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Pascal once said, "Man is a reed with thought." ”
The reason why the world can distinguish people from other things is nothing more than that people have thoughts and know how to think. Born as a human being, none of us can ignore the power of thought, a person with a high ideological realm, when encountering anything, he can do it without hurry.
A person with strong thinking will not let himself fall into a dangerous situation under any circumstances.
However, this kind of thing as the ideological realm is not innate, and many times, it depends more on the cultivation and edification of the day after tomorrow. In real life, if you find that a person often does these three things, so many and a half show that its ideological realm, higher than ordinary people, is worth learning.
One: Reading
As the old saying goes: "There is a beautiful jade in the book, and there is a house of gold in the book." ”
Throughout the ages, there have been many Chinese and foreign famous sayings that praise books and advocate reading, but only those who have truly appreciated the function of reading can appreciate the mystery of this.
Sometimes, a book will not make you get any immediate results in the moment, but the books you have read and the roads you have traveled will still be condensed in your thoughts.
In the TV series "Sword Line in the Snow", everyone thinks that only those who love the heavens, are gifted, and like to drill and camp martial arts can achieve the reputation of "King Kong Realm" and "Land Immortal".
However, Xuanyuan Jingcheng studied for twenty years, did not practice martial arts, but still strategized, decisively won thousands of miles away, stepped into the ranks of land gods, and became a generation of Confucian saints.
Although novels and TV dramas have many exaggerated elements, art comes from life, and realistic characters who rely on reading to achieve self-legend abound. Reading can help us glimpse another self in the paper, and we can also travel through the millennium to talk with the wise mind, develop the habit of reading, and never be lonely at any time.
Two: Solitude
The famous actor Chen Daoming once said: "Solitude is a virtue that purifies people's hearts." ”
Indeed, in this impetuous age, those who are accustomed to being alone and enjoy solitude will always find a place for their souls. When there is this habitat, all impetuousness will return to dust and soil.
In real life, many people mistakenly think that being alone is loneliness, but this is actually a great misunderstanding. Loneliness is a feeling and the norm in life. But being alone is a choice, being in the middle of a busy city, but still wanting to find a piece of sincerity.
A person who enjoys solitude will not feel bored at any time, and will not be swayed by the will of others. Being alone is a time when a person thinks about the best in life, and it is also a time to consider his best.
Getting used to being alone is getting used to giving yourself time to sort out your life. Instead of twittering and seeking the approval of others, it is better to be loyal to yourself and be your most loyal friend.
Three: Introspection
There is a famous Greek saying, "The most difficult thing is to know yourself." ”
It is true that we always evaluate others easily, but it is difficult to face ourselves. In particular, facing one's own shortcomings and dealing with one's own regrets is an eternal subject for people, and it is also an eternal difficulty. To know yourself, you must start from knowing your own shortcomings, because laughing at your own shortcomings is always the most difficult and most valuable.
On closer inspection, a sober person will not know himself from the mouths of others, because they have already recognized themselves. They will not deny themselves because of the words of others, because they are confident enough.
However, both self-confidence and sobriety need to be built on the basis of sincerity.
Only by sincerely facing yourself, reflecting on yourself, first considering your own problems, and then correcting them in time, can these small problems not become major slanders.
I don't know when, our flashlight always seems to be aimed at others, but we forget that what should really be aimed at is ourselves, because we are born as human beings, and no one can change except ourselves, except for ourselves, we are not qualified to control anyone.
A person with a high ideological realm must also think differently or uniquely in his way of thinking about problems.
They are more willing to focus on themselves than they are about getting the approval of others. They will enjoy reading, they will enjoy being alone, they will get used to reflection. A person who always lives like this must be rich in his heart and worthy of admiration.
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