"Cancel AA with my sister-in-law, my mother is seriously ill and has no money to treat, let her pay for it" "Leave, let her be sick"

There are many men who will take the beginning of marriage as the beginning of their own happy life, and the relationship between him and his wife is very stable, and he is confident that he will be able to work with his wife to grow old, there is no problem between the two of them, but because of the family's reasons, he and his wife have a gap, and even lead to his divorce from his wife, which is a pity.

There are many men whose marriages have been ruined by their mothers and sisters, to be honest, marriage is a matter for the two of them, how can they be ruined by their mothers and sisters? In the final analysis, it is because the man's mother and sister are too nosy and always meddle in the affairs between their husband and wife, which causes the wife to be dissatisfied and unwilling to try to maintain the marriage.

There are always some mothers-in-law and sister-in-law who do not regard themselves as outsiders, but treat their daughters-in-law and sister-in-law as outsiders, and finally because of their selfishness, because of their unreasonableness, because of their nosyness, they ruined the marriage between their sons and brothers, and at that time, the man who was the son and brother had resentment and dissatisfaction with these two women who were related to him by blood, and there was also a gap between them.

01.

The mother and sister proposed the introduction of the AA system

Wang Xiaodong has a girlfriend who has been in love for two years, and the two are about to get married, but one day when he came home for dinner, his mother and sister proposed to let him implement the AA system after marriage, saying that it was for his own good.

Wang Xiaodong feels that the time he and his girlfriend have been in love is not short, the two people trust each other, he is really embarrassed to mention to his girlfriend the implementation of the AA system after marriage, but his mother and sister said that this matter does not need Wang Xiaodong to mention, they will mention.

On the day when the parents of the two sides met, the mother and sister proposed in front of the girlfriend's parents to let them implement the AA system after marriage, the girlfriend and her parents were embarrassed, and Wang Xiaodong asked the mother and sister not to say anything, saying that there was no need to implement the AA system after marriage.

But after the mother and sister got married without mercy, it was necessary to implement the AA system, and said that Wang Xiaodong could not be too stupid, in short, the parents of the two sides had a very unpleasant time when they met for the first time.

After the girlfriend went home, she spent a long time to reassure her parents, saying that she and Wang Xiaodong would negotiate this matter well, and the girlfriend asked Wang Xiaodong what she thought? Wang Xiaodong explained to his girlfriend that he did not want to implement the AA system, which was brought up by his mother and sister.

The girlfriend went to Wang Xiaodong's house to negotiate this matter with his mother and sister, after all, the two people are about to get married, do not want to be unhappy because of such a small matter, the mother and sister said to the girlfriend, since the girlfriend really wants to marry Wang Xiaodong, should not mind the implementation of the AA system after marriage.

Sister and mother you sentence by sentence I persuaded the girlfriend to agree to implement the AA system after marriage, and finally the girlfriend agreed, the mother and sister were satisfied, but Wang Xiaodong felt very sorry for his girlfriend.

02.

Married life was turned upside down by her mother and sister

Not long after, Wang Xiaodong and his girlfriend held a wedding, Wang Xiaodong paid for the down payment of the marriage room herself, and his wife said that she would pay for the decoration of the house.

Originally, the implementation of the AA system had been negotiated before marriage, and after marriage, the two people could live a good life, but the mother and sister were like the supervisors of their married life, supervising their husband and wife at all times, turning their lives upside down, making Wang Xiaodong very angry.

To tell the truth, after marriage, the wife is simply good to the mother and sister, usually buy clothes for the mother, give the sister cosmetics, but the mother and sister take the wife's efforts, the wife's kindness to them, as a matter of course, Wang Xiaodong feels that the mother and sister are simply too ignorant of the good.

Married to such a good wife, Wang Xiaodong felt that he was really very happy, so he could not see his mother and sister harassing his wife and bullying his wife, but his mother and sister's ability to provoke was known for their ability to always provoke the feelings between their husband and wife, resulting in their husband and wife often having conflicts because of some small things.

