It is said that there is a warm man in the family, is it what every mother expects? Indeed, there is a warm man in the family, which actually means that the boy in our family is caring and sensible, has a gentle personality, and is a very good character.
It seems that it is obviously some more positive, evaluation of children, but in fact, in real life, if we really raise a boy to be a warm man, then he may suffer a lot in the future days.
Maybe when I say this, there are many mothers who are not convinced. So let's speak with facts. It is said that several children play together, but there are always some children who are mischievous and mischievous, and seem to be incompatible with others.
If our child happens to be a warm man, then he may get along better with this out-of-place child, and the reason why he gets along better is precisely because he can accept what others cannot accept, he can understand others, and he cannot understand.
There is a little boy in the kindergarten called Tong Tong, he is a typical warm man, when a nasty child goes to grab other children's toys, other children will cry and make trouble, and even complain to the teacher, but Tong Tong shows enough understanding for others to steal their toys, but in fact, the heart is uncomfortable, he will even secretly cry for this. This is the result of a thick child, which is inevitably painful.
Therefore, those "little warm men" in our mouths are really not the direction that our parents are committed to cultivating. The reason why such children are popular is mostly because they are too soft and not aggressive to people.
It can be said that the sensible, obedient, humble and considerate "warm man" advocated by mothers is actually the destructive growth of transgenderism. Real boys are supposed to be wild and competitive. Those stinky boys, those hormonal boys, are the boys that our society needs, not the psychologically twisted perverted appearance that has been suppressed for a long time.
In addition, boys should be group animals, and boys together is a state of competing for resources, but your children are too warm, it is difficult to participate in the boy's game, and it is very easy to become an isolated object of peers.
Therefore, we do not deny that warm men are not good, but this kind of warm men should have sharp fangs as the foundation. Warmth depends on the object, facing one's friends can be warm, but facing one's own enemies or opponents must be full of strength and strength.
If we repeatedly emphasize that children "value peace" and blindly tolerate it. That's not soft, it's bullies! In fact, the real boys' education should be wolf-like, should be brave, tenacious, responsible, and understand the bottom line of right and wrong.
If the child's heart cannot be sunny and optimistic, cannot adhere to principles, does not have the ability to deal with people and the ability to fight for survival, then his future is the sheep in the sheep pen, it is bitter, and it is the existence of the life force that has been cut off.
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