My smiling tiger mother-in-law eventually divorced my husband

01.

There is an old saying that "leaves do not turn yellow in a day, and people's hearts do not become cooler every day", which actually makes sense.

Just like the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, when we break it up, we may see small things.

But it is also these small things, small frictions, that are not handled correctly, all accumulated together. Then, in the end, it will affect the feelings between husband and wife.

Why are some families rarely have mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions, but some men can carry it clearly.

In marriage, if a man loves his wife, respect and treat his wife well. Even if the mother-in-law has many dissatisfaction with this daughter-in-law, as long as she still cares about this son, she will inevitably leave a decent and respectful part of the daughter-in-law, and naturally there will be less contradictions.

If the man can't figure it out and thinks that getting married is raw rice cooked into cooked rice, there is no need to continue to consider his wife's feelings.

The wife and her mother have a contradiction, either protect their mother, or watch a good show, so that their mother feels that her son does not love this woman, why should she give face.

In this way, there will naturally be more contradictions, and the home will only be a chicken feather.

02.

Li Yuan is actually quite rational about feelings, she nodded and agreed to marry Zhao Gang, in addition to Zhao Gang has been good to her since she fell in love, she also considered the situation of her in-laws.

The future mother-in-law is always smiling and squinting, and her neighbors also say that she is kind and easy to get along with.

Therefore, she feels that in the future, as long as she is sincere, she will be able to be smooth and warm.

But what she didn't know was that some "smiling tigers" were actually not easy to get along with, and her future mother-in-law was exactly like this.

The marriage room is paid for by the two families together, the down payment loan is bought, and there is an independent marriage room, which makes Li Yuan feel that her marriage will not have a mother-in-law contradiction.

But half a year after the marriage, the in-laws moved in, the old house was sold, they were homeless, and Li Yuan couldn't open her mouth and not let her live.

However, after knowing the reason for selling the house, she was still very uncomfortable, the mother-in-law sold the house for her daughter, the business turnover was not enough, and the eldest sister persuaded her mother to sell the house and take the money.

Li Yuan feels that such a big thing, even if her son and daughter-in-law don't want this money, you have to say it.

But Zhao Gang felt that it was normal not to say it, and he was unwilling to ask his parents' thoughts because Li Yuan couldn't think straight.

But Li Yuan did not hold back and asked her mother-in-law about this matter euphemistically.

The mother-in-law did not get angry, and even the tone was very calm, she looked at her daughter-in-law with a smile and said: Daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law has difficulties, naturally she wants to help, I believe that if you encounter difficulties, your mother-in-law's parents will also help.

Good fellow, this sentence blocked Li Yuan's mouth, she didn't know what to say, because it didn't seem right to say it.

It was the first time she realized that the smiling mother-in-law was not as good as she had imagined.

In the following days, she did not know whether her mother-in-law did not like her, or whether she just wanted to put up the shelf of the elders, always in some things, making her very wronged.

In the past, the mother-in-law did not live here, the family is cleaned once a week by the small couple, the mother-in-law is now coming, and the housework is done every day.

Li Yuan admitted that her mother-in-law is indeed very hard, but her mother-in-law will often deliberately take out her daughter-in-law's clothes when washing clothes, even if it rains, Li Yuan will see her clothes outside being rained when she comes home.

She didn't think that her mother-in-law should help her daughter-in-law to do these things, but this felt very bad, she would rather her mother-in-law put Zhao Gang's clothes outside, and it would be okay for her to wash them.

Why did Li Yuan think that her mother-in-law was deliberately doing this, because she had asked her mother-in-law why she did this.

The mother-in-law looked incredulous and said: I am old, how can you let an old man help you wash your young people's clothes?

It was still smiling and squinting, and the tone was calm, making Li Yuan feel that she was making trouble for no reason.

03.

In addition, every time the mother-in-law cooks, she likes to put peppers in meat dishes, knowing that her daughter-in-law will not eat peppers, she will put them every time, but vegetarian dishes will not.

If it is said that the in-laws are particularly fond of eating spicy, then it is not a matter, the problem is that the in-laws only eat.