After the wedding room was decorated, Wang Xiaodong and his wife went to the furniture market together to see the furniture, and the mother and sister also had to go with them, saying that they could help them put forward their opinions, but after arriving at the furniture market, the wife looked at the furniture, the mother and sister felt bad, in Wang Xiaodong's view, the couple will live in the marriage room in the future, the furniture picks the wife likes on the line, they have no requirements for the furniture, let the wife come according to their own ideas.

But the mother said, "The ones she picked are expensive and impractical, and you two also have AA for this furniture money, you can't come according to her ideas, how come you don't have any opinions?" ”

When her mother said such a thing in the furniture market, her heart was very uncomfortable, and she finally decided to settle the furniture according to her mother and sister's wishes.

On the first day of moving to the new home, Wang Xiaodong and his wife decided to call the relatives of the two families to have a meal, but the mother and sister did not allow their wives' mothers to come, saying that the house was bought by Wang Xiaodong, and they should let their wives' families come to them less.

The wife couldn't stand the mother and sister's behavior, so she said to them, "Why should I let my mother's family come here and move around less?" Are they unseemly? ”

The sister said to her wife, "Sister-in-law, you are married to my brother, everything should be based on our family, as for your mother's family, or less to deal with!" ”

The wife said to her mother and sister, "Your mother and daughter are too wide to manage, this is our husband and wife's home, you are not welcome, and you should not stay here to eat." ”

The mother and sister heard that their wives had issued eviction orders from them, and they were dissatisfied, so they quarreled with their wives, and even moved their hands, Wang Xiaodong hurriedly pulled the three women apart, persuaded his mother and sister to leave, he let his wife calm down, don't see with her mother and sister in general, but her wife proposed a divorce with Wang Xiaodong.

03.

Divorced from his wife

Wang Xiaodong said that in the future, she would let her mother and sister come to the house less, but her wife felt that their lives were messed up by her mother and sister, and she couldn't stand it anymore and wanted to end such a life.

Wang Xiaodong said that his wife was angry, and when she was angry, she would discuss the matter, but after a week, her wife still decided to divorce, and in the end, Wang Xiaodong could only respect his wife's wishes.

Not long after the marriage of the two people began, they had just moved into the marriage room, and the marriage ended.

Four months after the divorce, one day, Wang Xiaodong received a call from his sister, "Brother, and sister-in-law cancel AA, my mother is seriously ill and has no money to treat, let her pay." ”

Listening to what his sister said, Wang Xiaodong replied, "Leave, let her be sick." ”

In the face of the various behaviors of his mother and sister, Wang Xiaodong has a lot of resentment in his heart, originally marriage should be the beginning of his happy life, but because of the nosy work of his mother and sister, the unreasonableness of his mother and sister, resulting in his marriage ending not long after the beginning, his mother was sick, needed money, and thought of his ex-wife, they can really make plans.

After the divorce, Wang Xiaodong felt that she was too weak, because she would tolerate it again and again because of the affection between her mother and her sister, but she buried her happiness, and she really regretted it!

Mother meddling in the son's marriage, sister interfering in the brother's marriage, are very unwise behavior, as a mother, you always have to understand that after the son married, he has become the head of his family, he is no longer a child, you should learn to let go, should let him live the life he should live, as a sister, the feelings between your brothers and sisters may be very deep, but no matter how deep, it is not the reason for you to arbitrarily interfere in your brother's married life.

Of course, as a mother, as a sister, you will definitely worry about your son or brother losing money in the married life, but in the married life, you should do your duty, treat the other half to be loyal and single-minded, and should not guard against the other half.

As a man, when a mother and sister make some suggestions that may have an impact on your marriage, you should simply refuse, even though they are well-intentioned because their kindness can cause you a lot of trouble and may be good-intentioned to do bad things.