Life is really bitter, but seeing through these six kinds of suffering in life, you will eventually be bitter!

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The ancients said: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a superior person." ”

Liang Qichao once said: "Hardships and hardships are the highest school for tempering personality." ”

Tagore also once said: "The suffering you suffer today, the losses you suffer, the responsibilities you bear, the sins you carry, and the pain you endure will eventually become light and illuminate your way." ”

If a person does not suffer a small loss, he will suffer a big loss, and if he does not suffer a small suffering, he will suffer great suffering in the future.

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"Suffering" is not exclusive to the poor

The terrible thing is that the rich are suffering and the poor are enjoying themselves

There is this set of data:

In 2019, there were 285 Chinese billionaires with an average age of 56 and a total wealth of $996 billion.

By 2022, according to Forbes Magazine's 2022 Global Billionaires Ranking, 539 billionaires in China have entered Forbes Magazine's 2022 Global Billionaire List, with a total wealth of $1.96 trillion.

It is clear that the number of billionaires in China is growing, and so is wealth.

Surprisingly, though, among China's billionaires in the 2022 global billionaire rankings, the youngest is only 25 years old, and the oldest is only 86 years old, and their average age is still not more than 60 years old.

Poverty ultimately limits our imagination.

For people around 30 years old, there is still a 30-year difference between 60 and 60 years old.

In the past 30 years, the difference between the rich and the poor is ostensibly the gap between money and age, but in fact, to some extent, it is the gap between hardship.

In the era of material scarcity and economic backwardness, the ability of society to keep all people in captivity is insufficient, and "suffering" means "poor", and it also means that "poor people" have to "suffer".

In the era of material saturation and rapid economic development, society has the ability to keep everyone in captivity, and everyone basically lives a well-fed and warmly dressed life. The life of the poor also began to become comfortable and comfortable, and all life services, as long as conditions permitted, could be directly visited. There is takeaway for eating, e-commerce for shopping, short videos and live broadcasts for entertainment, online car-hailing when going out, high-speed rail and airplanes for long-distance travel, and various APPS for dating... All kinds of spiritual and material life enjoyment, everything is available.

Everyone is immersed in shallow sensory stimulation, and the fragmented satisfaction makes everyone addicted and unable to extricate themselves.

But the development of the times has also redefined the word "poor".

The word "poor" should be looked at separately, poor is poor, suffering is suffering.

Poverty is the poverty of life, more is the material poverty, and material poverty, in today's day, as long as you go to work, can be completely solved.

The real suffering, on the other hand, is the suffering of growth, the suffering of the spirit beyond the material, it is the deepest desire of human nature, it requires people to give up entertainment, to give up enjoyment, to give up vanity, is the ability to self-discipline and self-control, is the ability to delay gratification and deep thinking.

In this era, it is the rich who are really "suffering".

Because the rich have to do everything possible to preserve and grow their wealth, they must change the way they used to count money, take the initiative to make progress, and try all kinds of impossibleies.

This kind of "bitterness" lies in the fact that the rich need to pay more efforts, and only in this way can they keep the "wealth" they have laid.

You see, the poor are "enjoying themselves" and the rich are "suffering."

The poor seem comfortable and are actually being abandoned by society.

What is even more frightening is that the pleasures of the poor are the traps of the rich.

Entertainment spiritual products, also called "nipple music", are actually rich people in disguise to raise poor people in captivity.

Over time, the poor are like captive tigers, losing their bestiality, difficult to rewild, and becoming weak in the forest of the weak.

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"Suffering" is the norm in life

Take the initiative to eat bittersweet like food, passively eat bittersweet and do not want to live

The wise man once said:

"Life is like tea, and those who taste it carefully taste the afterglow, but if they are reluctant to do it, they will only remember the bitterness at the entrance."

It is true that those who ask for help will often be willing to eat; those who are passive will often be unhappy.

And the suffering of life and the suffering of growth, no one can avoid, learn to accept the suffering of growth, the suffering of life can be calmly faced, otherwise, the suffering of life will continue to cycle back and forth in your life.

We are born to suffer.