Obviously, the mother-in-law is deliberate, Li Yuan learned the lesson of similar things before, no longer ask the mother-in-law the reason, after all, can not ask anything, in the end it is still wrong.

He also no longer complained to Zhao Gang, because he did not eat spicy for her, and his mother liked to put peppers, saying that he would eat more than he ate, and my mother said that he had no appetite in the summer, and he ate some spicy appetizers.

Li Yuan didn't want to make herself hungry for dinner, so she simply ate dinner outside before returning.

More times, others also feel strange, and then only to see the mother-in-law grievances and others explain: I am really very distressed daughter-in-law, I said how the food at home is cleaner than the nutrition outside, if you don't have time, your mother will burn it to send you over.

But my daughter-in-law said it was easy to eat outside and said that the food I cooked was not to taste. These words were exchanged for various praises from others to the mother-in-law, and felt that Li Yuan was arrogant.

After Li Yuan knew, she did not have any reaction, because she knew that her husband did not help herself, and it was useless for her to complain about anything.

The days passed like this day by day, and things like this happened countless times, if it weren't for this thing some time ago, Maybe Li Yuan wouldn't know how long she would last in this marriage.

Some time ago, one day, the eldest sister and her two sons returned from the field, and the eldest sister drove back to her mother's house.

In fact, the eldest sister is not far from married, but because she is doing business in other places all year round, she basically returns home once a year or two.

So the eldest sister came this time, the mother-in-law was very happy, so that Li Yuan, who had just returned from a business trip, went to buy vegetables and cook.

Li Yuan sat on the bus for a day and felt that people were very tired, so she proposed that either the family go to the restaurant outside to eat well, which is convenient.

The mother-in-law disagreed, saying that it was too noisy outside and it was inconvenient to speak.

The mother-in-law insisted that Li Yuan could only go out to buy vegetables and cook.

The moment the door was closed, the gentle and gentle voice of the mother-in-law came over: Young people now really can't bear hardships, they haven't done any work, and they are tired when they take a car.

Li Yuan smiled self-deprecatingly, went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and came back to cook.

From the time his mother-in-law began to bring up this matter, to the time dinner was good, Zhao Gang was always there, but it was like he was not there, because he didn't say a word.

If it is said that when Li Yuan brought out the last dish, the cold heart that found that there were left on the table made her red eyes, and finally the request made by her mother-in-law made her completely erupt in grievances.

04.

After dinner, the eldest sister wants to stay at home, because she and her mother still have a stomach to say.

Driving back as long as half an hour less, now only 8 o'clock at night, Li Yuan does not know why can not go home, two bedrooms and a living room of the house, really no place to live ah, in fact, can come back tomorrow to play ah, this time home was ready to stay for a while.

The mother-in-law finally gave the plan, she and the eldest sister have a room, the father-in-law and son live in the master bedroom.

Li Yuan, the daughter-in-law, smiled and squinted at Li Yuan and said: You will either spend the night in the living room, or go to sleep in the big sister's car.

Li Yuan was stunned, she wanted to ask what?

She advised herself not to get angry, but in the past two years, she had reddened her eyes.

Seeing that she didn't look good, the eldest sister said that she was not welcome to come back.

The mother-in-law said that now the young man is really pretentious, how can not sleep on a sofa, always can not let her sleep in the living room with an old bone.

In this process, Zhao Gang was playing a game, and he didn't even lift his eyelids.

Just like every time Li Yuan was wronged before, he either didn't see it, or he read the joke, and finally said that Li Yuan didn't know how to tolerate the elders.

All the grievances broke out at this moment, Li Yuan did not say anything, packed up her clothes and returned to her mother's house, and filed for divorce the next day.

Zhao Gang saw his wife mention divorce, which made him realize the problem, but no matter how he apologized and confessed his mistake, it was useless.

Li Yuan said one sentence: When you bullied me by your mother, you should know that there will be such a day.

When my heart is cold, I really can't go back.

In the end, this marriage was broken up because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but what really caused the marriage to come to an end was actually Zhao Gang, a man.

Understand that a man always helps his mother when his mother-in-law has problems.

Or think it's all small things, and the wife doesn't have to be so calculating. Then your marriage will soon have the last straw.