In 1987, a Dink couple in Hubei Province picked up a girl abandoned by their biological parents in the hospital, the couple's family conditions are not rich, but they do their best to give their adopted daughter the best.
The couple saved money and did all kinds of hard work, even for the girls to read a doctorate. However, more than twenty years later, the girl's biological parents came to confess, but the daughter resolutely refused.
In the eyes of outsiders, the girl's approach is too desperate, but only she herself knows that her biological parents should not recognize it, and the reason why she is so determined is because her biological parents' approach is too excessive.
"Forced to confess"
In 2015, a TV station broadcast a variety show, the female doctor Xiao Jingjing was invited by her sister to participate in the program, but Xiao Jingjing was abandoned by her parents since childhood, and the two sisters did not live together since childhood, and later learned that they were sisters by chance.
There is a special link set up in the program to help the contestants realize their dreams, and the sister wants her sister to recognize her parents, so she calls her sister to the stage.
Somehow, the guests on the show began to persuade Xiao Jingjing, the implication was to let her and her own biological parents recognize, when the host asked her if she was willing to recognize them, Xiao Jingjing resolutely expressed her reluctance.
Unexpectedly, the host has been aggressive, and the words are forced to recognize her and her biological parents. In this regard, Xiao Jingjing looked helpless and directly said that she only recognized the kindness of her adoptive parents.
She believes that her biological parents are only a few kilometers apart, but have never visited her for more than twenty years, so there is no need to recognize each other.
But the host still did not stop there, and even directly interrupted Xiao Jingjing to speak, and the program team had already invited her biological parents to the stage and stood behind Xiao Jingjing.
The moment Xiao Jingjing turned around, she looked at her biological parents and couldn't say a word, only a face full of embarrassment, and finally she was almost forced to take a family portrait.
As for why such an embarrassing scene occurred, why did Xiao Jingjing express her reluctance to recognize her biological parents so resolutely. The cause of everything has to start more than twenty years ago!
Abandoned since childhood
One winter in 1987, Xiao Jingjing was born in Xiaogan City, Hubei Province, and it is lamentable that xiao Jingjing was abandoned in the corner of the hospital by her biological parents not long after she was born.
It was a cold winter, Xiao Jingjing was a small baby still swaddled, so she was thrown down by her parents, if no one saw it, then her life might not last.
But perhaps God closed a window and opened a door for her, Xiao Jingjing met her adoptive parents Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan, who just arrived at the hospital that day, Qi Chunlan looked at the child in front of her, and her heart could not help but feel a little sad and distressed.
When Xiao Jingjing was found, she only had a simple mattress on her body, and the couple first took her to the hospital to inquire to see if they could find her biological parents, but after some searching, they did not find it. The two speculated that this should be a child who had been abandoned by his parents, and in that era, there seemed to be a lot of abandonment of children.
Qi Chunlan and his wife have been married for many years, but they have never had their own children, and the couple has always regretted in their hearts, and this sudden appearance of small life seems to give them a little hope for life.
After discussion, the couple decided to adopt the poor child together, and after the two went through the adoption procedures, they named the child Xiao Jingjing.
Qi Chunlan is disabled and has almost no ability to work, while Xiao Chongyang is a veteran who worked in a textile factory after retiring from the army, but his salary is relatively low, and he also has to bear his wife's medical expenses, so the family lives a very hard life.
But with the arrival of this little life, the couple not only has to provide her with food and clothing, but also provides her with schooling in the future, which will undoubtedly cost a lot of money, and for Xiao Chongyang and his wife, it is a huge amount of money.
Even so, the couple still chose to adopt, they can't bear to watch this child starve and freeze outside, even if they are a little tired in the future, they still want to give this child a good life.
The child's long body needs nutrition, but the conditions in the family are not good, there is no money to buy milk powder for the child to eat, and finally the number of people who can only cook rice paste for her to eat increases, and Xiao Chongyang's pressure is also increasing, because the family depends on him to support it.
But he was not crushed, but more and more motivated, so that his wife and daughter could live a better life, he worked hard. The couple took meticulous care of Xiao Jingjing, and gradually Jingjing reached the age of primary school.
I thought that the child went to primary school and the couple had more hope, but Xiao Chongyang became a laid-off worker. Although the wages of the textile factory are not much, but that is also the only source of income for the family, now laid off, how to feed the wife and daughter, which is difficult for Xiao Chongyang.
He once felt extremely weak, but once he saw his lovely daughter, Xiao Chongyang felt that there was a glimmer of hope in life, and he rekindled his fighting spirit.
After being laid off, Xiao Chongyang worked many jobs, earning a meager salary that barely made it possible to support the family. Later, by chance, Xiao Chongyang knew that carrying a gas canister could make money, so he started to carry a gas canister again, but he did not expect that this carrying was more than twenty years.
The mystery of life
Xiao Jingjing is a sensible child, her academic performance is also very good, she knows from a young age that the conditions at home are not good, so she always helps to share the housework in addition to studying.
Although Xiao Jingjing is particularly sensible, she can't help but be ridiculed and ridiculed by her classmates in the school, and many classmates seem to know her origins and always say that she is not born to her parents, which makes her feel sad.
