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Gu Qingyu in "Heart Residence" is a career-oriented strong woman, she is smart, beautiful, career development is smooth, rich assets, is a very small woman.
Her career is very smooth, but the feelings are not very smooth, she keeps falling in love, and then breaks up for various reasons, the time of love is very short, there is a feeling of playing the world, and she is not in a hurry to get married.
There is a person around her who is enthusiastically pursuing her, Zhan Xiang, if you look at it from the perspective of wealth, they are a pair of equal opponents, Zhan Xiang is an upstart, when he was young, he made a fortune by buying a house in Shanghai and became a house brother. Life is worry-free, living on rent.
He liked Gu Qingyu very much, regarded her as a goddess, and had been pursuing her around her for many years, but she had always regarded him as a good friend and never agreed to be his girlfriend.
When she and her first love Shi Yuan met again, she chose a poor and white Shi Yuan, and married him, her choice made many people feel confused, Ming Zhanxiang is the most suitable for her to live, but to choose a person who is not the right door, is this not self-inflicted?
Gu Qingyu did not choose Zhan Xiang, in fact, there is a reason.
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First of all, Zhan Xiang does not conform to her beautiful imagination of a lover, which has a lot to do with her first love.
The lover of her dreams is like her first love many years ago, who loves to wear a white shirt, can play the piano, speaks English very well, stands in the sun and shines, and personable is what she likes.
Obviously, Zhan Xiang is not personable, and although he has money blessings, he cannot cover up his lack of culture. He went out to work in his teens, but Gu Qingyu was in school when he was a teenager.
A person who came out early to work has no ink in his stomach. And Gu Qingyu is a very temperamental and cultured person, she likes people like her, so that at least two people have something to talk about, and Zhan Xiang together, it is always impossible to resonate.
She likes to watch literary movies, and he thinks that kind of movies are boring. She loved the concerts he listened to and dozed off.
Secondly, she is not short of money, nor does she rely on men, and it is precisely because of this that Zhan Xiang, as a rich person, has no advantage at all in her.
On Gu Qingyu's birthday, Zhan Xiang gave her a very valuable necklace, she opened it and only looked at it and called him to reject him, saying that this gift is very valuable, you know I will not receive it.
It can be seen how difficult it is for Zhan Xiang to please her, and there is no way to please her if she has money alone, and to please her with something that is not lacking in a person naturally cannot make her happy.
What Gu Qingyu wants is feelings, emotional resonance, emotional value, and conversations between each other, obviously, Zhan Xiang has nothing to talk to her.
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In the end, Shi Yuan was a knot in her heart for many years, a dream she couldn't let go.
Gu Qingyu often recalls the scene when she was a teenager, when she and Shi Yuan were together, it was so beautiful, they sat in front of the piano and played the piano, although later they separated and lost contact, but this scene has always been in her memory.
She had a knot in her heart, where had Shi Yuan gone, why hadn't he contacted himself, why hadn't he come to find himself, had he forgotten himself? Until he reappears, her heart will still be moved by him.
When they meet again, the two people are already very different identities, one is a workplace elite, living an exquisite life, and the other is very depressed, completely devoid of the personable persona of that year.
Even so, she still fell in love with him again, in her eyes, he was still so handsome, he was only because of the sick mother in the family, so it led to today's situation, it was not his fault, she felt that she wanted to save him.
Because she herself is not short of money at all, it doesn't matter whether Shi Yuan has money or not, she loves this person, not what she has in him, which is one of the main reasons why she chose Shi Yuan decisively.
She saw the gap between them, saw his mother's power, saw that there would be a lot of friction in the future to live together, but she didn't care, she felt that none of this was a problem.
She has no love for Zhan Xiang, and no matter how good he is to her, she will not have love for him. He has love for Shi Yuan, and even if he is very depressed now, it will not affect her love for him.
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The fate of Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan has long been predestined, and it can be said that this life has been cut continuously, which can be seen from their reunion after many years.
In fact, she is not very confident in this relationship in her heart, knowing that the two people have been separated by a world, but she is willing to try, which is like completing an unfinished dream.
Shi Yuan gave her the feeling that Zhan Xiang could not give her, even if Zhan Xiang was really super good to her, so in love with her, and did so many things for her, if she was with him, the future would definitely be very easy, at least there would not be too many troubles in life.
But no love is no love, no matter how reluctant is barely able to come, if Gu Qingyu is not so good, if she is still worried about food and clothing, then she may fall in love with Zhan Xiang. But that's just if, obviously, this assumption doesn't hold.
Therefore, Gu Qingyu chose Shi Yuan, it was inevitable, even if Shi Yuan did not appear, she would not choose Toxiang.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"