Stetson once said: "Without pain and suffering, you can't feel happiness intensely, it's just comfort, it's just mediocrity, it's not good luck, it's not happiness." ”

In life, there is a "law of conservation of suffering":

Suffering is the basic feature of life. The total amount of suffering that each person suffers in a lifetime is constant, and it neither disappears out of thin air nor does it arise for no reason. It will only move from one stage to another, or from one form to another.

Man's achievements and human patterns are often obtained in suffering, and only by forbearing what others cannot tolerate can we gain what others cannot get. Patience is painful, and if you can take the initiative to accept it, you can often get a sweet and sweet.

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Life is hard

See through all the "suffering", and you will eventually be bitter!

Life is a practice, and everyone is an "ascetic."

Rather than seeing suffering as a kind of torture, it is better to see suffering as a molding.

In this way, you will progress with this era without being iterated.

Bitterness is a special condiment in life.

The people who make you miserable are often your nobles.

What makes you miserable is often where you need to be lifted up the most.

Suffering cannot be escaped. Even if you escape temporarily, you will encounter it again in the future, and at that time, you will have to face it at a greater cost.

Therefore, seeing through the sufferings of life, especially the following six kinds of sufferings, we will eventually suffer to the end.

See through the bitterness of reading

Get the shortcut to success

Mencius said, "The heavens will descend upon the people of Si, and they will first suffer their hearts, strain their bones, and starve their bodies." ”

When heaven brings a great mission to you, it must first temper your will, let your bones and bones be tired, let your body suffer from hunger, make you suffer from poverty, and always do things smoothly.

Reading is really hard, boring, boring, but reading is the lightest pain in life, and most of the people who feel that learning is bitter have not yet been slapped by reality.

In the face of fierce competition, many people really understand that when the book is used, there is less hate.

N years ago, we were all studying in the classroom, and we were ordinary students.

Most of those who study hard have lived a comfortable and worry-free life, and those who have not studied hard are mostly getting up early and greedy, saving money.

Reading books may not really change your future path, but without reading, your life must be no way out.

Yes, there may be an example in this world: those who have not read have reaped a successful life, and those who have read books have reaped a scrawled life.

But reading, most of the time for most ordinary people, is still a shortcut to life's counterattack.

See through the bitterness of self-discipline

Unleash the infinite possibilities of life

Feng Menglong's "Cautionary Tales" of the Ming Dynasty has such a sentence: "The sword blade comes out of the grinding, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold." ”

The sharp sword is constantly sharpened, and the plum blossom fragrance is because it has survived the cold winter.

Life is the same, do not experience wind and rain, do not suffer hardships, do not self-discipline, there will be no "will be the top, overlook the mountains and small" mind and spirit.

There is a line in the TV series "The Age of Awakening": "In this impetuous era, only self-disciplined people can stand out and achieve great things." ”

Self-discipline is hard, and self-discipline is a war with desire to love and kill each other. Self-disciplined people are fighting against their desires every day, and in the process of resistance, if there is half a point of slackness, all efforts will be abandoned and become puppet dolls in the hands of desire.

Breaking the "self-discipline is difficult" mindset and persevering self-discipline will make people have shiny self-confidence.

Self-discipline determines the height of life and unlocks the infinite possibilities of life.

The more self-disciplined a person is, the stronger his ability to perceive the world.

You can't eat the suffering of self-discipline, you will suffer from mediocrity all your life,

Luck and cleverness may allow you to win a momentary success, but self-discipline is the foundation of a lifetime of laughter in the future.

See through the bitterness of hard work

In order to rejuvenate the family and prosper the family

Leonardo da Vinci once said: "A day of hard work can lead to a good night's sleep; a lifetime of hard work can lead to a long and happy sleep." ”

Diligence is a natural magnet that can attract all good things, but also the mother of good luck, only by working diligently, can people get rich and enjoy comfort.

And just blindly enjoying comfort may bring misfortune.

Hard work, hard work, hard work, exhausting physical strength. But since ancient times, the reason why mediocrity has failed is because of "laziness".

