preface
Filial piety is a truth that the Chinese nation has respected since ancient times, and filial piety is also a kind of beauty of the Chinese nation. However, human emotions are inherently complex. Parents dare not forget the grace of childbearing, and the grace of nurturing cannot be forgotten. But if the grace of birth and nurture is taken apart, which side is filial piety to be fulfilled?
In fact, the ancients have long given us the answer: biological parents are greater than people, and parenting parents are greater than heaven. Compared with man and heaven, nature is far from reaching. As an ancient Chinese who pays attention to the inheritance of blood, he can also retreat in the face of the grace of nurturing, which is enough to prove the complexity of human emotions.
Twenty-five years ago, a girl was abandoned, and twenty-five years later, she encountered such a problem. How did she answer?
"I don't want to," Xiao Jingjing
Xiao Jingjing's story also begins with an episode of "China Dream Show" broadcast by Zhejiang Satellite TV a few years ago.
In the August 2015 issue of the "China Dream Show", there was a woman participating in the show, and there was a link in the middle that the program side could help the contestants who participated in the show to complete a dream.
The woman's dream is to hope that her sister can recognize her family and call her parents "mom and dad" for a lifetime. However, to the surprise of all the audience, the woman's sister kept laughing and saying "I don't want to" in the face of Zhou Libo's aggressive tone, and her sister was called Xiao Jingjing.
When she heard her sister who was related to her make this request, Xiao Jingjing said that she did not want to call them "Mommy and Daddy"; when her biological parents walked behind her, she still said "I don't want to". In the face of Zhou Libo's ruthless language, she did not bow her head, and she did not have a soft heart in the face of the tears of her biological parents, because she was a calm and grateful person.
Xiao Jingjing was abandoned tragically
Why is her answer unexpected? It is because she chose to tell the truth in the face of countless audiences and the ruthless and unjust rebukes that may come, and because this truth is the answer that all who know the story will agree.
In 1987, Xiao Chongyang took his wife Qi Chunlan to the hospital to grab medicine, and Xiao Ser's cold wind wrapped the couple forward, their figures were extremely thin, but very warm.
When they finished their medication, they heard the baby's cry outside the hospital and followed the sound to find that it was a discarded baby girl. In such cold weather, who would be willing to abandon the baby on the ground?
Instead of sending the baby back to the hospital, they took it home themselves because they had a little selfishness, and that was not having a child of their own.
After raising the baby for a while, they still did not find out who was looking for the lost child, so the couple officially named the baby girl Xiao Jingjing. The former family of two has a new life to join, which is more warm and more difficult.
Because Qi Chunlan's body was not good, the burden of the family was all on Xiao Chongyang's body. In order to take care of his daughter and sick wife given by Heaven, Xiao Chongyang found several points of work in addition to his own work. Not only did he pull the scooter, but he also did the work of delivering gas canisters.
Although Xiao Jingjing's family lived poorly, they also spent a happy childhood under the love of their parents. In addition, Xiao Jingjing is not only smart but also very sensible, and after going home to show her parents her awards, she will also help her mother to do some housework, so that her well-behaved daughter makes them feel that all their efforts are worth it.
However, when Xiao Jingjing was in junior high school, her mother died because she could not withstand the torture of illness. Before his death, Qi Chunlan informed Xiao Jingjing of the information she had tried so hard to conceal: it turned out that she was not their own daughter.
Qi Chunlan did not want to leave Xiao Jingjing with a lie, but Xiao Jingjing, who was only fourteen years old, had only one thought, that is, her mother was about to die.
Even if they are not biological, their adoptive parents are much better than their biological parents who have never met.
Compensation of 500,000 yuan
A few years later, Xiao Jingjing became a medical student with her own efforts and obtained the opportunity to study abroad for a doctorate. Xiao Chongyang was very relieved to see that his daughter was so outstanding now, but when Xiao Jingjing was about to go abroad to study, his biological parents came to the door.
It turned out that his own parents were never at the end of the world, but they were close to him. At that time, they already had three daughters, and they were the fourth daughter. However, her birth mother only wanted a son, so even in the cold weather, she resolutely abandoned Xiao Jingjing outside the hospital.
Now I heard that Xiao Jingjing had become a well-known prospective doctor, and when the future was bright, she found the door. Once the two families may have passed by or even said hello in a certain alley, but they did not recognize each other, and now that they saw Xiao Jingjing so excellent, they had another thought.
They took half a million yuan to the door, told them about their helplessness, and said that the 500,000 yuan was used as compensation for Xiao Jingjing, hoping that Xiao Jingjing could return to their big family.
Xiao Chongyang looked at such a picture and fell into a dilemma, his own conditions really could not make Jingjing live well, but Jingjing also grew up watching himself.
Xiao Jingjing refused her parents' request without hesitation, and for her, from the moment she was thrown on a snowy day, she broke off from the parents who gave birth to her. The only parents she recognized were Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan, and there was no one else.
Although Xiao Jingjing refused the request of her biological parents, she had a good relationship with her sister who was related by blood, and the two often communicated.
Therefore, after rejecting her parents for two years, her sister invited her to the "China Dream Show" on the pretext of helping her participate in the show, but she never knew that her sister was making herself recognized with her parents.
Faced with such a sudden demand, in the face of Zhou Libo's moral kidnapping, Xiao Jingjing still kept her head clear and told her unwillingness over and over again.
End
At the end of the show, Xiao Jingjing just smiled and took a family portrait with her parents, but never let go of her desire to recognize them. When she worked, she also immediately took Xiao Chongyang to her side, and after that, the father and daughter enjoyed the joy of heaven.
Xiao Jingjing's "I don't want to" is not because of cold heart and cold feelings, but because it is too heavy on love and righteousness. In her more than twenty years of growth, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan saw and remembered their nurturing grace in her eyes, and knew that this was a favor that could not be repaid no matter what.
The grace of procreation is pregnant in October, and the grace of nurturing is the work of a lifetime.