When we were young, we were indoctrinated by our parents with the idea that "men and women are different", reminding us to keep our distance at all times and to clean ourselves and love ourselves. So most of us have a sense of distance from the opposite sex, and some don't even have the courage to look at the opposite sex, let alone talk to each other.
But we always need to cooperate in life, it will also involve the cooperation of the opposite sex, for example, when we are studying, the teacher does not often arrange boys and girls as the same table, on the one hand, we can help each other, on the other hand, we can also have a care, exercise ourselves to try to get along with the opposite sex.
As we grow up, the secretion of male hormones and estrogens in the body will grow more and more vigorous with age, and it will slowly weaken in middle age. Therefore, we are in the young age of the opposite sex heart is very likely, but if you are already a couple or have been married people, please note that do not take too much initiative on other opposite sexes, otherwise it will really become a stumbling block in your love or marriage, please leave your preferences to your own object, please also collect your own "central air conditioning" personality, not everyone can get your gentleness, otherwise this gentleness will be cheap.
If you don't know if you're "crossing the line" in a heterosexual relationship, let me list a few points to warn you:
1. Frequent interaction with each other, the opposite sex alone for longer and longer to meet
We will not have anything to do and just find someone to chat with ourselves, we all like to chat with like-minded friends, taste tea, which is a very normal thing. If you always want to chat with a person of the opposite sex who has nothing to do with yourself too often, you will have a heart-pounding feeling, because we always say "talk about love by talking about it"; if you don't restrain your words and deeds, sooner or later something will happen, don't wait until the big things can't make up for it, and then hate the small things.
If the time of interaction with each other is getting longer and longer, then the time to meet will definitely be longer and longer, because I always think that it is a very happy and happy thing to finally find my own "Bole", and it is no way to meet each other more to understand and understand. But the opposite sex is the opposite sex after all, and the truth of "same repulsion and absorption" believes that everyone can understand, so the sense of distance between the opposite sex should be maintained at all times.
2, more than the identity of excessive care and care, there are endless words
Usually, we don't care too much about and care about the people around us, often simple greetings, try our best to help. Our bodies are like insulators, and we rarely feel together. For example, if others are sad and sad, we can only comfort them; if others talk about a joke, we will only laugh and forget it. Therefore, other people's affairs are only flesh and skin in our eyes, and there are not many interests and hobbies.
If one day you suddenly start to talk about someone more, the amount of talking every day is three or four times more than usual, and the other party can arouse your interest, you should reflect on whether it is more than a friend to chat with each other. If you have that subtle feeling in your heart, you should stop the loss in time, after all, this is not a good start.
3. Always want to tease each other
In life, it is often "well water does not violate the river water" to people, they are all speaking bluntly, sometimes they will make a few jokes, but they will not be bored enough to tease each other, because some people think that this is what couples should do, teasing is sometimes physical contact, if you play, it will bring an ambiguous picture to others. People in front of ordinary friends of the opposite sex are able to move their mouths and do not move, because there is physical contact with people who are not their favorite, and there is resistance in the heart, and it is particularly strong, so this point should also be noted.
Conclusion:
In addition to love at first sight, if there are other ways to like people in love, it depends on "talking". If you have an object, then please pay attention to the words of other opposite sexes, moderate chat, moderate getting along, do not be unscrupulous, there are many temptations in reality, but also learn self-discipline, give your lover exclusive tenderness, rather than giving all other members of the opposite sex.