After "The World of Man" was broadcast on Jiangsu Satellite TV, it caused a great response, and even some viewers felt that they were not addicted after watching the TV series, and also bought the original book to read carefully.
This drama is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the 3 hidden principles of life must be understood, and understanding it means that you will take a lot of detours.
1. Brothers and sisters who are close to each other, the feelings will fade after marriage
With the opening of the two-child policy, many families are mostly two children, parents think that one child is too lonely, and two companions will not be so lonely in this world. This kind of thinking is beautiful, and there is also a strong family relationship between brothers and sisters in childhood, but is it really like this after starting a family?
Look at the truth in "The World of Man", Zhou Bingkun was arrested by Feng Huacheng's involvement, and who was supporting the entire Zhou family? Not Zhou Bingyi, not Zhou Rong, but Zhou Bingkun's lover Zheng Juan.
Zhou Bingkun injured Luo Shibin and went to prison, but Zheng Juan took Zhou Cong to stay strong. Zhou Bingyi hindered his identity and political future and did not help Zhou Bingkun, Zhou Rong was weak in heart, and usually paid a salary to help Zheng Juan.
What about the three brothers and sisters? When there is really difficulty, it is still the lover around you. Don't say anything about the deep brotherhood of childhood, the cruel reality tells us that brothers and sisters have their own small families after marriage, and the deepest feelings slowly fade.
When the parents are there, the home is there; once the parents are gone, the brothers and sisters move around less. At this time, people have reached middle age, they only care about their own small home, and their feelings are slowly estranged.
2. Help friends, have a bottom line
In the eyes of the people around him, Zhou Bingkun is a warm-hearted person, but I would say that he is a "rotten good man" without compromise.
Man, it is right to be a good person, but to be a good person without a bottom line is a big mistake.
Zhou Bingkun let the Guoqing and Wu Qian families, who had no place to live, live in their old houses. When his family needed to move back in, he was too unwilling to go, and specially bought fruit and canned food to explain his intentions.
Wu Qian was not only not grateful, but also scolded Zhou Bingkun. In the face of Wu Qian's unreasonable demands like a shrew, Zhou Bingkun, an old and good man, was not willing to go to his conscience and helped find a job for Guoqing.
After being deceived, Zhou Bingkun took the money back through zhou Bingyi's help and let their family live in Zheng Juan's house. This friendship is already very rare, and it is enough to help people to help this part. However, the next photon film is facing demolition, and Yu Hong asks Zheng Juan to transfer the house to herself so that she can have the qualification to divide the house.
Yu Hong's face was thick enough, but Zhou Bingkun did not know how to refuse, and there was no bottom line. Catching up with the sleeping rail and dying, he looked at Yu Hong pitifully and unconditionally agreed to various requests, and it was no wonder that Qiao Chunyan would say to Hong, "You can get a house if you sell miserably".
To have compassion for a friend is kindness, but it is too good to be measured. He should stand in Zheng Juan's position to consider the problem, after all, this house also belongs to the light, rather than just letting Zheng Juan take the idea.
Zhou Bingkun can completely let Yu Hong live in Zheng Juanfen's new house, even if he has lived for free until he is old, he will not have to give his family house to Yu Hong.
Friends should help must help, after all, everyone has a time to suffer, but the help that crosses the bottom line must learn to refuse. Helping others in a measured way is to protect yourself, and it is also a reason not to let your friends gain inches.
3. In the face of children who are not out, parents should examine themselves more
There is a scene in "The World of Man" that is particularly touching, when Zhou Father took a large son to visit the New Year. Father Zhou took the lead and walked in the front, and his face was filled with an unstoppable sense of pride.
Relatives and friends all praised Zhou Bingyi's ability to become a high official, and also married the daughter of the governor, and even more praised Zhou Rong's appearance and was admitted to Peking University, and the poet Feng Huacheng was a talented and beautiful person. Father Zhou listened, and his heart was even more proud. But no one praised Zhou Bingkun, and Zhou Bingkun couldn't hang on to his face and pulled Zheng Juan out.
Father Zhou, like most Chinese parents, thinks that if a child is admitted to a good university and has a good job, he will not look at the child who can only walk around his parents without a job, and in the end, Father Zhou is still eccentric.
In a father-son conversation, the contradiction between Zhou Bingkun and Zhou's father completely broke out, and Zhou Bingkun cried and said, "Have you considered my feelings?" They are all born by one father and one mother, and they are all raised by one father and one mother, and I want to satisfy my parents in this life. Instead of comforting me, you sprinkle salt and say whatever is ugly. ”
Father Zhou shouted angrily, "Is it a fact? ”
"Should the facts be said? Should the truth be told? ”
In this family, Zhou Bingkun was too depressed! In the face of the excellent Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, his heart is also eager to get the approval of his parents, and he does not want his parents to compare himself with others. Unfortunately, in the eyes of parents, there are only children who are out of the ordinary, and children who are not out of work are often ignored and their self-esteem is trampled.
This scene in the world is really a lesson for us, and the children with scenery are "fragrant" even if they are not around; the children who are not out of the world are also despised by being with them day after day, which is really ironic.
But Father Zhou forgot that it was this child who did not show up to support this family. Zheng Juan served her in-laws in place, and Zhou Bingkun was also trying to make her parents enjoy their old age comfortably. It is the efforts of Zhou Bingkun and his wife that make this family complete.
I hope that every parent can realize that the fact that children who have a career do not mean filial piety, and children who have not been admitted to college and have no good job stay with their parents does not mean incompetence. Everyone has their own mission in life, and it is also a great blessing to stay in a small city for a lifetime and earn a little money to live a safe life.
People must learn to be content, accept the mediocrity of children, and accept the ordinariness of life, which is what parents need to face up to most.