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There are always some people in this world who regard their marriage as a child's play, if he only affects their own life, then others will certainly not say anything, but there will always be two people in a marriage, you do not take your marriage seriously, there will always be another person affected, which will be condemned by others, marriage needs a person to gradually become mature, needs a person to become responsible and responsible, needs to always stand with their lover, needs to be gradually accepted by two people, What is needed is the gradual integration of two people, things in marriage can not be clearly separated forever, and if a person really puts his lover in his heart, he thinks about giving him the best thing in the world, rather than becoming calculating, even his lover must be wary, afraid that he has become the party who suffers losses in this marriage, this is not called marriage at all, but a person out of self-interest considerations.
People always say that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are opposed, and the mother-in-law will be estranged from her daughter-in-law no matter how she is, so it will take the efforts of the husband, but if the husband stands with the mother-in-law, acquiesces to all the behaviors of the mother-in-law, and never defends his wife, then this marriage is not a disaster for women.
Li Wenjie has such a husband and mother-in-law, her husband is not willing to be the bad person, the mother-in-law chooses to be the one who opens her mouth, and the husband chooses to acquiesce to all the behavior of the mother-in-law, no matter whether what the mother-in-law says is reasonable or not, the mother-in-law is also willing to be the evil person for her son, Li Wenjie finally saw clearly that the mother and son are performing double reeds for her, and then let them taste regret after choosing to divorce.
01. The mother-in-law who deliberately makes things difficult and the husband who never blocks.
Li Wenjie and Liu Kai married until now, thinking of their own marriage, Li Wenjie found that there are few happy memories, always a mother-in-law who tries her best to pick her wrong, and a husband who will never open her mouth even if the two people quarrel fiercely, friends around her always say that her husband is also a stick can not beat a fart, Li Wenjie thinks that this is the nature of men, men can never understand the war between women, and later Li Wenjie found that her husband is not unaware of these, It's just that he chose to let it go, which invisibly favored his own mother, no matter how much his mother did it.
The mother-in-law always put forward some very unreasonable requirements when Li Wenjie was the most tired and tired, just like Li Wenjie came back from overtime, saw that the mother-in-law did not cook and had to do it herself, originally wanted to put down a few bowls of noodles, but the mother-in-law was going to eat dumplings, the mother-in-law even said that if Li Wenjie did not do this meal today, she would go on hunger strike later, there was no way Li Wenjie had to start making dumplings with noodles, it was difficult to get the mother-in-law to eat a few bites and put it down, and Liu Kai directly chose not to eat, Later Li Wenjie learned that the two people had already eaten dinner, this was not notified to her, the mother-in-law wanted to eat dumplings is just a whim, want to eat just that bite, but Li Wenjie tossed to the middle of the night is still washing dishes, Li Wenjie is more and more aggrieved, the mother-in-law is so to her, she can also say that it is difficult to get along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but looking at her mother playing with herself, Liu Kai, who is a husband, is still indifferent, this is what makes Li Wenjie really sad, the two of them are husband and wife after all. Where there are husbands who deliberately watch their wives get involved.
Remembering that when two people fell in love, Liu Kai was not like this now, although he also had some straight men, but when Li Wenjie encountered difficulties, he would also come to help her, and later maintain her in front of outsiders, I don't know why, but after marriage, in the face of her mother-in-law deliberately embarrassed her, Liu Kai should choose to ignore it, Li Wenjie also complained about this, and the answer he got from Liu Kai was that he didn't see that you two had a bad relationship, and then Li Wenjie was when his husband was a blind man, and it was better to ask for others than to ask for himself. Men sometimes can't count on it.
02. The mother-in-law who proposed the AA system, the husband not only did not block but also acquiesced.
One of the things that tore off the surface of this family is that the mother-in-law proposed the AA system, and the reason why the mother-in-law proposed this system is not because it is fair, but I am afraid that Li Wenjie will take advantage of them.
Li Wenjie's family situation has some special, her father was in a wheelchair because of a stroke a few years ago, so Li Wenjie also went home to take care of her father for a while, but Liu Kai in addition to sending a fruit basket, she has never come to see her father-in-law, and her mother-in-law is even more hopeless, the mother-in-law has never been rare in contact with the relationship between relatives and families, the mother-in-law put all the attitudes on the surface, never hide herself, these Li Wenjie has become accustomed to, She sometimes wonders what her marriage has brought to her, why she still insists on it, and her mother-in-law's indifference to her husband has finally made her a little tired, so she has also had the idea of divorce, but because of the various things piled up in life, she did not continue to think.
Later, her brother also reached the age of marriage, she sometimes helped her brother, but she never thought of being a brother demon, the younger brother did not ask her sister to do something for him, but the mother-in-law did not think so, the mother-in-law was afraid of Li Wenjie in order to let her brother get married, and then move their family's money, Li Wenjie's money mother-in-law of course did not care, but how can her own money be remembered by others, in order to prevent the occurrence of those things she thinks, the mother-in-law took the initiative to propose the AA system with Li Wenjie. Li Wenjie subconsciously asked Liu Kai for help, but Liu Kai turned his head, Li Wenjie also understood that Liu Kai agreed to this matter, she was still thinking about divorce, but this son had anger, AA system is AA system, she must not let this mother and son look down.
03. Mother-in-law's regret.
For the mother-in-law put forward a variety of requirements, Li Wenjie is always not noisy and serious implementation, in fact, the AA system of the proposal but let Li Wenjie save a lot of trouble, AA system is indeed a good reason to refuse to do things, Li Wenjie no longer has to dig out her lungs for this pair of hypocritical mother and son, she has more time in her own work, her work ability is very prominent, the family is her drag, this is no longer those constraints, her performance has gradually become the first in the company.
Then look at Liu Kai and his mother-in-law, because the real estate deed is written on Liu Kai's name, so the matter of repaying the mortgage is handed over to Liu Kai, and Li Wenjie is in accordance with the rent they have there, pay 800 per month, decoration is the money from his family, if you want to eat, you have to pay for the meal, you want anything in the family to go through Li Wenjie's consent, who let these things are her money, the mother-in-law sometimes opens fire to cook, as long as li Wenjie will not hesitate to ask for money, after all, it is the mother-in-law who does things first, How can these things be blamed on her.
The things in the family can not be moved without consent, the mother-in-law gradually feels that such a life can not continue, only half a year later the mother-in-law cried to change the AA system, but in this world where you want to do what you want, but Li Wenjie is also gradually tired of such a life, she can take care of herself, and why face this pile of mother and son who make themselves bad, she finally chose to divorce, of course, before the divorce took away all her things, including those furniture and various daily necessities at home. Even the wallpaper she packed and took away, after all, she spent money on it.
So when you are a person, you must leave room, when you do things to the extreme, others will only choose to do things more absolutely, and then when you regret and want to turn back, but find that you have long since no chance, be a person to leave a line of good future to see each other, this simple truth many people understand, but they just can't do it, wait until they themselves taste the bitter fruit, and how to pray for forgiveness of others, after all, the source of everything is in themselves, thinking that they can temporarily gain the upper hand, If you don't want to suffer, then ask yourself to take responsibility for your actions, all this is not to blame others.
Even if a couple can't do it with each other, it should also be the most basic respect, married two people are a family, even if the man who can't even maintain his wife wants him to have any use, a man's first reaction when his wife is in difficulty is to escape, not only selfish but useless.
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