When the child is only a few years old, it is best not to use the way of coaxing the child to obey, which will actually cause the child to cause some psychological effects in the future. For many people of the older generation, they will even feel that such behavior is actually nothing for children, in fact, it is also subtly causing some psychological shadows to children, so that the growth of children in the later stage can be imagined, and it is very much worth the loss.
It's not that cajoling can't be applied, but it depends on what kind of situation, and even the number of times it is used. These have a relatively large impact on children, so they can try not to do it. At first, parents may also be out of some educational behavior for their children, but the result after the fact is also unimaginable. Although the child is still young, it may be difficult to realize, but in fact, it will also germinate a feeling in his psychology, that is, a fear of the outside world.
In fact, the most difficult thing to tell is that many people will use such a way to coax children, but after the fact, when the child has been crying and making trouble, he will tell the child that it is a joke, and he did not know enough about the outside world for the child at the beginning, after the first stimulation, it may cause some irreparable shadows in the psychology to a great extent, if this is for some problems caused by the growth of the child in the later stage, then it is conceivable that the parents' own behavior is very angry.
At the heart of life itself is the desire for a safer environment, especially for the growth of children. Therefore, there is no need for some other special ways to make the child obedient, and even these ways may cause some irreparable pain, which is actually not good for the child, and may also cause some psychological great impact. Therefore, it is best to have a more positive attitude to face, and even to a certain extent, the child can be guided positively.