Have you ever had a child talk about whether you are really so flustered when you vaccinate your child?
In the TV series "Dear Child", Fang Yinuo's daughter Hehe wants to get a vaccine, and the whole family chickens fly and jump.
The night before, Hehe had been crying and didn't go to bed until five o'clock in the morning, so Fang Yinuo didn't sleep well.
Fang Yinuo's husband, Xiao Lu, simply did not go home.
Because he came back from overtime at two o'clock in the middle of the night, when he went downstairs, Fang Yinuo asked him to go home and tap, and the child had just fallen asleep.
In order not to disturb the rest of the children and wife, Xiao Lu slept directly in the car downstairs for a night.
Since neither of them slept well at night, they both got up a little late the next morning.
So the mother-in-law began to be unhappy, and she went to bed together to complain that her daughter did not know how to prepare earlier.
Seeing the son-in-law enter the house, he began to accuse the son-in-law of forgetting to vaccinate the child.
The child kept crying, and neither Grandma nor Mom had time to coax.
Xiao Lu was just about to coax the child, but he was stopped by Fang Yinuo, who kept saying "it's too late" in his mouth.
Xiao Lu was about to wash up, and Fang Yinuo sneered at him:
Brush your teeth and you'll get it, what face do you want?
Fang Yinuo checked with her mother what needed to be taken out of the door, and she said that her mother would bring everything back.
So Fang Yinuo urged his mother to hurry out of the house, and even the child forgot.
Obviously, he went out to take the child to get a vaccine, and as a result, he forgot about the child, and you can imagine how anxious Fang Yinuo was.
Looking at this vague screenshot, you can probably feel Fang Yinuo's fiery fire.
Throughout the process, Fang Yinuo and Fang Mu had been urging, as if one minute late, the vaccine would not be able to be delivered.
Xiao Lu went out with the child in his arms, and when he went to the hospital for examination, he became Fang Yinuo holding the child again.
She's still urging the whole time, look at this line:
Hurry up, get up, go for a walk!
Anyway, we don't know what she's in a hurry.
The doctor asked them to pay the fee, and the payment needed to fill out the list, and when he saw Xiao Lu filling in the bill, Fang Yinuo was anxious again.
She took the list and filled it out herself, and then asked Xiao Lu to line up at the place where the fee was paid.
There were many people in line, Xiao Lu was in line with rules and regulations, and there was a woman who wanted to come to cut in line, and Xiao Lu did not agree.
When there were still two people taking their turn to Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo ran to urge Xiao Lu.
When she found out that it wasn't his turn yet, she was anxious again.
She said that the needle had been lined up, but Xiao Lu had not yet arrived, blaming him for not trying to do anything.
Then Fang Yinuo ran to the front to consult with the person at the front of the line, and asked the other party to agree to her joining the line.
The other party agreed, and the woman who had been refused to join the line by Xiao Lu before was not happy and made a loud noise.
After the successful insertion, Fang Yinuo did not care about Xiao Lu's feelings at all, and still complained that he had delayed time.
On the other side, Fang Mu was waiting in the injection room with her child in her arms, but it was their turn but the payment slip did not come and could not get the injection, so the person behind the line went first.
After Fang Yinuo came over, she found that the people behind her ran in front of her, and she was anxious again.
Anyway, this plot is really a lot of fire to watch.
I really want to ask Fang Yinuo: What are you in a hurry for?
The children were one year old, and she still couldn't understand why the children kept crying whenever they were awake.
And as soon as the child cries, she is like the sky falling.
Time to fill out a form and hear a child crying, you have to look at the child's abusive expression of pain.
But you have to say that she really hurts the child, and I don't see how much she cares.
In the later plot, the children have a fever, and she does not notice.
The fever was so high that she didn't immediately send her child to the hospital, but had to wait for her husband to come home.
If you really feel sorry for your child, shouldn't you send your child to the hospital as soon as possible?
Vaccinations are panicked like this, how come the child is sick and she is not in a hurry?
There is also the matter of queuing, people Xiao Road rules and regulations queue, what is the problem?
She is not the only one who needs to go to work, and others are in a hurry.
And since they have all successfully cut into the queue, it is really boring to continue to complain about Xiao Lu's slow queuing.
She felt taken for granted when she cut in line, and she was not happy if others gave her injections in front of her.
Isn't this a typical double standard?
Others did not cut in line, they did not do a good job in their own formalities, so what is the problem with the people at the back of the line going first?
Can't everyone wait for her?
Moreover, a vaccination is at most two minutes, even if it is postponed by one position, where can it be late?
Need to be so anxious?
To be honest, this Fang Yinuo is really very big.
Ever since she had a baby, she was so anxious.
It is indeed normal for new mothers to cope with insufficient anxiety for a while, but the children are one year old, and they are still so anxious, is it a bit too much?
Some people may want to talk about postpartum depression again, but as far as the plot of the play is concerned, Fang Yinuo really has no half-cent relationship with postpartum depression.
