Parents are the ones who raise us, so when parents are old, children should take care of their parents until they are old and repay their kindness.
If a child is abandoned by his parents at an early age, does the child have the obligation to recognize them and support them after the parents are old? The answer is one-size-fits-all.
One morning in the winter of 1978, Xiao Chunyang, a cotton mill worker, was helping his wife, Qi Chunlan, to the hospital when they heard the cry of a baby. The two men sniffed and walked over to find a baby lying next to the trash can. The baby was wrapped in a worn-out blanket and was frozen purple. Qi Chunlan's heart fluttered, and he quickly held the baby in his arms. Xiao Chunyang also took off his coat and wrapped the baby around his body. The couple looked around, and there was no one. They understand that the baby may have been abandoned by the parents.
Mr. and Mrs. Xiao Chunyang carried the child home. In the following days, they asked the people around them to see who had lost their children? For several days, no one came to claim the child. This made Qi Chunlan and his wife still have a hint of joy in their hearts. Qi Chunlan was frail and sickly, and after marrying her husband, she never gave birth to a child. She wanted a child of her own. Qi Chunlan looked at the baby in her arms, and she already loved it, and had already regarded the child in her arms as her own child. If someone comes to claim it, she may not be willing to return it to others.
Subsequently, Mr. and Mrs. Qi Chunlan went through the adoption procedures for the baby, and the baby became the couple's child. They named the child Xiao Jingjing.
Qi Chunlan and his wife love Xiao Jingjing very much, what is delicious, they are reluctant to eat, and they are left for their daughter Xiao Jingjing to eat. The milk powder they buy for Xiaojingjing is the most expensive and the best, and they would rather live a little bitterly than let Xiaojingjing be wronged. Qi Chunlan and his wife were even closer to Xiao Jingjing than they were their own. Xiao Jingjing grew up healthy and happy under the care of Qi Chunlan and his wife.
In 2001, Qi Chunlan fell seriously ill. Before leaving, she consulted with her husband and wanted to tell her daughter Xiao Jingjing the truth. When Xiao Jingjing learned that she was not born to her parents, she was shocked and did not return to God for half a day. After she understood what was going on, she cried and said to Qi Chunlan, "I have only one parent in my life, that is, you, and I will never go to find my own biological parents." ”
A few days later, Qi Chunlan died of illness. Although Xiao Jingjing knew that she was not her parents' biological daughter, this did not affect her feelings for her parents in the slightest.
Xiao Jingjing is very sensible, filial piety, and studying very hard, and she was successfully admitted to Huazhong Agricultural University. Xiao Chunyang felt very relieved. Xiao Chunyang was originally a worker in a state-owned textile factory, but later the enterprise was restructured and he was laid off. Xiao Chunyang has no education or skills, and can only do some hard work. In order to earn money for his daughter's education, he carried gas cans for people every day. Years of hard work have done great damage to his body, and when Xiao Chunyang got up every day, his shoulders hurt badly, but when he thought of his daughter, he felt that his suffering was worth it.
Xiao Jingjing understands the hardships of her parents very well, in order to reduce her father's burden, she often uses her leisure time to distribute leaflets and tutor during school. At the same time, Xiao Jingjing studied very well and could get a scholarship every year. After she went to college, she rarely asked her father for money, and even used the money she earned from her part-time job to buy clothes for her father, buy a pair of shoes, etc., which made Xiao Chunyang feel very happy.
Xiao Jingjing was very good in her studies and got the opportunity to go to Canada to study for a doctorate. Before she was ready to go abroad for her PhD, a middle-aged man and woman came to the house.
After the woman saw Xiao Jingjing, she ran up and hugged her, crying and saying, "My child, my good daughter!" It turned out that they were Xiao Jingjing's biological parents. In the past, they failed in business and had no money to support their four children, so they were forced to abandon Xiao Jingjing. Now, they make money in business and want to meet their daughter. They brought 500,000 yuan in cash to thank Mr. and Mrs. Xiao Chunyang for taking care of their daughter.
Xiao Chunyang did not want to accept their money, but said: "Everything is up to Jingjing to decide!" Xiao Jingjing learned that her biological parents were only a few kilometers away from her, but for more than 20 years, they had never come to see her. Xiao Jingjing was very cold and hated her own parents, so she not only did not want to recognize them, but also took the initiative to take a few steps back and keep a distance from them.
The biological parents returned disappointed. Soon after, Xiao Jingjing went to Canada to study for a doctorate. After returning from school, Xiao Jingjing found a job in Shanghai. She took her adoptive father, Xiao Chunyang, and lived with her. Xiao Jingjing always refused to recognize her biological parents, but she had a good relationship with her sister, and later when her sister participated in a talent show, she also went to the scene to cheer her sister. Without Xiao Jingjing's knowledge, the program team also invited Xiao Jingjing's biological parents to the scene, hoping to use the influence of the program to promote Xiao Jingjing's recognition with her biological parents.
After her parents arrived at the scene, in the face of the host's persuasion and the expectations of her sister, parents and the audience, Xiao Jingjing was always difficult to untie the knot and refused to recognize her parents.
Frozen three feet, not a day's cold, if you want to dissolve Xiao Jingjing's inner cold ice, not overnight, this takes time, but also needs Xiao Jingjing's parents, do more things to soothe their daughter's hurt heart, I hope that one day, they can dissolve the cold ice in their daughter's heart.