Once, Xiao Jingjing listened to her classmates and finally couldn't help it, and when she came home from school, she ran to ask her mother Qi Chunlan if she was her parents' own child.
Qi Chunlan thought that Xiao Jingjing was still young, and did not want her to know her true identity, so she chose to hide it.
Although the family is not rich, it is also very happy because the family is together, but such a good life has not lasted forever.
In 2001, her mother Qi Chunlan went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor diagnosed that it was already advanced cancer, Xiao Jingjing and her father Xiao Chongyang were simply difficult to accept, how a good person said that cancer would get cancer!
The doctor sentenced her mother to "death", even if she had money, she could not cure it, not to mention that their family could not afford so much money to treat the disease. Qi Chunlan knew that his time was short, so he thought that it was time to tell her her daughter's life.
After discussing with her husband Xiao Chongyang, Qi Chunlan called Xiao Jingjing to her side and told her about her origins.
Xiao Jingjing listened to it for a while, and then she was full of sadness, she did not expect that the parents who had raised her for so many years, who were considerate and caring for herself, were not her own biological parents, and she was a little difficult to accept.
After Qi Chunlan informed her daughter of this news, she also ended her last wish, and her condition gradually deteriorated, and Qi Chunlan died not long after.
Before she died, she also told Xiao Jingjing that she must study hard. Xiao Jingjing has always been very sensible, she promised her mother that she would study hard, which is also the last memory left by her mother Qi Chunlan to Xiao Jingjing.
After his mother left, his father Xiao Chongyang took on the responsibility of two people, but fortunately, Xiao Jingjing understood things, and Xiao Chongyang had no complaints in his heart even if he was a little bitter and tired.
Study hard
Since then, Xiao Jingjing has studied even harder, she has not lived up to her mother's expectations, and then with excellent results, she has studied at a key high school.
In order to let his daughter go to a good university, the father took care of his daughter while working harder. In the impression, his father Xiao Chongyang was always carrying a gas canister, and his body gradually deteriorated, and his long-term bending was that his back was already a bit awkward.
Xiao Jingjing also felt special pain for her father, and she vowed that she must study hard to repay her father and reduce the pressure for her father.
Bitter people, the sky is not the limit! In 2005, Xiao Jingjing received an acceptance letter from Huazhong Agricultural University and became a veritable college student, and her father Xiao Chongyang finally showed a happy smile again, and these years of hard work were not in vain.
In college, Xiao Jingjing still did not give up hard study, she seized all her spare time, worked hard to study the credits of various courses, and repeatedly won the school's scholarship.
Not only that, Xiao Jingjing often works part-time around the school, and her living expenses basically rely on the money and scholarships earned by part-time work, and she will send more money to her father, which also reduces a lot of burden for the family.
In her senior year, Xiao Jingjing was given the opportunity to study at the school, and after completing her master's degree, she was sent to a Canadian university to continue her doctoral studies.
Refusal to recognize relatives
Just before Xiao Jingjing was preparing to go to Canada for a doctorate, people who claimed to be her biological parents came to the door. It turned out that Xiao Jingjing's PhD reading was a big news in the village, and the neighbors were discussing it, and her biological parents were not far from her adoptive parents' home, and naturally it also reached the ears of her biological parents.
The biological parents wanted to recognize each other, but Xiao Jingjing directly refused, and the birth mother felt sad and shed tears and said the bitterness of that year. It turned out that before Xiao Jingjing was born, there were already three sisters in the family, and her biological parents had always wanted a son because of the idea of preferring sons to daughters, but who knew that the fourth child was still a daughter.
The biological parents were not in good condition at that time, they felt very difficult to support four children, and this child was not the boy they wanted, so they cruelly abandoned Xiao Jingjing.
After that, life became better, so he thought of getting his daughter back, and he also gave half a million yuan to Xiao Jingjing's adoptive father Xiao Chongyang. Although Xiao Chongyang was very reluctant to give up on this daughter who had been raised for more than twenty years, after all, she was only a child who had been picked up, and now that her biological parents had found her, he had no reason to stop them from recognizing each other.
But unexpectedly, Jingjing ruthlessly rejected her biological parents, thinking that her parents abandoned her many years ago, thinking of her adoptive parents who had brought themselves up with so much hard work for so many years, Xiao Jingjing's heart was even more sour.
The home of their biological parents was obviously very close, but they had never come to find themselves in so many years, and Xiao Jingjing resolutely did not want to recognize them. But she never expected that she would be "tricked" by her sister into going on the show, and she was forced to recognize her biological parents on the show.
Since you choose to give birth to a child, you must take on the responsibility of being a parent, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is your own child. If the family is really difficult, you should think of other ways, but you should never just throw the baby on the side of the road, for a baby without the power of a chicken, such an act is tantamount to murder!
Those children who should have grown up under the care of their parents, because of their parents' prejudices, may ruin their entire lives, only hoping that no children will be abandoned by their parents again!
![After the husband and wife raised abandoned babies for 24 years and carried gas cans for doctoral studies, the biological parents took 500,000 yuan to recognize their relatives[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)