Tong Tong was always unhappy after entering the kindergarten, and when her mother asked why, Tong Tong snuggled up in her mother's arms and said, "Mom, others don't play with me." "It's really painful to listen to the mother!"
Yes, heartache alone is not enough, but also to guide the child, to help the child to become a happy member of the small community. Before solving this problem, let's first analyze the causes of the formation.
First, when others are good to him, the child takes it for granted
The relationship between people is actually a kind of courtesy exchange, there are comings and goings, and the friendship between each other can be established. Although children are still young, there are also such problems. But some children. Spoiled at home, when you are outside, you don't know how to be humble to others, and even treat others as good to you
Stand to reason. This mentality has led to many cases in which other children are reluctant to play with their own children.
Second, arrogant and arrogant, can not feel empathy
Some children are particularly arrogant and swan-like. Since you are not willing to lower your posture, then other children naturally do not get along with you, leaving us to play with ourselves. In fact, this kind of can be regarded as being "isolated" by others, but also our children have their own personality.
Third, there is no sense of cooperation
In the family is generally a child, so his sense of teamwork ability to cooperate with others is of course very weak, but some wise parents will take their children out of the house, other children play, but if in the early days, if their children do not get training in this area, then when entering a group, it is likely that there will be a poor sense of cooperation, which is also one of the main reasons for being excluded by children.
Fourth, children have a quick temper and love to scold and beat people
Some children may be affected by the family, the personality is more urgent, and there is a situation of scolding people with their mouths open, and hitting people with their hands, then it is difficult for children to get better friends in the small society of kindergarten or school, and because of their bad habits, they may also be suppressed by the collective circle, or excluded.
Fifth, do not know how to share
If your child does not have the consciousness of sharing what he likes, then this is not easy to accept in the group circle, for example, some children like to eat snacks, others look at the eyes, no matter what he wants, he will say nothing to others.
In fact, smart parents can educate their children in this way on weekdays, and when children like to eat a certain food, they can give some to children, which can be conducive to exchanging friends.
In short, as a parent, you can't accompany your child for life, so take advantage of your child's young age to teach your child some ways and means of interacting with others, that is, social skills, which will lay a good foundation for your child's life.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.