The TV series "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing, Tong Yao, Zhang Songwen, Feng Shaofeng, Lu Siyu and so on is currently being broadcast.
Many people estimate that like me, chasing drama while scolding.
The plot of "Heart Residence" is very dog bloody, how much dog blood is there?
Haiqing's daughter-in-law from abroad married into the Gu family for the sake of shanghai hukou "with the ball". After her husband's death, she was "self-reliant" and opened a nursing home with her upstart friend Zhan Xiang.
She is an independent woman in the eyes of the screenwriter.
It's not about telling us that women want to be independent, it's about how important it is to have an upstart friend in difficult times.
The sister-in-law Gu Qingyu, played by Tong Yao, earns tens of millions of dollars a year, and is wary of Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign daughter-in-law, but does everything to please her husband Shi Yuan, who has nothing and shoulders millions of debts. In the end, he ended up being divorced.
This tells us that whether male or female, "kneeling and licking is useless".
Gu Qingyu's cousin Gu Xin, for the sake of his career, decided to abandon his school flower girlfriend who had been talking for ten years and married the daughter of a high-ranking official, but after his father-in-law got off the horse, he went to his ex-girlfriend in the blink of an eye, hoping to reunite with his ex-girlfriend. After the ex-girlfriend refused, she cheated on Feng Xiaoqin's sister Feng Xixi shortly after her wife gave birth to a child.
Looking at all kinds of the drama, it is really ruining the three views, full of negative energy. The three marriages in the play are even more lamentable.
The exchange of sincerity for sincerity is the true meaning of happiness
Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei's marriage is definitely more calculating than sincere. As a foreign daughter-in-law and having children when she was young, Gu Lei was already her best choice.
Although Gu Lei is not a skilled person, his family conditions are very good even among Shanghai natives. Gu Lei's father is a retired teacher, and the pension is also very well-equipped and easy to get along with. The sister-in-law Gu Qingyu is a career-oriented strong woman, earning tens of millions of dollars a year, and often helps the family in the economy.
Feng Xiaoqin actually did not love Gu Lei much, Gu Lei was just a springboard for her to come to the big city to gain a foothold, and Gu Lei's fraudulent marriage was the most powerful evidence.
Two people who truly love each other will be honest with each other, even if their past is very bad, they do not want to deceive each other.
Shi Yuan was like this to Gu Qingyu, even if the gap between himself and Gu Qingyu was very large, he never hid his past from Qingyu.
Therefore, the marriage of Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei was actually full of calculations from the beginning, which also cast a shadow on their marriage.
Gu Qingyu saw too clearly, so he would do everything he could to guard against Feng Xiaoqin. This also makes Feng Xiaoqin's little life not comfortable, she wants to buy a house, Gu Qingyu does not borrow money.
The marriage of Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei tells us that exchanging sincerity for sincerity is the last word.
Door-to-door pairing is the premise of talking about marriage
Gu Xin and Ge Yue's marriage was full of tragedy from the beginning.
The combination of the daughter of a high-ranking official and the son of a commoner at first glance reminds zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei of "In the World".
A woman's low marriage, unless she meets a man of character like Zhou Bingyi, is a tragedy.
When Hao Dongmei first married Zhou Bingyi, her parents were still not rehabilitated, but Zhou Bingyi's family never looked down on Hao Dongmei, even if Hao Dongmei's parents were reinstated as officials, Zhou Bingyi's father did not look up, and it was this kind of humble spirit that cultivated such a good son as Zhou Bingyi.
Good tutoring is the foundation of a good marriage. Zhou Zhigang's family education of Zhou Bingyi will never allow Zhou Bingyi to do such an ugly thing as cheating in marriage that harms customs and customs.
Gu Xin married Ge Yue from the beginning, directed at Ge Yue's father's resources. Marrying Ge Yue is equivalent to having the opportunity to rise to the top and get rich, and you can live in a mansion with tens of millions of dollars in less struggle for decades.
When Gu Xin's mother asked Gu Xin why she broke up with her girlfriend of ten years, Gu Xin said: "My father is the director of the Land Planning Bureau."
Gu Xin's attitude towards Ge Yue was obvious, that is, he didn't love.
However, Gu Xin's parents did not correct their son's behavior in time. They think that their son has no problem with dumping his girlfriend of ten years for the daughter of the director, but on the contrary, they think that their son has the ability to marry the daughter of a high-ranking official and show off everywhere.
The child who is educated by the family in this way has been broken from the root, and the initiator is his parents.
Do not do evil for the sake of being small, and do not do it with the smallness of good.
When Ge Yue's father got off the horse, the family exposed their true faces and satirized their relatives in various ways. Gu Xin allowed his mother to reprimand Ge Yue and turn a deaf ear.
The most excessive thing is that after his father-in-law lost power, Gu Xin ran to show his overtures to his ex-girlfriend, asked for a reunion, and then cheated on Feng Xixi after being rejected.
If you want to choose the most scummy man in "Heart Residence", Gu Xin is absolutely not to give in.
Gu Xin and Ge Yue's marriage tells us: Girls should not easily marry low.
Otherwise, when you meet Gu Xin like this, your life will be ruined.
Marriage is not "poverty alleviation"
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are the only ones who love each other but fail to have a good ending.
The so-called economic base determines the superstructure, and the mismatch between Qingyu and Shi Yuan is reflected in all aspects.
Senior officials of foreign enterprises VS small tour guides, graduates of famous schools VS secondary schools, and well-off families vs high debts.
If it weren't for Gu Qingyu always having a childhood filter on Shi Yuan, the two would never have been able to be together if their conditions were thousands of miles apart.
So even if the two are crazy show love in the sweet period, we viewers always have only one feeling: "Not strong".
This feeling is not caused by the actor's acting skills, but the director deliberately created a "feeling of not matching".
Even if the two compromise with each other, but not to match is not to match, this gap will not be narrowed because the two love each other.
Seeking perfection does not make a marriage happy.
Shi Yuan's biggest problem is inferiority, and all his conflicts with Qingyu begin with his inferiority. And Qingyu is a very clean and arrogant person in her bones, even if she can't cover up no matter how much she "pretends".
Her initial help to Shi Yuan was to directly stuff money, she felt that she had done enough, but in Shi Yuan's eyes, her behavior was no different from that of a beggar.
When Qingyu finally understood that it was better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish, it was already too late.
The more excellent Qing Yu is, the more inferior Shi Yuan is. Shi Yuan can only live easily if he finds a girl with the same conditions as him and lets him not disguise himself.
The two eventually divorced, and Qingyu also paid for his impulsiveness.
The marriage of Qingyu and Shi Yuan tells us that marriage is not "poverty alleviation".
Endless concessions don't buy happiness.
After watching these three marriages in "Heart Residence", I have to sigh: really don't easily step into marriage.
I also finally realized that the essence of marriage is an economic act based on love.
The combination of two suitable people is also the integration of resource allocation of two families to maximize economic benefits, which is a benign development.
Two people with similar values can attract each other, influence each other, form a 1+1>2 effect, support each other, and fight against this cruel world.