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Loving someone cannot be hidden.
Remember in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Baoyu was tricked by Xue Pan to eat wine, and at the banquet, Baoyu made a "Red Bean Song":
"Drops of acacia blood and tears throw red beans, and spring willows and spring flowers cannot be opened to fill the painting building." After the wind and rain and dusk of the unsteady screen window, I can't forget the new worries and old worries. Can't swallow the jade grain gold medicine choking on the throat, and the mirror of the diamond flower can't be described as thin"...
Through the words, it was as if I saw the figure of a thin woman with a tight brow in the boudoir in the bamboo forest. Sorrow is like a red bean, between the two of them, condensing the gathering and dispersion of life.
It can be seen that Baoyu has a deep affection for her, he understands her, and he has her in his heart.
He knew everything about her, no matter how exquisite the dish was, she couldn't swallow it; the mirror looked at her face, the sorrow between her eyebrows was always a grievance that could not be opened; the night was lonely, she coughed for a long time and could not sleep...
He thought of her in his heart, so he knew her life very well, his mind was transparent to her, and he felt empathy for everything about her.
Love, although it is not expressed, but remembered, but it is like a shadow, accompanied by his life.
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There were some encounters that seemed to be unintentional, but they hid the person deep in their hearts from then on.
There is some love, seemingly heartless, but let the person take you to heart all the time.
The emotions between people, many times, are elusive, mainly because love, although it is a hazy feeling, is a kind of fate involved.
Women are always too emotional, too sensitive, when they like a person, there will even be some feeling of inferiority in their hearts, but it is likely that you yourself feel that you are not excellent, in his eyes, but when you look at you, your eyes are full of tenderness, and when you can't see you, your heart is full of worries.
In fact, when a man is willing to do these three things for you, you don't have to think about it anymore, he has always been thinking about you in his heart and has never let go.
His love for you is involuntarily, involuntarily.
Can't help but face difficulties and think about them for you first
Perhaps, in this world, the people who hurt you the most will always be your parents, they never care whether you fly high or not, only whether you are tired or not.
And outside of your parents, the person who cares about you the most is the person who cares most about you in your life, who is tired or not, and he will first think about whether you will be sad and sad and whether you will be hurt at every difficult moment in your life.
And if a person does not have you in his heart, he will not care whether you are bitter or not. Whether you are rich and glorious or poor and sloppy, he has never worried about you in his heart.
In the hit drama "Dear Child", the heroine gave birth to a child in the hospital, the child was just born, the pregnant woman has not yet returned to the ward, but her husband is holding her placenta and rushing to send it to his mother.
The man's cold-bloodedness and thinness are vividly expressed in the play, so that the audience does not have to guess, he knows that he does not have his wife in his heart, so he will ignore her when she is weakest and needs to be taken care of the most.
On the contrary, women who are remembered and surrounded by happiness are often the opposite.
I still remember when my cousin gave birth to the baby, my brother-in-law was anxiously waiting outside the ward, nervous and shaking, the toilet went two or three times, and I was worried that if I went to the toilet, my cousin gave birth to him but he was not in front of him, and the water did not dare to drink, and when the cousin came out of the delivery room, the tears came out excitedly, and everyone was very moved.
Yes, a person who always thinks about you, he is not willing to let his woman take risks alone, to face the wind and rain, he will not abandon her when she needs him, he will take "her well" as his own standard for measuring things.
In this life, love is never something that can be seen when you are blessed together, but when you are in trouble, that person holds your hand and makes you feel it.
Can't help but take the initiative to post with you and change your stink
In this world, no one is perfect.
Perhaps, when two people are just in love, there will always be "lovers in the eyes of Xi Shi", looking at each other, the more they look, the better.
However, loving someone is multi-faceted, there is no love, there is no chicken bits and pieces, there is no chicken feathers.
However, if that person, he is always trying to find a way to adapt to you, take the initiative to fit you, he must put you in his heart, because he does not want you to be disappointed in him, uneasy.
And if a person is in the process of getting along with you, at the beginning he is still very concerned about your opinion of him, but the longer it goes on, the more he exposes the shortcomings that he once hid.
For example, we often see men and women eating together on the Internet, when in love, men take the initiative to give women a dish, take the initiative to leave all the delicious food to women, and after really being together, men eat alone, just on a plate of dishes, is what he likes to eat, he does not care that women are still busy, and they are alone like a storm and immediately finish.
More or less, selfish nature is exposed.
Therefore, a man, he thinks of you in his heart, he cannot only think that he can live comfortably, eat comfortably, he will think about you first, give up his stinky disease, let go of his selfish psychology, and take the initiative to change for you.
Some people say that the stinky problem of men is that the left ear listens in and the right ear comes out again.
But a man who really cares about you will take to heart everything you say inadvertently; he will see a nasty look in your eyes and will be jealous.
He is not "afraid of his wife", nor is he silent and silent about you, he does not care, he just loves you with his heart.
Involuntarily, become "gentle", become "single-minded", become "self-motivated"
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", what we feel most deeply is Jia Baoyu's gentleness and thoughtfulness to Lin Daiyu.
Even if he was beaten to the bed and could not move because of the Jin Ju incident, he was still worried that Lin Daiyu would hurt him and asked Qingwen to send her an old veil.
Thinking of a person in his heart, he could not take care of his own safety, thinking about her body first, worrying about her not to be sad too much.
Men really love you, it must be so, afraid that you will be wronged, afraid that you will be bullied, afraid that you have a different body, even if you have a bunch of things waiting for you to be solved, you must first think of a way, first comfort you, do not let you be afraid.
There are always people who say that in men's hearts, there is one who can cook at home, and there can be a worry outside.
But the person who really puts you in his heart, even if he will be tempted by some temptations, will also be attracted by the freshness, and when he walks on the street, his eyes will unconsciously glance at the beautiful girl, but he will not really pick flowers and weeds, nor will he transfer his affection to love at will... Because, if a person has a person in his heart, he will be afraid of his own behavior, ruining his current happiness, ruining his image in your heart, and will be afraid of losing you.
Because he loves you, he will know more about cherishing and cherishing the beauty of your being together, and he will also want to give you a better future, hoping that you can have a warm home under his care.
Men's love is actually very realistic.
If he loves you, he will make you feel that he is really good, he does not love you, he will even have a cup of milk tea money, and he will have to calculate clearly with you.
So, women, if you're not sure if you're the one on the tip of the person's heart, see if he does it, you should understand.
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When a person has a favorite person in his heart, he will put a ball of honey in his heart, and when he is bitter, he will take a bite and feel that the days are sweet.
So, the man's heart, that's it.
If he has you in his heart, he will find a way to give you peace of mind and change for you, and if he does not have you in his heart, he will let you see the darkest selfishness and indifference of human nature.
A truly responsible person, he is not the one who wants to let himself love, be troubled by life, compromised by love, he will be more and more mature, the more love the more stable.
His beloved, live well, his life, is good.
He will not spoil you as a princess, but he has a knowledge in his heart, that is, since this person wants to live with me for a lifetime, he must protect her well, so that she will not suffer and prevent her from being disturbed.
So, women, if you have a man around you who is so worried about you, you must cherish it.
Perhaps, he will not take you to see the prosperity of the world, nor will he take you to ride on the carousel, but he will give you the deepest love and the most reliable dependence.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!