Talking to the baby the baby is always the same as not hearing, and does not answer, this situation makes many parents feel very anxious. Some parents think that the baby is not intentional? Or is it because your baby is not concentrating? In fact, children can feel the signals sent by their parents, but to let children "hear", they need to pay attention to these 3 points.
1. Give instructions correctly
How to give instructions to the child is a method, perhaps the parents after the instruction to see the child has no reaction, they can not wait to give the child a second command, the third command. Some parents even do it directly to the baby, so that the baby will know that as long as I don't do it myself, someone will help me do it, so he will not listen to your instructions.
The correct way to give the command is that after the command, you need to give the child time to react, such as leaving a small pause, do not rush. As soon as the parent stops, the baby will look up at you, and when he has eye contact with you, you will tell him what you want him to do.
Because first, his attention is not on you, and it is useless for you to say more, and second, you have said too much, so much that he has not finished listening to this sentence, and the parents have finished the main points of the speech. In addition, if the sound is too small or too far away when the command is given, the child will not be able to hear it, so you can go up to him and crouch down and tell him.
2. Determine the purpose and tone of the instruction
Many parents will say things like "Okay, baby" when talking to their children. But sometimes parents don't really ask their children for advice, but want their children to do what they say.
At this time, parents should stop saying things like asking for advice. Although parents who have this kind of behavior, they hope to establish a more equal relationship with their children, hope to seek their children's opinions, and can reach an agreement with their children.
But in the case that you obviously want your child to do the same, don't talk to the child in this euphemistic tone, the child does not know that the parent has so much careful thought, he can only receive the literal meaning of the parent's statement. So don't make it harder for you to communicate with your child.
3. Adhere to principles and do not compromise
When parents say it many times, the child still cries and makes a fuss about how to keep doing it. At this time, parents must not compromise and give in, because if you give in, it will confuse him, and the baby is very smart.
As long as it is successful once, the baby will know that through the method of crying, he can get what he wants, and no matter what happens in the future, once the parents do not allow it, the child will repeat the trick. So we have to stick to the principle from beginning to end.
And the whole family should unite the front, otherwise the child will use your differences to find a breakthrough, but parents also try not to lose their temper with the child, tantrums will only make the situation worse and worse, so be sure to stay calm, tantrums are useless, but when he grows up, he will also use tantrums to solve problems like you.