving forward. We don't really know what we want, we're just burying our heads in a hurry, but we don't stop to think about what we want to live, and irritability and loss are always around us.

We have just dusted the most important thing in the corner, that is, our dreams and pursuits.

When Fan Zhongyan was a teenager, he met a wise man who asked him to plan his future.

At the beginning, Fan Zhongyan hurriedly asked, "Can I be the prime minister in the future?" ”

The wise man was displeased, and Fan Zhongyan continued, "Can you be a doctor if you can't be the prime minister?" ”

The wise man wondered: "How can the gap between two ambitions be so large?"

Fan Zhongyan said calmly, "Only good doctors and good looks can save people!" ”

The wise man was quite touched after listening to it, and said to Fan Zhongyan, "You have such ambitions, you can definitely become the prime minister in the future." ”

As the wise man said, many years later, Fan Zhongyan became a generation of famous prime ministers, and his countless good deeds benefited the world, and his family flourished for eight hundred years.

In our eyes, they seem to have only a green light in life, always going straight, never hindering and bumping, but they don't know that behind the bright and beautiful is actually the persistence of pursuing goodness.

When you feel tired and try to give up again and again, try again, and you will be one step closer to the circle.

If you jump hard, you may touch the top of the pyramid, and you are more likely to see a different scenery.

Middle-aged yuantong

Optimism is born

In the "Journey to the West", it is said: The secret circle is really wonderful, and there is no one to say about his life

There is nothing else in the double cultivation of life, nothing more than the spirit of the spirit, learn to preserve, learn to look down, there is no longer confusion.

The years are impermanent, floating like dreams, the middle of the circle is empty, the outer lines are meaningful, and the circle has become the optimal solution for adults to solve their puzzles.

As the host Bai Yansong said: "Chinese there is a saying called forty not confused, 30 years old is subtraction, 40 years old is confused, not not confused! I think 40 years old is probably the most confusing in this day and age. People generally start to be confused by the age of thirty-six or seven, is it worth it for me to do all this? Does it make sense? What the hell am I going to do? At the age of 30, you find that many happiness goals are linked to material things, but it is difficult not to be confused forty! ”

Ever read such a story.

Some people are looking forward to embarking on a trip. Xingchong boarded the train to Jiadi, but after getting on the train, he heard some passengers say that Bdi was better.

He was very upset, constantly regretting that he had gotten on the wrong train, but the train did not stop for him, still on the speeding train, and he was more and more frustrated, silently thinking about the beautiful scenery missed in the distance, but forgetting the fantastic scenery on both sides of the road.

On the rest of the trip, he also spent it in bad mood; on the way back, he found that he was completely unimpressed by the trip, but the train had arrived at the station, and he could not go back again.

This is more like our thirty or forty years old life, all the way to chase, all the way unwilling, and then look back, has passed half a life; Chunhua died early, it is already a thin twilight, autumn has been late, leaving only confusion.

When people reach middle age, it is as if the time has entered autumn. It is time to curb desires, take stock and cherish the results you have achieved; fame and fortune are illusory, and you should not force them anymore.

Respect is victorious over laziness, righteousness is victorious over desire; know its male, and guard its female. Calmly allow for a glass of wine, a flat cup of tea.

It is not easy for people to go to the world once, and it is too difficult to exhaust everything. What should be obtained, just use your heart and effort to fight, what you should not get, look, think about it, there is no need to bother.

I am blessed, but I am lost. Learn to control the blank space inside the circle, what is outside the circle boundary, just follow the edge.

Old age mellows

Learn to be bearish

The Lengyan Sutra volume four clouds: If you come to see the earth, water, fire, and wind are harmonious in nature, you go around the Fa-realm, and you live in a permanent place

Earth, water, fire, and wind are mutually exclusive but harmoniously symbiotic, encompassing each other and constituting all things in the world.

The circle allows everything in the world to maintain its original position, perfect, and complete; to merge, to allow all sentient beings to blend and coexist, without conflict, and to promote the improvement of cultivation.

Harmony becomes a perfect fusion, a mature fusion, a complete fusion. There is no opposition, but the boundaries between you and me, inside and outside, and size are clear, and the same will not rub, and the difference will show its own use.

After reading thousands of books of poetry, walking thousands of miles, seeing countless people, and experiencing all kinds of heartache and hardships in life, the elderly have realized and thoroughly understood and integrated into the best choice for people in their twilight years.

In 1997, Yang Dai's daughter Qian Zhen died of illness, and the white-haired person sent the black-haired person.

At the end of 1998, Qian Zhongshu died of illness.

The good things in the world are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle.

At that time, someone went to see Yang Dai and took Yang Dai's hand and kept crying.

And the 88-year-old Yang Dai in turn comforted her:

You're four years younger than Qian, silly boy, I've survived, don't you want to be so sad?

If you think about it, if I walk in front of my daughter and Zhong Shu, can Youyi and Zhong Shu bear it?

So, this is not a bad thing, you think deeply, let me pick the burden of pain, isn't this a good thing?

After the death of Mr. Qian Zhongshu, Yang Dai no longer liked to go out, she collected the scattered manuscripts of Qian Zhongshu, and some of the broken manuscripts were collaged by her one by one, sorted out and successively handed over to the publishing house.

In 2000, Yang Chen's translation of "Phaedo" was published.

In 2003, she wrote "The Two of Us", which is now also published.

In the same year, Yang Dai was unanimously awarded the title of "Lady of Literature".

As Mr. Yang Dai said:

Everyone will have an unusually difficult time, the pressure of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of school, and love is too much to live.

Survive, life will suddenly open up; if you can't survive, time will also teach you how to shake hands with them and make peace, so don't be afraid.

No desire, no desire, no sorrow or joy, light clouds and light winds, and the pursuit of inner peace in life attitude. It is the highest state of harmony.

It can make people learn to look short, become physically and mentally happy, charitable, and then prolong life.

Young people are kind, active, and create a foundation for their careers;

Middle-aged and kind, see through and look down, and keep the blessing of half a life;

Old age is harmonious, learn to look short, and live a lifelong life.

The "circle" is not an illusion, but a departure, growth and transformation again and again.

As long as we believe in the circle, we will have something more precious than perfection.