As the saying goes: three years old looks big, seven years old looks old. This means that from what the child does at the age of three, it is possible to infer the behavior of a child when he grows up; based on what the child does at the age of seven, it is possible to infer the behavior of a child to the age of old age.
Therefore, in the early education of children, they should start from the time of birth, and prenatal education can also be carried out if conditions permit. Today we will talk about some problems in the critical period of children's growth, when it comes to the critical period of growth, the critical period of children's growth is composed of many sensitive periods after birth. Let's analyze the key periods of growth, let the children develop good living habits in each critical period of growth, master the behavior skills faster and better, and give the children a good start in life.
Critical period of sensory development
Human senses are composed of hearing, vision, taste, smell, and touch, and children will use these senses to explore the world, understand the surrounding environment, and become familiar with the things around them from the moment they fall to the ground. During this period, parents should give their children some sound games on a regular basis, so that children can fully listen to the sounds from different directions, and observe the tools of sound transmission in different directions, so as to strengthen the child's listening visual function; buy some geometric shapes for children, and the children will explain to the children while the player is long, to stimulate the child's tactile organs. Therefore, parents should fully let the children's senses reach a certain level of exercise during this period, and enhance the child's preliminary understanding of the world's environment.
Classification of sensitive periods:
0-4 months hearing sensitive period;
0-6 months visual sensitivity period;
4-8 months taste sensitivity period;
6-10 months olfactory sensitivity period;
0-12 months tactile sensitivity period.
A critical period of action development
During this period, children should do some simple sports such as looking up, moving, turning over left and right, climbing and rolling, etc. under the cooperation of parents to enhance the muscles of various parts of the child's body, establish the concept of action in the child's brain, and lay the foundation for the child to learn to walk early; in this period, parents should also pay attention to the balanced development of the child's left and right brains, when the child's muscles are developed, parents should slowly let the child exercise fully, so that the child's movements are more and more perfect, proficient in correct movements, and cultivate children's good living habits. Develop your child's intelligence.
2-3 months head-up sensitive period;
1-10 months hands-on sensitive period;
3-4 months turning over sensitive period;
Sensitive period of about 6 months of sitting up;
About 7 months rolling sensitive period;
Crawling sensitive period of about 8 months;
Standing sensitive period of about 11 months;
Walking sensitive period of about 12 months.
A critical period in language development
In this period, the general child will appear after a few months of birth, the child is more sensitive to language, oops, will also follow to learn some simple language, speak clearly, but strengthen the exercise of the vocal cords, to about 1 and a half years old, slowly speaking becomes clearer and clearer, the child will also master more and more language, then parents will give the child a good language environment, do not say some vulgar words in front of the child, affect the child's future physical and mental health, and social communication relationship; the child is slowly growing up, Parents read more Chinese studies works to their children, tell some classic stories, talk to their children more, ask some inspirational questions, encourage children to talk more and listen more, and promote children's comprehension ability and language expression ability, which is a critical period for children's growth.
0-6 months crying sensitive period;
3-6 months of sensitive period of learning language;
7-9 months recognition sensitive period;
8-11 months called sensitive period;
1-2 years of age speech sensitive period;
Sensitive period of nursery rhymes at 2-3 years old;
3-5 years old curse sensitive period;
3-5 years old listening, storytelling sensitive period.
Critical periods of interest in small things
During this critical period, children are very fond of play, especially for many things want to explore to the end, but also accompanied by the habit of polyactivity and destruction, parents should buy some classified geometric figures, teach children to classify and build a variety of graphics, so that children in the happy understanding of new things, parents can also accompany their children to do a variety of picking up things of the game, and children dig sand, play water, promote children to understand the details of things to lay a good foundation.
1-2 years old sensitive to small things;
1.5-3 years old sensitive to details;
3-4 years old playing with water, playing sand sensitive period.
A critical period of temporal and spatial order
During this critical period, the child's positioning of time and space, the exploration of the order of material placement, and the strong expression of sensitivity to the order of things. During this period, parents can accompany their children to play hands-on games such as building wooden houses and placing various graphics, and teach children that there are good things to share with their families and their friends of the same year, so as to lead children to develop good living habits and guide children's relationship with the order of time and space; parents can also cultivate children's love and good character through storytelling, visits and other ways.
1-3 years old order, space sensitive period;
2-3 years old living habits, sensitive period of property rights;
Around the age of 3, you know how to inhibit the sensitive period;
3-4 years old stubborn, rebellious sensitivity period.
The critical period of the Code of Conduct
In this period, it is to teach children to establish a clear sense of behavior, know how to self-discipline to adapt to the social norms of life, parents should take their children to participate in more parent-child activities held in society, so that children learn not to be self-centered, parents should lead children to be friends with children of the same age, so as to exercise children's etiquette in daily life, develop independent ability, at the same time, children playing together can also train their sense of cooperation.
2-4 years of independent consciousness sensitive period;
2. Sensitive period of cooperation consciousness at 5-4 years old;
2-5 years old life norms, interpersonal relationship sensitive period;
3-6 years old civilized self-discipline sensitive period.
Read and write critical periods
The previous periods are general training of children's skills, this period, parents should be based on the child's interests, the use of image pictures to explain some interesting stories and meanings to children, slowly the image of the picture into easy to understand the text, literacy more, parents can provide children with some educational story books, initially to the child to establish a reading foundation, thereby expanding the child's reading coverage.
Around the age of 3 years old, looking at pictures and literacy sensitivity period;
3-4 years old reading picture storybook sensitive period;
4-6 years old writing sensitive period.
Critical periods of learning culture
During this period, children have a high interest in cultural knowledge, it is easy to learn many things, enhance the child's self-confidence and the motivation to recognize all things, and can choose the way suitable for their own growth in different things or in a complex environment, and what is useful to themselves, thus affecting the formation of children's life concepts.
1. 5 to 3 years old imitation sensitive period;
Sensitive period of music from 3 to 4 years old;
Sensitive period of painting from 4 to 5 years old;
3 to 6 years old idolatry sensitive period;
4 to 6 years old to explore things, mathematical concepts, aesthetic sensitivity period.
If the child misses these critical periods of growth, does not master some of the behavioral skills of this period, and then wants to learn these skills in the future, it will take more time and energy, and the critical period of the growth of these children is worth thinking and learning from every parent!