Education and training institutions are making a comeback? These 3 things are understood in advance before signing up for the class

Today I wanted to lie flat again... There are too many papers to read recently, but recently, I suddenly saw that many institutions and bloggers are recommending thinking courses, literacy courses, and competition courses? Click on the syllabus to take a look, oh, isn't this an upgraded version of the language?

The double minus has been two years, how can this be a crime against the wind? Aren't you afraid, the next second XC is gone?

Since the "double reduction policy", several joys and several sorrows, many large make-up institutions, in this upsurge of educational reform, closed their doors.

In this regard, some parents are very anxious, in order to allow students to have more learning opportunities, they even invite live-in teachers and spend a lot of money on one-on-one tutoring.

There are also people like me, happy jumping, because the baby has to go to bed early, has to go out to play, and does not want the child to fall into the sea of problems and lose many opportunities for growth. Just reduced, feel at ease to eat, sleep and play, read, travel~

But seeing the recommended XX courses of major anchors, education and training institutions may make a comeback, is this good or bad for the current social education?

Not afraid of offending people, against thunder, I still say a few words:

I have seen more than 300 top students and experts in Qingbei, and I have also led group psychological counseling in the Peking University consultation room for 5 years, I say three rules----

1. Can enrolling in classes open up the "gap" between students?

Many students are arranged too many cram classes by their parents, resulting in their lack of energy in class, lack of attention to homework in class, and have no time to do it seriously.

The children's thinking is that there is so much homework in and out of class in general, and the homework here is not finished, and there is class again. As a result, fatigue fights, which are not done well.

For parents, it is not important why the child makes up the class, the important thing is that other children have made up the class, and their own children must also make up for it.

After rolling for a long time, I don't know what I'm doing, follow the team, and it's over!

So, will students' grades decline because they can't make up classes? I say a heart-wrenching - no top student is admitted to Tsinghua Peking University by making up classes, and studying well in class is the last word.

Make-up classes are just an auxiliary role, only they can really help students, as long as students carefully follow the lessons taught by the teacher, and do not miss every class, you can get a good grade.

Someone told me that this is standing and talking without back pain, I will tell you a classic experiment in psychology, you will know why it is useless to be forced to "learn ahead" and "play with life"!

American psychologist Geselle once did a famous [twin ladder climbing experiment]: the subjects were a pair of identical twins A and B who were 46 weeks old.

In addition, why do scientists rely on twins to do experiments? Because you can control the variables to the maximum... I glanced at the trillion brothers affectionately, mom depends on you two to engage in academics! (Crooked, come back...) ）

Even though A trained 7 weeks earlier than B and trained for three times as long as B, at 56 weeks and 3 years old, Geselle found that A and B's ladder climbing results were strikingly similar. Training hard ahead of time is useless!

What does this say? Education should respect the actual level of the child, before the child is mature, do not violate the natural law of the child's development, do not violate the internal "schedule" of the child's development to artificially accelerate the child's development through training.

Advanced education, short-term improvement of scores, long-term not only does not help children, but also a huge consumption of children's time, parent-child relationship, and children's growth resources!

2. After the closure of education and training institutions, are there really no make-up classes?

It is natural for parents to love children. It is the heart to make the child better.

Some parents feel that the students who have good grades in the next class have gone to the tutoring class, and they are more worried that their children will fall behind. In any case, it is very necessary for the child to participate in the tutoring class.

The truth is that after a long period of make-up classes, a sense of dependence on make-up classes will naturally arise, which may not have obvious negative effects in the short term, but it is certainly unfavorable in the long run. Because "I have to study again when I go home anyway, and it doesn't matter if the class is bad." In the end, the child only learned to grind.

01One-on-one tutoring

Without tutoring classes, many parents now let teachers or their relatives and friends guide their children to learn and provide one-on-one tutoring to their children. But more often than not, the child is in class from Monday to Friday, and he is still in class when he arrives home on the weekend, tired and exhausted.

02Online class learning

There are advantages and disadvantages, for children to supplement individual interests and hobbies, and the distance is far away, it is a choice. If the child's academic performance is not good, within a reasonable range and under the supervision of parents, it can actually improve the academic performance. The disadvantage is that it is difficult to ensure the child's concentration, poor interaction, the child is myopic, and it is easy to lack exercise and socialization, and the mood is not good.

03Hang sheep's head to sell dog meat

The state explicitly prohibits the opening of cram classes, but does not say that interest classes cannot be opened. As a result, XX thinking classes, XX literacy classes, and XX interest classes emerge one after another, all of which serve the syllabus, ostensibly to improve quality education, and behind it is inseparable from the core - make-up classes!

3. Can I get extra points for taking my child to competitions and training?

Don't point to competitions and training pluses! Looking at the new regulations of the Ministry of Education, 99% of the classes in extracurricular schools have nothing to do with the extra points for further education.

Many people organize under the guise of extra points in the college entrance examination, some illegal competitions and training, let parents spend time, spend money, let their children sign up for competitions and training, the result not only did not improve the efficiency and output of children, but more and more tired, it is better to let children read, exercise, sleep.

In the compulsory education stage, students should be able to keep up with the progress of the teacher's lecture if they do not make up classes, as long as students are willing to learn, they can learn, and they can keep up with the progress of the teacher's lectures, and they do not need to make up classes. What's more, parents serve snacks and give enough companionship, the more internal energy the child, the more he likes to learn!

Have you been fooled by all kinds of "competition lessons"?

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