And the quality of hard work will not be outdated in any era.

The late Qing dynasty minister Zeng Guofan spent his life interpreting a "diligent" word with actions, and also regarded this as the foundation of the Wang family's career, and he warned future generations not to be luxurious and lascivious, but to be diligent.

Therefore, the Zeng family has a good family style and generations of talents.

Fan Zhongyan also often warned future generations: "Money is not light, hard work comes; luxury is not learned, self-inflicted poverty." ”

Diligence can cure all diseases, as long as people are diligent, they can drip through stones, and iron pestles are ground into needles.

See through the bitterness of thinking

Climb to the heights of your life

Confucius said: "To learn without thinking is to be reckless, and to think without learning is to perish." ”

Blindly reading books without thinking, it is impossible to understand the meaning of books, let alone apply what they have learned, and even fall into confusion. And blindly utopia, not to study and study, after all, is to build a tower on the sand, and get nothing.

Thinking is hard, and deep thinking is even more so, but thinking is the guide of our lives.

It takes a lot of time to think about it on the surface, and the short-term benefits are not obvious. But when we actually do something, we tend to have the least amount of time to do it, and thinking often takes up most of the time.

Thinking doesn't look like physical work, it makes people sweat and their hands are busy, but the real thinking, mental energy consumption is no easier than physical work.

In any era, thinking can point out the direction for human beings, and with direction, efforts will not be wasted, and only then can we climb to the peak of life.

See through the bitterness of separation

Then you can let go of attachments, and life will naturally reach a view

There is a proverb: When a person reaches fifty-five, he will encounter "parting suffering."

In fact, life is a journey, people come and go, parting is the norm, parents are getting old, children grow up, are learning how to separate.

Mr. Gong Zizhen of the Qing Dynasty said that falling red is not a heartless thing, and it is more protective of flowers when turned into spring mud. My parents worked hard for us all their lives, emptied everything they had, and many years later, it was just a piece of loess. As children, at this moment, we often silently cry out in our hearts: Time you go slower, don't let the parents who raised us grow old so fast.

The tree wants to be still, but the wind does not stop; the son wants to nurture, but the kiss does not wait. Because of the old age of our parents, worry, fear, fear, regret have been invading our body and mind. However, life always has an end, rather than this, it is better to take advantage of the fact that your parents are alive and accompany them more.

The child is like a kite in the hands of the parents, flying higher and higher with the wind, but the length of the line is limited, if you want to fly higher, the parents must decisively cut the line in their hands, so that the child learns to be truly independent.

In the real society, children are under a lot of pressure in life, and parents who do not let go of their hands actually put on the moral "shackles" of their children, trapping both their children and themselves.

Raising children is not raising delicate flowers, only the beauty that blooms through wind and rain is fragrant enough.

Separation is really bitter, and family affection can also be precious. Only by seeing through the suffering of separation and letting go of attachments can emotions last forever.

See through the bitterness of failure

There is no lack of courage to start all over again

As the saying goes, "Failure is the mother of success." ”

Failure in life is the norm, such as failure in the workplace and frustration in the love field.

Life is never smooth sailing, but every failure will actually make you one step closer to success.

Failure will make people inferior, make people autistic, and even make people masochistic, make people self-harm, and make people feel that society is unfair, so that they will give up on themselves and retaliate against society. But things are two-sided, and when you face failure, you will become more and more frustrated.

Success is often a rare occurrence, and failure is the norm of life, but failure is not bitter, because of failure and give up, can not climb the life is really bitter.

There is real suffering in life, as well as the suffering of being criticized, the suffering of being misunderstood, the suffering of life, old age, illness and death, and the suffering of resentment...

Every kind of suffering in life, no one can escape, learn to "bear hardship", be willing to "suffer", life can be enlightened.

The correct understanding of "suffering", as the saying of "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon": "When you clench your fist and there is nothing in your hand, you release ten fingers, but you can have the whole world." ”

Therefore, see through all the sufferings of life, do not sink in this impetuous society, take the initiative to suffer, survive all the sufferings, and all the beauty will meet unexpectedly.

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