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When people reach middle age, it is difficult to walk without money.
Therefore, making good money and slamming the door has become a compulsory course for middle-aged people.
Confucius once said, "Wealth and nobility are what people desire; they are not to be gained by their way, nor to be treated." ”
If a person wants to be rich, he cannot say big words in his empty mouth, but must use the right method to obtain it, and he must adhere to the principle and the bottom line.
Everyone has a mouth, and we can speak when we open it, but we must speak selectively, don't let the "rich" slip out of the mouth, and don't cause trouble.
Smart middle-aged people, talk about money, shut up and be human.
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Talking about money is the self-discipline that middle-aged people should have.
Someone said: "When I was a child, I admired people who 'regarded money as dung' and thought that they were chivalrous; when I grew up, I learned that people without money are as cheap as dung, and only those who have money can be chivalrous." ”
Supporting the elderly, taking care of children, living a good life, everything, needs to spend money. Therefore, not talking about money is equivalent to "escaping reality", which is very high on the surface, but in fact, it does not play the role of a good parent and does not assume the responsibility of the pillar.
But how do you negotiate money? Instead of putting money on your lips every day, you should talk to your family more about how to make money, how to save money, how to spend money, and let the limited money be used in the most practical place.
There is a story in "Yanzi Spring and Autumn": Qi Jinggong's hound has passed away, and he is very sad, arranging an entourage around him, helping to buy a special coffin, and preparing to do it in a big way.
The minister Yanzi said, "You are the king of a country, and you take the money of the people, how can you run the dog?" You are doing this to be laughed at by the princes. ”
Qi Jinggong thought twice, and he no longer gave the dog a handle.
Maybe you will laugh secretly— a king can spend a lot of money on keeping a dog, but he can ignore it when it comes to caring for the people. This is putting the cart before the horse.
But if you think about it carefully, and then look at the people around you, you will find that many middle-aged people at present, with expensive dogs at home, are willing to buy dog food and walk their dogs every day, but their time with their parents is pitiful; the time for caring for brothers and sisters is very small, and the money spent is also small; the care for society is very little, and often crushes the poorer people with arrogance. These people and Qi Jinggong's ideas and practices have many similarities.
Remember, good steel is used on the blade; real gold is used in harmony.
First of all, talk to your lover about money, discuss making money and spending money. Husband and wife work together to find a way, the money will come faster, and can resolve a lot of contradictions related to money.
Then, talk to your parents about money, know the wealth of the extended family, and avoid quarrels between brothers and sisters. You can also use this opportunity to better support your parents and give them what they really need.
Finally, talking about money with relatives, friends, collaborators, etc., you can grasp the trend of career development, and do "clear accounting", reach consensus, and reduce unnecessary disputes.
Master Hui said, "When you are going to speak, what you say must be more valuable than your silence." ”
The money thing is clearly explained, the scale is accurate, and the power source of making money is formed, so you have a mouth, there is value, there is a temperature.
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Being a person is the confidence of middle-aged people to make money.
I like the saying, "Effective action is more convincing when words are no longer effective." ”
How much money a person can make is fateful. If you don't have the money, you just toss it hard, and you won't get it, but it will lead to your own physical and mental exhaustion.
In the thirty-sixth volume of "The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting", there is a man named Shen Yi, born in the Song Dynasty, who opened a restaurant on the shore of the West Lake in Lin'an Province, and his family was solid.
One night, a very grand boat docked next to the restaurant, and five fairy people disembarked, walked into the restaurant, ordered a large table of dishes, and asked for several large jars of fine wine.
Shen Yi thought that these people were gods and should help them get rich, so he pleaded: "I am a small citizen of the city, and I hope that a few of them can help me." ”
The immortals looked at each other and smiled, and with a wave of their hands, they took a package and said, "The treasures are all inside, and when you go home, carefully open them." ”
After the immortal left, Shen Yi opened the package, saw the treasure, and was so happy that his mouth could not be closed. At this time, his wife panicked and said: "The family's warehouse has been stolen." "It turned out that the things in the package were all from their own warehouses.
The ancients said: "Assets have their own divisions, and greed is wasteful and hesitant." ”
Middle-aged people, want to make money, first learn to be human. As long as you walk right, walk steadily, and have a way to get rich, you can really get rich, and all the crooked and evil routines will not make a person really rich.
First, be an ambitious person and amplify your own pattern. Don't covet the benefits of a moment and a half and lose your character; don't think of getting rich overnight, get closer to the wealth step by step.
Second, be a moral person and believe in the truth of "virtue and goods". In the Spring and Autumn Period, Qin Mugong's horse was lost, and he sent people to look for it, and found a group of yellow-skinned people who stole the horse and were eating horse meat. He was not angry, but sympathized with these people, so he achieved a good reputation and laid the foundation for his hegemony.
When you are loved by everyone, do anything, there will be a large group of people to support you. That's the basis of making money.
Third, be a person who loves your family, at any time, don't be in the nest. As the saying goes, "Home and everything is good." "With the strength of your family, you have the backing to make money." Of course, this "home" can also be a "big social family".
Confucius said, "Poverty and lowliness are the evils of man; they do not receive them by their ways, nor do they go." ”
Everyone is afraid of poverty, but without morality, poverty will follow you, and you will not be able to get rid of it. Therefore, we have to spend a lot of time, be a good person, and be quiet and far-reaching.
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To be a human being, you must keep your mouth shut when you have to keep your mouth shut, and when you have to do it, you must use your hands.
Buffett, the stock god, said: "Investment must be rational." If you can't understand it, don't do it. ”
The truly capable person is the master of wealth, not the slave of wealth.
Your ability, your moral qualities, to match money, desire is greater than desire, and it becomes hopeless.
Talk about money, talk about things.
Shut up and work hard.
A kind mouth is your own feng shui.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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