The root cause of her state of affairs is that her own mentality is too poor.
After giving birth to the child, Fang Yinuo gave people the feeling that it was
1. My children have the throne to inherit
2. There are always people who want to harm my emperor
She personally carefully selected the sister-in-law and was scared away by her.
The mother-in-law she did not look up to was also driven away by her.
Even her mother, who gave up her career to help her, did not end up well.
Until he got divorced, Fang Yinuo never reflected on his problems and insisted that he had done nothing wrong.
Although the main reason for the divorce between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu was because of Zhu Zhu, in fact, her marriage had already cracked.
From beginning to end, she never cared about her husband.
But whenever there is something, she is the first time to get angry with her husband.
Even with her friends, she did the same.
It was as if she was the only one in the world who was the most innocent, and she was the most right, and the one who was at fault must be someone else.
Double standard is the most fundamental reason for the failure of Fang Yinuo's marriage.
The mother-in-law came to help them with the child, and she asked the mother-in-law who had smoked and played mahjong all her life to quit the smoking addiction of mahjong in an instant, and even the mother-in-law who smoked a cigarette outside had to be put on the line by her.
Xiao Lu tried to balance between his mother and his wife, telling white lies, but she tricked Xiao Lu into lying to her.
My mother forgot to help her install a breast pump and wanted to be blamed by her.
Lao Xie helped the couple play round, and she was scolded.
Catching who bites whom can be said to be the most appropriate description of the other party's promise.
Mother is very great, with children is indeed very tired, but the world is not only Fang Yinuo alone will have children, how can she always give people a feeling that only she is the most wronged?
Of course, compared with Fang Yinuo's mother, Fang Yinuo is already very good.
The reason why Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo came to the point of divorce, Fang Yinuo's mother really made a great contribution.
As a mother-in-law, she simply stirs up the marital feelings of her daughter and son-in-law all the time.
She also never treated her daughter's in-laws with respect.
He blames others all the time, and shows others his face all the time.
If someone else does something wrong, she will not be spared, and she herself does something wrong, but she has all kinds of excuses.
You think that her daughter who wants to stir up trouble divorces her son-in-law, but when her daughter really wants to divorce, she is not happy again.
So you say, what the hell were you messing with before?
If I had to make a ranking list of the most annoying characters in "Dear Child", Fang Yinuo's mother ranked second, and I felt that no one could rank first.
Although other people have their own bad points, there are still shining points in the good villains.
Gao Caiping is indeed a bit grinning, but she is sincere in her treatment of her daughter-in-law Fang Yinuo, and she is willing to make the greatest concession for the marriage harmony of her son and daughter-in-law.
Although Xiao Xu's old man was very disdainful, he only complained behind his back when he saw his sister-in-law and his mother-in-law's style, until Fang Yinuo's mother openly declared war, and he completely tore his face.
Only Fang Yinuo's mother has been running to the family of her daughter from beginning to end.
Take the vaccination, for example, she has been blaming her daughter and son-in-law, but how much has she done herself?
The daughter has to work during the day, the son-in-law often works overtime until midnight, and she is mainly responsible for taking the children during the day.
At night, the child slept with her daughter, but the child made trouble until five o'clock in the morning, did she come to see her grandmother?
Has she ever felt sorry for her daughter as a mother?
If you really feel sorry for your daughter, even if you are really tired during the day, you can't sleep so soundly at night, right?
Remember your previous sister-in-law?
Didn't Fang Yinuo think that it was not good for her sister-in-law to look good at night, so she had an opinion on her?
How come Fang Yinuo's mother, this pro-grandmother, is still the same as the sister-in-law?
In fact, even if she wants to sleep well at night, it is no problem to let the child toss her daughter, but she knows that her daughter is not sleeping well, and she always complains about her.
From the family to the hospital, she has been complaining, and it is not a big deal for the people in the back of the line to get injections first, and she is not even willing to appease her daughter, and she has to complain about her daughter and son-in-law again.
It is reasonable to say that the vaccination is a matter that has long been set, so as the main force to see the child, shouldn't Fang Yinuo's mother prepare everything in advance?
The things you need to bring when you go out are packed in your bag the night before, so where do you get up the next morning and get busy?
They have not done it in place, but they always condescend to accuse others, Fang Yinuo's double standard is inherited from her, right?
The funny thing is that she also means to say that the good things in her daughter are inherited from her, and the bad things are inherited from her husband.
What's even more ridiculous is that she forgot to install a breast pump for Fang Yinuo, but she was still straight, and said to Fang Yinuo that she had a fire to send xiao Lu.
Even if she did something wrong, she did not forget to provoke the relationship between her daughter and son-in-law, and as a result, her daughter decided to divorce, and she had to persuade her to reconcile.
I feel that this mother with the child is not much better, and the daughter's home is mixed up.
Of course, Xiao Lu's own problems are also many, but without this mother-in-law, his marriage with Fang Yinuo should not be broken.
Author: Qian Xiaodao
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